Lisa Lampanelli, a comedian who’s the self-proclaimed “queen of mean”*, is over on Twitter being a real idiot. Her psuedo provocative act is tiring, and this is really, really not OK. No matter how many times she talks about how she slept with a black man, the n-word is still off-limits. Let me try to put this in terms she might understand — it’s like how if you fuck a fourth-tier Kennedy, you don’t just get to start showing up at Hyannis Port. It’s something you’re born into.