At CPAC, Women Are Never Victims and Government Is the Real Threat
PoliticsNATIONAL HARBOR, MD—Everyone was confused at “How to Win Women,” a CPAC panel originally scheduled for the afternoon of February 22. It was unclear whether or not the panel, hosted by the Independent Women’s Forum (IWF), was going to happen, or whether or not it had been silently abandoned. The volunteers staffing CPAC were desperately looking for the speaker and, after about half hour, the audience gave up and the room emptied.
The panel eventually reappeared on Friday’s agenda, a day later. Its hosts apologized for the confusion, saying that CPAC’s organizers had listed the wrong time and date for the panel. It was an inauspicious start for the paltry few panels dedicated to women at CPAC (three by my count and that includes one on abortion).
Hosted by the IWF’s Patrice Lee Onwuka and Ashley Carter, the session was a fast-paced, PowerPoint slide-filled, sprint through what women really care about. Women care about many things Cartner and Onwuk assured, but women, they argued, are deeply uninterested in what they called “women’s issues,” a kind of shorthand for reproductive rights, gender equality, and equal pay. “‘Women’s issues’ are a marketing ploy of the left,” one of the PowerPoint slides informed the audience. Women’s actual top priorities are the economy, followed by national security and healthcare. These, according to the IWF, are distinct from women’s issues.
But if women issues seem pressing in the political conversation, then IWF was there to reassure the audience that women are strong and have little need for government intervention or entitlement programs. “Women don’t need saviors,” Onwuka said.
They also, according to Onwuka and Carter, don’t need paid family leave. Opening the issue of paid family leave to the audience, Onwuka asked what kind of conservative “pushback” could be gently offered to a fictional woman who supported paid family leave. Two men eagerly chimed in, one suggested that a government entitlement of paid family leave would prevent businesses from hiring women, never mind that paid family leave would apply to men as well. Another said that employers would no longer hire full-time employees in order to skirt the issue. A young man in the front row suggested that paid family leave is insulting because it presumes that “women can’t take care of their families without help.” Women in the audience suggested that it would effect 401(k)s or set back equal pay (moments previously, however, Onwuka said that the pay gap is a fiction).
Young women reading Bustle are hearing that they are victims and men are out to get them
Onwuka nodded in agreement and reiterated their points before stating that paid family leave would lead to a “backlash on women in the workforce.” There was no mention of men, but a general agreement that these problems could simply be solved if the government left business alone to figure out paid family leave for itself. The IWF suggested that families simply save in order to take time off after the birth of a child.
IWF’s vision of women was diverse enough but still homogenous: Women in their universe are married and wealthy enough to have investments both for themselves and their children. Women don’t need paid family leave, they need savings accounts (IWF did seem supportive of Marco Rubio’s recent family leave plan). But more than anything, women don’t need the government, feminism, or the big government of the left.
At “How to Win Women,” women were already empowered. That sense of empowerment and strength, Onwuka suggested, was being frayed by liberal values. The stand-in for those values appeared to be the women’s website Bustle. “Young women reading Bustle are hearing that they are victims and men are out to get them,” she said. “We need to push back.” That meant pushing back on the idea of rape culture, too. “A lot made about the rape culture,” Onwuka said. She added that we needed to “prepare kids for the real world…they need to know how to interact with other people and set boundaries.” She suggested that we start telling young women that “your decisions are going to have actions,” something women should think about before they drink or go out.
But this was meant to be an empowering message of individuality and personal responsibility. The left wanted to victimize women, the government did too, but men certainly did not. “Men are allies not adversaries in the fight for greater advancement,” a slide read.
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