But it’s true: Many people spend even when they know they should not, believing they will catch up on debt or figure it out somehow. Make it work. As Carl Sword, a New York psychoanalyst, tells WSJ, “There’s a lot of peer pressure in our society to spend.” Not to mention the way we’re inundated with ad campaigns, videos, TV shows and movies filled with alluring products and aspirational lifestyles.
In addition, many of us are taught to be confident, positive, self-assured. In a way, “I can’t” seems negative, belittling, pessimistic. Maybe you can? If you move some things around? And don’t eat for a few days? And win the lottery?
It also seems as though women, especially, are encouraged and pressured to spend at every turn: Those legs need shaving, those nails need polishing, that skin needs makeup, that hair needs deep conditioner. And don’t forget to spend two grand a year on your vagina!
Ultimately, part of the advice one of the financial planners in the article offers is, instead of saying “I can’t afford that,” just blame the adviser — as in, “My accountant won’t let me buy that.” That is, of course, assuming you can afford a financial planner.
It’s Really OK to Say, ‘I Can’t Afford That’ [WSJ]
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