You might think that the people who bullied 14-year-old Jamey Rodemeyer with comments like "JAMIE IS STUPID, GAY, FAT ANND UGLY. HE MUST DIE!" are completely ashamed of themselves now that Jamey committed suicide. However, you'd be wrong. The problem is you're thinking like someone who isn't utterly disgusting.
Last year's tragic suicides and the It Gets Better Project have spawned a sort of backlash, with some experts saying life for many gay kids is already better. But the truth may be that we just don't know.