Porn-Watching Boyfriend Requests Bigger Breasts
LatestToday an advice-seeker tells Dear Prudence that watching porn made her boyfriend ask her to get breast implants. But is porn really the issue here?
Here’s what “My B’s Are Getting an F” has to say:
I am in my 30s, own my house, and have a good job. I also have an adorable 4-year-old daughter and am in a loving and supportive live-in relationship of three years. (He’s not my daughter’s father.) My boyfriend recently told me that he would like it if I got breast implants. I am a B cup, and although he says he loves my body, he adds, “But I’d really like it if your breasts were larger.” This came up when I discovered that my boyfriend was regularly watching porn. His explanation is that he prefers a different body type from mine. This was news to me, since we have sex one or two times a day, and it’s excellent. I have never felt insecure about my body-just the opposite, as I have worked as a model. I love him and want him to be happy, and I’m beginning to wonder whether I should go ahead with enhancement just to please him. But I am trying to raise my daughter to be proud of her body, and it will be difficult upholding that if she finds out Mommy changed her body to please a man.
Prudence is oddly charitable toward B’s boyfriend, writing back,