
Miguel is getting ready to release a new album (Wildheart, out in June), and as part of the promotion for said album, he went on Hot97 to talk to Nessa about threesomes, âsport fuckingâ and âempty sex.â
During the interview, Miguel discussed his long-time girlfriend, model Nazanin Mandi, explaining that he takes marriage very seriously and isnât just going to get engaged to get engaged. (Of the breakups theyâve had in the past: âI can always go back to, I wrote songs about you girl! You are forever immortalized in my music!â) He also touched on the new lawsuit against him over his Billboard Music Awards performance, which he said seemed âcalculated,â timing-wise, noting, âI donât blame myself for the things that I do, because I know where it comes from. It comes from a very pure place, just living in the moment and wanting everything to be a moment. I canât run away from things that were mistakes. All I can say is that I handle my business.â
Anyway. The sex. âThis album is just sex,â Miguel told Nessa. Here are some other things he said about the things that a man and a woman do together.
On whether booty calls can turn into relationships
If thereâs no nothing else, nah.
On threesomes and getting a woman to do one
I think every relationship is their own. ... When people are together, thatâs theirs. Thatâs their thing.
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Let her do it. Donât bring that shit up. Donât do it. You have to get to a place where you and her are so on the same page that sheâs comfortable.
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I honestly believe that if a woman is comfortable with you â women find other women beautiful. And so if theyâre so solid with you, they just might be open-minded on that rare night...
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On âempty sexâ
At the end of the day, empty sex is lame. Sport fucking was cool when I was younger, it was like, ah I did that, cool, whatever. Empty sex is just...Iâm over that shit.
On the craziest sexual experience heâs ever had
Uhh, thereâs a lot, fuck. Threesomes are fun, really really fun. But thereâs been some real bad threesomes too, where itâs like, you donât know what youâre doing, and youâre okay but this is not right, this is not my vibe. I love to be in control, but when thereâs no rhythm, I canât find no rhythm with either of you? This is pretty tough. So great times like, both of them amazing rhythm, thereâs connection, and itâs fun. Yeah yeah, I think that was here in New York.
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The pièce de rÊsistance
I would rather fuck the shit out of someone that Iâd like, we have something in common, thatâs the real basis, then someone that is like, fucking beautiful, and sheâs like, whatever, sheâll let me do whatever I want to her, sheâll let me bring her homegirl or whatever, we can do whatever we want, but thereâs no nothing.
Image via Miguelâs video for âDo You,â a very sexy song
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