Why It's So Hard to Make Revenge Porn Laws Effective
LatestThe New York City Council will vote on a new bill Thursday that would make revenge porn illegal, hitting violators with up to a year in jail and a $1,000 fine. Superficially, it’s a common sense measure that’s long overdue. But revenge porn is usually not a straightforward case of one deranged person vindictively posting lewd photos of their ex, but a tangle of internet privacy issues and aggressive lobbying from powerful institutions that make it complicated to prosecute.
According to the bill’s sponsor, Councilman Rory Lancman, the proposed legislation criminalizes what a lot of people think should be a criminal act. Currently, 38 states have revenge porn laws in place, but New York isn’t one of them. “We’re all kind of searching for the appropriate response to the rampant sexual harassment that permeates our society” he told Jezebel. “This is a tool that will protect ordinary women from abuse and real damage to their lives and careers.”
But revenge porn laws vary in their effectiveness, and many are not particularly helpful for victims who find themselves in wholly different circumstances than those rare, clear-cut cases that Lancman’s bill targets.
It would, for example, have done nothing to protect one Bronx woman—we’ll call her Bethany, although that is not her real name—from the situation she found herself in earlier this year. Bethany told Jezebel that in February, her sister received a Facebook message from a stranger, alerting her that nude photos and videos of Bethany were being shared by hundreds of people on Tumblr. The images were from a decade prior, when Bethany was 17 and dating her high school boyfriend.
Bethany hardly remembered that the images had even been taken, and had long assumed her ex had deleted them. Now 27 and a graduate student in social work, Bethany was shocked to learn that they had not, in fact, been deleted, but were being shared by hundreds of anonymous users across the internet.
“I was devastated,” Bethany told Jezebel. “I was really angry at my ex- boyfriend, because I thought this was something he did on purpose.”
It turns out that her ex hadn’t deleted the photos—but he hadn’t been the one to post them publicly, either. Instead, he put them on Dropbox, in an account that was eventually hacked by an unknown party in Florida. The images were put on Tumblr, where users went to the trouble of editing the face of Bethany’s ex out of the roughly seven images, but also adding “a screenshot of my Facebook page, my full name, and it was like, ‘contact this girl, she’s a whore,’” Bethany said. “It was all about me.”
Bethany tried desperately to contact Tumblr to get the photos and videos taken down from the site, but never received response. She finally enlisted the help of a lawyer who specializes in cases like hers, and he eventually succeeded in having the content removed—though not until a month later.
Now, Bethany is in the process of seeking charges—but not against her ex, who had no involvement in the case. Instead, her pursuit is focused on the hundreds of Tumblr users who reposted the images. As it stands now, Google has turned over the information of dozens of the users, some of whom have agreed to settle. The original hacker, however, has not been caught.
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