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Sunday Sign-Off: Why Do People Think God Is a Dude?

As some of you prepare to cope with a deluge from a wrathful, Old Testament God with a capital G, consider this: God is imaginary, so why do we always imagine God as a dude?

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Advice! Please! Have any of you just completely stopped being physically attracted to your boyfriend?

Long story short, I've been dating this guy for about 5 months. The charm is wearing off in a lot of ways (he's really brash and will say horrible shit and then just say "I was just kidding, relax) anyway we have sex about 99.9% of the times we see each other which is about 3 times a week. Last week I fell asleep on two of those nights (long week/tired/wine etc) the second night he growled in disapproval, got up and went and slept on the couch.

Um okay.

When I ask him about it he basically told me how it was fucked up that I kept falling asleep on him (no, oh are you okay? oh you must be tired! Or hey are you still attracted to me? Now it was right with the "you are wrong because you didn't fuck me"

Ever since that, I'm kind of not attracted to him. At all. I tested the waters last night and yeah. Worst sex ever.

He's already kind of shitty when it comes to empathizing so how do I bring this up (yeah I know we'll probably have to break up) without it getting thrown back in my face?