Robert Durst's Wife Debrah Was a 'Lean In' Poster Girl of the 1980s
LatestA week and change removed from Robert Durst’s startling televised bathroom confession and his subsequent arrest in New Orleans, there are still so many mysteries swirling around HBO’s true crime documentary series The Jinx: How many times did Durst visit “Beverley Hills”? Why is Bobby Durst both repulsive and sorta charming? Does Andrew Jarecki actually think that goatee looks good?
But my favorite mystery is still that wild, bitchy brunette Bobby Durst calls a wife: Debrah Lee Charatan.
For the uninitiated, Charatan, Durst’s second wife, is a side player in The Jinx. She refused, smartly, to be interviewed for the documentary, so we only see her in deposition footage and hear her in recorded prison phone calls with Durst. When she first appeared, all smokey-voiced and with voluminous dye-singed hair, I assumed that she was some sort of street walker or junkie queen that Durst had shacked up with during some interlude between dismembering a transient and pissing on CVS candy.
But no! Debbie Charatan is a bonafide New York real estate power player who seems to be eerily clear-eyed and a possible Svengali in all of Durst’s sordid dealings. When The Jinx ended with Durst’s dramatic hot-mic confession—”What the hell did I do? Killed them all, of course“—Charatan allegedly sprang into action and arranged for Durst to fly to Cuba, where there is no extradition for U.S. fugitives. It looked like the couple were planning to rendezvous in Havana until the L.A.P.D. showed with a warrant for Durst’s arrest the morning before the final episode aired.
So now we ask you: has ever a woman deserved a Lifetime biopic more than Debbie??
Charatan, 58, is a native of Queens, the daughter of a one-footed kosher butcher (slow down, read that again; one-footed-kosher-butcher) and an orphaned Holocaust survivor.
“She’s an excellent broker,” a former employee of Charatan’s told the New York Times in 2003, ”but she’s also one of the most ruthless people I have ever come across.”
“For Debbie, it’s all about the money,” said a former executive who worked under Charatan for 12 years. ”When she met Bob, she hit pay dirt. I am sincerely sad for her. I don’t think this was in her plan.”
“I knew if I couldn’t be a star,” the Times quotes her as saying at some point in the ’80s, “I wouldn’t be happy.”