On Pride's Radical Potential: The Question Isn't 'Who Should Be at Pride?' But 'What Are We Doing?'
LatestTo close out Pride Month, Jezebel presents On Pride: A series of conversations with LGBTQ artists and activists about our communities’ relationship with police, building queer spaces outside of the parade, and other pressing issues affecting queer and trans people nationwide.
Pride month has come and gone, and, with it, a wave of anxiety over the increasingly corporate nature of the annual celebration of LGBTQ identity. This anxiety is nothing new; in fact, we’ve been feeling it for decades—going back at least as far the 1980s, when Absolut suddenly realized they could make lots of money by slapping a rainbow on their bottles of vodka.
The question of whether Pride has become too corporate is a bit of a non-question for Mattilda Bernstein Sycamore. Of course it has, the author and activist—whose fourth novel, Sketchtasy, comes out this October—will tell you, and it’s been that way for her entire adult life. All too often, she says, when people wonder whether Pride has become too corporate, they answer that question with a concocted nostalgia for a time before corporate influence had so thoroughly infiltrated queer life. This bothers her, particularly when that time before the corporate Fall is pinpointed to the early ‘90s, a time in which she was very much alive and very much grossed out by the monetization of her identity.
“Nostalgia is violent. It takes away the complication, the nuance, the struggle, and all the layers of analysis and replaces it with some kind of glossy, dead, consumer-friendly product for vapid consumption,” she says, citing, for example, the revival of ACT-UP-inspired fashions but not ACT-UP-inspired politics. “As long as we’re nostalgic for an age that never really existed, we’ll never create that golden age now.”
I recently had the chance to speak with Sycamore over the phone about this kind of “Make America Gay Again” nostalgia for the early ‘90s, the corporatization and whitewashing of Pride’s political underpinnings, and what questions she thinks we should be asking when it comes to celebrating Pride. Our conversation has been condensed and edited lightly for clarity.
JEZEBEL: In 2013, you wrote in The New York Times that “the possibility of a trans or queer politic lies in using identity as a starting point for challenging the violence of the world around us, and building something else, creating more possibilities for everyone.” Is that how you would still define your trans or queer politic?
MATTILDA BERNSTEIN SYCAMORE: Absolutely. The problem with identity politics is when identity becomes an end point instead of a starting point, when you just put “gay” or “queer” or now even “trans” on top of an oppressive institution and suddenly that’s seen as progress. We see that right now with trans inclusion in the military. The U.S. military, as anyone who’s been paying any attention will tell you, is responsible for more violence in the world than any other institution, right? It’s currently involved in wars in Iraq and Afghanistan, funding the Israeli war on Palestinians, military bases plundering Indigenous resources, destroying the environment around the world, and people say, “Oh, but trans people need to be included in the military!” It’s swallowed as a sort of liberal panacea to transphobia. Like, if trans people can go abroad and kill people and get away with it just like anyone else, that must be progress. That’s identity as an end point, but if we use identity as a starting point for challenging dominant institutions of oppression and taking them apart and building something else in the ruins, I think that’s where possibility lies.
Has this kind of “identity as end point” identity politics always been the case with LGBTQ activism and politicking in the U.S., or have you observed any sort of trend over the years?
There’s always been a tension in gay, queer, and trans worlds between a kind of assimilationist, “we’re just like you, we want the white-picket fence, too” mentality and the more liberationist sort of analysis that talks about ending dominant institutions of oppression.
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