Meet Me In The Bathroom Adds Another Chapter to the Rock Mythology of New York City
EntertainmentA writer who chooses to construct an oral history is deliberately creating a legend. Rather than stand as the objective, omniscient narrative voice of journalism, the writer cedes the floor to those who were there, those who were most affected, and—in the case of Meet Me In The Bathroom—those who were the most fucked up and infected with passion. The oral history isn’t an account of what happened, but how it feels like things happened. As the now-overused quote goes, “When the legend becomes fact, print the legend.”
This new oral history from writer Lizzy Goodman takes essentially every major and minor player in New York’s early 2000s rock scene and piles on quote after quote until the reader is absolutely convinced that NYC circa 2002 was an inimitable, once-in-a-lifetime event and you just had to be there. As Goodman, whose entry point to the scene was working in a restaurant with Strokes guitarist Nick Valensi, notes in her introduction:
The Strokes and their like were coconspirators, comrades in the pursuit of “youth and abandon,” the shorthand a few friends and I used to describe those nights that started as Tuesdays and ended up as Jim Jarmusch movies: vodka sodas and pizza and dress-up at someone’s house, followed by drinks at whatever bar we had a friend working at that night, followed by Interpol with ten other people at some dank after-hours club with moldy carpeting, followed by disco fries at the diner, followed by wearing last night’s makeup to ten A.M. class.
The Strokes are the centerpiece of this project, the band that initially the city and then the world caught onto with the hopes that they would erase vulgar rap-rock upstarts like Limp Bizkit and return “real music” to America. Every member of the group was model-attractive and well-dressed, with singer Julian Casablancas in particular giving off that tough, unknowable Lou-Reed vibe that only seems to originate in Manhattan.
These musicians, along with Interpol and the Yeah Yeah Yeahs, gave New York something to be proud of in the immediate aftermath of 9/11. As writer Jason Gordon says in the book, “People wanted to look at New York, they wanted to celebrate New York, and the Strokes were at the center of that. Here was this true New York band.” Is This It?, Turn on the Bright Lights, and Fever to Tell still hold up as groundbreaking rock albums today, and they’re more than worthy of 600 breezy pages of energized exploration.
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