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Live Near Your Mother and You'll Have More Freedom to Work

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A new study shows that American adults live an average of only 18 miles from their parents—and the proximity is for good reason, as mothers who live near their own moms have a meaningful amount of extra freedom to handle personal emergencies and work.


According to the New York Times, only 20 percent of Americans live over a few hours’ drive from their parents; people on the West Coast also tend to move farther away from their families than East Coasters do. As people get older, even those who moved far away often return closer to home for their mother’s help with childcare: most families that earn less than $30,000 per year depend on family for help raising their kids.

A separate study noted by the Times found that mothers with children showed 10 percent more labor force participation when they lived near their own mothers or mothers-in-law—and as the stories in this piece explain, the luxury of being able to call a trusted family member at the last minute to quell a childcare or personal emergency can’t be overstated.


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Sigh......articles like this, especially this time of year, bum me the fuck out. Living further away from my mom has given me the freedom to not be responsible for her inability to function as an adult. I won’t even pretend to act like I’m not insanely jealous of women who have good relationships with their moms. Knowing that my mom and I will never have the relationship I want is like mourning the death of a loved one, except every time you think you’ve worked through the stages of grief you discover you are right back at the beginning.

Wow, sorry for being such a Debbie Downer.