Last Night's Bachelorette Episode Showed You Can't Spell 'Racist' Without Lee
LatestOn Monday night, two women 3,000 miles apart, one deeply familiar with the franchise, the other much less so, watched Episode 4of Rachel’s season of The Bachelorette separately. This is their story.
Kate: I thought maybe I was alone in thinking that Monday night’s episode of The Bachelorette felt like the first one we’d had in ages, but then literally as it came to me, Reality Steve tweeted the same thing. So it seems like the endless stream of Bachelor in Paradise news (which first broke only a little more than a week ago) is having a more profound effect on some of us who consume too many aspects of this franchise than we might realize.
Kara: As Kate can attest, I almost forgot it was on last night. But thank god she reminded me. While I understand the interest in the all the drama around Bachelor in Paradise, I’m also a bit irritated that it’s stealing some of Rachel’s shine. As we saw last night, she is obviously acutely aware of all the pressures put upon her.
Kate: The scene of Rachel talking to her producer was really interesting, especially coupled with the tweet she sent in response to former contestant Leah Block’s idiotic comment about the episode. (Leah’s deleted her tweet, and apparently her whole account, but it obviously lives on infamy.)
I was never particularly moved by Dean before this episode, but his comments about Lee and Kenny’s fight, coupled with how much he opened up on his date with Rachel, impressed me. (“The only people that I’ve seen Lee pick fights with have been not the people that he’s used to seeing on a daily basis, from a cultural perspective,” he said during an interview. “What do you mean?” a producer asked him. “You know exactly what I mean when I say that,” Dean responded. “The longer Lee sticks around, the more everyone will become aware of his intolerance.”)
Kara: I too was pleasantly surprised by Dean and I’m happy we had a white contestant spelling out Lee’s racism for people. It was easy to see—particularly when the guys were all sitting on the stairs—that the black contestants obviously understood what was going on but for whatever reason, did not say anything pointed on camera (or perhaps it was cut).
I found Rachel’s tears a bit confusing, if I’m being honest. It was hard to tell what exactly she was responding to. That response to Lee and Kenny’s fight strikes me as somewhat out of character for her unless there was more to it that we didn’t see.
Largely, I was most perplexed by how Rachel handled the dispute between Kenny and Lee. Kenny has not shown himself to be a particularly aggressive person outside the wrestling ring. He’s rather soft spoken, he gushes about his daughter and generally comes off as a rather chill guy. So when it seemed like Rachel was taking Lee’s word about Kenny’s so-called aggression, I struggled to understand how she was buying that. More so, I was baffled how, as a black woman, she wouldn’t further question or push back against Lee’s characterization of Kenny as “aggressive.” It’s such a dog whistle statement and I assumed Rachel was sharp enough to see through that.
Kate: I think it’s definitely fair to assume that there’s something from the conversation Rachel had with the producer that we didn’t see. And this is pure speculation, but I also wonder if she’s basically been told she has to keep Lee around even though she doesn’t want to (some evidence to support this theory: that Lee and Kenny will go on a 2-on-1 date next week with Rachel, where she has to pick one and send the other one home, sudden-death style). It also seems like, from the comments she’s made before about wanting people to treat her just like all the other bachelorettes, that she’s even more aware of how the romantic decisions she makes play into the perception of her than past leads have been.