'Golden Child' Plotted to Kill Parents After They Learned She Failed Out
LatestIn January of this year, a 28-year-old Toronto woman named Jennifer Pan was sentenced to life in prison after hiring hit men to kill her parents. This weekend, Toronto Life uncovered the bizarre, fascinating story behind Pan’s crime. She managed to conceal for years that she’d failed out of high school and wasn’t attending college; when her parents learned the truth, she began plotting for them to die.
The Toronto Life story is particularly interesting because it was written by Karen Ho, a high school friend of Pan and her former boyfriend, Daniel Wong. In it, Ho recounts the unbelievable pressures placed on Pan as a “golden child,” the daughter of Vietnamese immigrants, mother Bich Ha and father Huei Hann Pan, who pressured her from birth to succeed academically and in a long list of extracurriculars:
Hann was the classic tiger dad, and Bich his reluctant accomplice. They picked Jennifer up from school at the end of the day, monitored her extracurricular activities and forbade her from attending dances, which Hann considered unproductive. Parties were off limits and boyfriends verboten until after university. When Jennifer was permitted to attend a sleepover at a friend’s house, Bich and Hann dropped her off late at night and picked her up early the following morning. By age 22, she had never gone to a club, been drunk, visited a friend’s cottage or gone on vacation without her family.
Ho reports that Pan strained under the pressure; she began self-harming in elementary school and was devastated in grade 8 when she wasn’t made valedictorian. By high school, she was earning lower-than-acceptable grades and forging better report cards to show her parents. She also hid her relationship with boyfriend Daniel Wong from them, knowing they wouldn’t approve. And when she failed a calculus class and couldn’t graduate high school, she did everything she could to keep her parents from finding out:
She received early acceptance to Ryerson, but then failed calculus in her final year and wasn’t able to graduate. The university withdrew its offer. Desperate to keep her parents from digging into her high school records, she lied and said she’d be starting at Ryerson in the fall. She said her plan was to do two years of science, then transfer over to U of T’s pharmacology program, which was her father’s hope. Hann was delighted and bought her a laptop. Jennifer collected used biology and physics textbooks and bought school supplies. In September, she pretended to attend frosh week. When it came to tuition, she doctored papers stating she was receiving an OSAP loan and convinced her dad she’d won a $3,000 scholarship.
Pan maintained this elaborate charade for two years, pretending to graduate from Ryerson and transfer to University of Toronto on schedule. Eventually, as her parents grew suspicious, she was forced to confess. Furious, they placed her on restrictions so intense she compared them on Facebook to being under “house arrest:”