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Ratajkowski referenced Bear-McClard a few times in her 2021 memoir, My Body. He’s apparently the one who had to inform Ratajkowski that she’s an active participant in the same capitalist system she abhors—she wrote that he told her, “C’mon baby. You’re a capitalist, too, admit it.” She also recalls difficult conversations with her therapist about her struggles to accept that her husband is attracted to other women.

As of Monday afternoon, numerous posts with Bear-McClard remain live on Ratajkowski’s Instagram:

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Ratajkowski and Bear-McClard have yet to comment on reports about their split, or the serial cheating allegations lodged against Bear-McClard.

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In any case, in difficult times (when similar versions of “some guy” have hurt me), I hold onto a list of assorted goddesses who have been screwed over by aggressively mediocre men for comfort like a security blanket, and will now be adding Ms. Ratajkowski to this list. Being cheated on sucks—there’s really no softening the blow. But at the very least, she looks the way she does, and could very easily find a partner who won’t inspire such reactions as “that’s him???”—a real Sebastian Stan, Robert Pattinson, Devin Booker-type of man. Think big, Emily!! It’s hot girl summer and the world is your oyster!