Court Rules That Shitty Media Men List Creator Can't Be Sued for Emotional Distress, Questions Relevance of Her Tweets About 'Hating Men'
LatestA federal judge in Brooklyn on Friday ruled that in the ongoing lawsuit against Moira Donegan, the creator of the Shitty Media Men list, plaintiff Stephen Elliott cannot sue her for intentional or negligent infliction of emotional distress, though he can still make a claim for defamation. According to a transcript, Elliott’s lawyers also tried to argue during the hearing that Donegan’s tweets are relevant to the case, particularly one where they allege that she tweeted, “I hate men.” The judge, Hon. Lashann DeArcy Hall, wasn’t especially receptive to that argument.
Elliott has sued over his inclusion on the Shitty Media Men lawsuit, saying that an entry on the list accusing him of rape is defamatory. (He was also accused of far lesser offenses, like “sneaking into” a women’s-only Facebook group.) He and his attorneys are seeking a large amount of information about anyone who might have contributed to this list, and have asked Google to retain information the company might have about anyone who viewed, edited, or even sent emails about the list. Elliott has also argued that the rape allegation is provably false, because he has an open preference for being the submissive in BDSM situations and has said he rarely engages in penetrative sex. (Like many women in New York media, I viewed the list the night it was created, and recognized the names of friends and former coworkers on it. I didn’t add to the list or forward it.)
The lawsuit is widely viewed as an important test case in the MeToo era, and, as with so many things in our current cultural moment, the court proceedings are becoming rather focused on tweets.
In Elliott’s original complaint filed in October 2018, his attorneys wrote that Donegan “made public statements on social media stating ‘The problem is men,’ ‘I really hate men,’ ‘I like the witch hunt,’ and re-publishing statements assuming the guilt of all men accused on The List.” (None of those verbatim tweets are currently findable on Donegan’s Twitter account, though it is possible they could have been deleted.)
In court on Friday, one of Donegan’s attorneys, Roberta Kaplan, a co-founder of the Time’s Up legal defense fund, argued that Donegan has clearly explained herself, in an essay for The Cut, why she created the list. That essay, Kaplan argued, clearly shows that Donegan didn’t set out to recklessly publish defamatory statements that she knew were false.
“I think the Court is perfectly entitled to read Ms. Donegan’s own statements in the article that’s cited, that she wrote, by the Plaintiff in the complaint in which she explains why she did what she did, she explains the context, she explains how the list was created,” Kaplan told Judge DeArcy Hall. “And everything she says in that article not only is inconsistent with any claim of malice but actually rebuts any claim of malice.”
One of Elliott’s lawyers, Nicholas Lewis, argued that Donegan’s subsequent tweets undermined the Cut piece.
“Your Honor, respectfully, with regard to the Defendant’s article,” he told the judge, “the statements regarding ‘I hate men’ and ‘I’m enjoying the witch-hunt’ are relevant for her, I guess — belie the claims in the article that this was done—”
Judge DeArcy Hall cut in. “Let’s assume she hates men,” she said. “Just for the record, let’s assume she hates them. I don’t see how you can go from her generalized hatred of men to a reasonable inference of malice with regard to your client, which is what you’d have to establish.”
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