It is a truth universally acknowledged that old white men can—generally—say reprehensible things without suffering meaningful consequences. Such is the case with Bill Maher who, on his Friday show, performed a modicum amount of remorse for dropping the n-word last week and will now resume life as usual.
Maher invited author and Georgetown sociology professor Michael Eric Dyson onto Real Time with Bill Maher to discuss racism and white privilege, but above all, to demonstrate his acutely self-flagellating humility.
“I want you to school me. I did a bad thing,” Maher informed Dyson. He also noted that the n-word has “caused pain” in the African American community. Perceptive!
Before this overture, Maher opened his live show by thanking the audience—they had, he remarked, kindly allowed “a sinner in [their] midst.” But it was not an especially challenging crowd: some of its members yelled “We love you, Bill!” as he walked onstage.
On last week’s show, Maher’s interviewee, Republican senator Ben Sasse from Nebraska invited the host to visit the state and “work in the fields.” Maher’s grotesque response: “Work in the fields? I’m a house n——.”
HBO publicly condemned the comment and noted that it would be removed from any future airings of the episode. Maher also apologized the next day, though he made certain to note last night that many public apologies are unnecessary:
“In the conversation with Dyson, Maher noted that there was ‘a lot of bullshit apology in America. I am against that.’ But he said that in this case, the apology for the use of the ‘N-word’ was ‘appropriate.’
He said that Sasse’s comment about working ‘in the fields’ had struck him as a ‘weird thing.’
‘The comic mind goes to a weird place,’ he said. ‘That is why I apologize freely and I reiterate it tonight. That is sincere.’”
Remarking that “the comic mind goes to a weird place” seems a self-indulgent means of baking defensiveness into this so-called “sincere” apology, but as a the possessor of a mere non-comic mind, what do I know?
Dyson, who is African American, told Maher that many put pressure on his decision to appear on the show, arguing that it tacitly condoned the remarks. He assessed Maher’s blithe use of the racial slur as an “unconscious reflex” born from systemic white privilege. Dyson rightly explains that all caucasians operate from a fundamental assumption of privilege, even if we are not the sort to make racist comments.“We have to grapple with how deeply rooted that is,” Dyson emphasized.