'Should've Worn a Skirt,' He Said on the First Date. He Was Serious.

Two weeks ago I went on a date with a lawyer at Goldman Sachs. He was 49 years old, “not handsome in the classical sense, more Jimmy Cagney than Cary Grant” as he so charitably described himself and preferred Italian suits over Savile Row’s. His magniloquent and crassly funny e-mails had made me curious, so I’d… » 4/30/13 6:00pm 4/30/13 6:00pm