'I Suck': How Guys Use Self-Deprecation Against You

By now, you've probably heard of "gaslighting," the increasingly popular term for the various ways in which men convince women that they're "crazy," "over-reacting," or "hysterical." Gaslighting's goal is simple: Get you to tone down that oh-so-scary lady rage that frightens the menfolk. But there's another kind of… » 7/06/12 3:40pm 7/06/12 3:40pm