You know why women get kicked out under DADT more? Because men who want to fuck them blackmail them with it, then turn them in anyway. And of course, depending on the commander, that's all they have to do. It stays on your record forever. Of course, if you turn them down, they'll report you, and if you go with somebody else they'll report you and if.....Actually, they have an awful lot of leeway because men don't lie, of course.
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@LaurieStrodeTheBoatAshore: It's because the stock photos at Getty were all of Chicago cars, or they had people in them, and I didn't want it to look like some random police officer was a rapist.
I recently used a female condom for the first time and only have good things to say.
I had sex with a guy who's really knowledgeable about these things and so I learned some tips. I think women often get freaked out about using them because they are not really sure how to insert them. One thing you can do is take the insertive inner ring out and put the condom on the penis like a regular condom. Then, insert penis into vagina. And away you go.
That inner ring's only purpose is to make insertion easier.
Also, it will look like less ejaculate that you are used to because it's a wider condom. Don't worry, it's all in there.
@bluebears: Oh come on, she should have known with her Magical Feminine Intuition(TM) that the man in bed with her was not her boyfriend. They may look alike on the outside, but MFI(TM) can discern the soul.
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I had 2 uncles who were identical twins. My grandmother would mix them up all of the time. She basically ended up calling both of them BillBob for much of their childhood.
@wtfox?!: No but really...I can't understand how someone could fall for this. I feel like when you're in an intimate relationship there is a certain familiarity that no one else could fake. Not trying to blame the victim AT ALL, I just honestly don't understand how it could happen.
@Ginmar Rienne: I think there is a difference between having a hard time understanding how you can mistake one person for another, because you don't know any twins that are that similar looking, and blaming the victim for not being able to.
"...less than 30% knew that HIV could be transmitted sexually."
Knowing that AIDS has been with us for *almost 30 years*, this statistic just breaks my heart. It's beyond inexcusable for any government to let their people be this uninformed.
I would like to know how sexual EDUCATION is considered pornography?
Surely if you search WebMD you're not expecting to find NC-17 material. Shouldn't everyone have a right to know about their own bodies? Because the last time I checked, when i was in sex ed we learned about STDS, menstration, semen, etc. No where in there did we learn anything found in the Kama Sutra.
Did anyone read in the article how cheap it is to get an abortion in China? It's roughly $88. I can't even replace my Chi hair straightener for that price. It's amazing how widely available and affordable it is.
@dummyfakeroller: Cheap for Americans, not Chinese women. That's over a week's salary for a person in China. Also, "widely available" can't be confused with "often forced upon women."
@schweppes: Very true. I should've clarified that I meant in American culture, it is cheap and available. Being forced into abortion is just as horrible as being forced into giving birth and that happens in areas where people have to travel 7 hours to obtain an expensive procedure.
@vanka-vstanka: I've read articles regarding giveaways encouraging procreation in Russia. One in particular mentioned that people could get half a day off work to go home and try to make babies and if the couple had a baby within a certain time frame, would win cash or a car. It shocks me to learn that abortion is free in Russia after knowing that.
@dummyfakeroller: There's a big push to OMG MAKE BABIES because of the demographic crisis, this is true. I think United Russia even had a babymaking camp thing for its youth group. I think sometimes you have to pay due to healthcare funding issues, but abortion is supposed to be free.
@dummyfakeroller: But it's not cheap for Chinese people. It's still expensive for them to choose to have an abortion. Abortions are common because they are forced by the government to have abortions, but abortions of a woman's own choosing is not cheap. That's a lot different than legitimate logistical difficulties of obtaining an abortion after the first trimester.
China's one-child policy is one of the most well-intentioned but poorly thought out policies in the history of thinking. When we're not all speaking Chinese in 20 years, we'll have that policy to thank.
@morninggloria: Especially when it came after a policy of rewarding families for having large numbers of children. They spiked the population, then tried in vain to contract it back.
@morninggloria: It's like the opposite of the mess CeauÅŸescu created in Romania with his "Be a good Communist, have lots of Commie babies!" plan. Lots of single moms with like 6-8 kids, no public assistance of any sort and a ridiculously strict anti-abortion law. The stories I've read about mothers there is just heartbreaking. They have nothing.
@MilointheMeadow: Communist countries usually had unrestricted access to abortion. A staunchly anti-religious government/society makes a big difference. In the USSR and Eastern bloc, abortion was often the primary means of birth control for most women. (Which sucks from a medical perspective, but at least it was available when preventative birth control was hard to get).
@stacyinbean: That's a result of the Chinese "one child" policy. You pretty much aren't supposed to have children out of wedlock, so they're existence is usually kept secret. Although the Chinese are now realizing that with their population aging rapidly, they need people to have more children to take care of the elderly population as it gets much older. Look for the policies to change.
@stacyinbean: That is why so many children with medical conditions are left for adoption. The punish the mom by denying care to the child. Cruel, and highly effective.
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I had sex with a guy who's really knowledgeable about these things and so I learned some tips. I think women often get freaked out about using them because they are not really sure how to insert them. One thing you can do is take the insertive inner ring out and put the condom on the penis like a regular condom. Then, insert penis into vagina. And away you go.
That inner ring's only purpose is to make insertion easier.
Also, it will look like less ejaculate that you are used to because it's a wider condom. Don't worry, it's all in there.
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So yeah, she totally kissed him.
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I had 2 uncles who were identical twins. My grandmother would mix them up all of the time. She basically ended up calling both of them BillBob for much of their childhood.
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Look, if you feel you have to say, "not trying to blame the victim AT ALL..." it might be time to reconsider.
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Knowing that AIDS has been with us for *almost 30 years*, this statistic just breaks my heart. It's beyond inexcusable for any government to let their people be this uninformed.
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Surely if you search WebMD you're not expecting to find NC-17 material. Shouldn't everyone have a right to know about their own bodies? Because the last time I checked, when i was in sex ed we learned about STDS, menstration, semen, etc. No where in there did we learn anything found in the Kama Sutra.
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@vanka-vstanka: I've read articles regarding giveaways encouraging procreation in Russia. One in particular mentioned that people could get half a day off work to go home and try to make babies and if the couple had a baby within a certain time frame, would win cash or a car. It shocks me to learn that abortion is free in Russia after knowing that.
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Also, I had no idea that China legalized abortion before the US.
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So if you have a child out of wedlock, it basically doesn't exist? WTF?
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