During a vagina-themed dinnertime conversation, Shannon O'Malley asked her friend Keith Wilson, a gay man, to draw a picture of a vagina. The accuracy left a bit to be desired but the conversation snowballed into an art project turned coffee table book called Gay Men Draw Vaginas.

While it's true that there are straight women out there with "gay husbands" and "gay bffs" who treat their gay friends like little more than fun, interactive accessories and gay men out there who dismiss their straight female friends as "fag hags" (which I'll say is just as dehumanizing), the fact remains that…

The relationship between girls and gay bars (male-only crowd, for our purposes) is fraught at best. While treatment of queer women at such establishments is another article entirely, a gaggle of straight women in one of "our" spaces can provoke confusion and intolerance on both sides.

Last week, in response to a widely-publicized survey, I cleared up some common misconceptions about dude-in-dude Gay Butt Sex. (Heretofore referred to as GBS.) That was just the tip of the brown iceberg. Today we're going to delve into some other aspects of the carnal canon.

I currently field so many questions about my butt that I feel like I'm its tour guide (we're walking, we're walking, to the right you have the prostate... don't touch it! Photos only!) and I have family members who don't know how my boyfriend and I met, but turn into Sam I Am on the subject of gay buttsex, popping up…

The National Institutes of Health recently did a study to find out how penis size affects the sexual health of gay men.

Now that New York's become the biggest state to legalize gay marriage, we'll see whether it will follow in the steps of other marriage equality states in another respect: Seeing more women marry than men.

It makes me cringe when I hear a straight guy embark on a long tirade about how he could never possibly have sex or be intimate with another guy. I sigh and think to myself, "Not this again. What an asshole. You don't like dick. I get it!"

Politico reports that gay men are a key element of fundraising for President Obama's re-election campaign, since there are plenty of wealthy gay men who remain enthused by him where others are disaffected. So where are the lesbians?

The new web series In Between Men chronicles the lives of young professional gay men living "between two societies." It also appears to include lots of beefcake.

The new Sundance channel show Girls Who Like Boys Who Like Boys is a "groundbreaking" (their claim) series that explores the relationship between a woman and her gay best friend.

Not remembering people on repeat meetings is embarrassing, but for me, remembering them too well is another form of discomfort—one necessitating assurance that you aren't stalking them. According to Time, this is mostly a problem for ladies and gay men.

Growing up, I was freakishly small and no one paid attention to me. There are always some-those gnomes of the schoolyard running in slow motion toward puberty. We sad sideshows were the same as our peers emotionally, if not physically.

In the recently reignited debate over whether women can fantasize about men who openly like other men, we'd like to offer some photographic evidence that it is, in fact, possible. And we're going to enjoy it.

Yes, women's love for vampires is in fact just a displacement of our lust for...gay men. What, you didn't know? This guy did:

Popularized by Margaret Cho and Will & Grace, the archetype of the "fag hag" once had something to offer both gay men and straight women. Now, says Thomas Rogers at Salon, its time is up.