Oh yalies, my disdain grows for you nearly every day now that you're back in session, swamping my city. And this? Well this just ices the cupcake, so to speak. The cupcake of FURY.
To be honest, lets not assume all these guys are ridiculously hot. I'm sure we would all need a few beers to find them good looking. To be fair, my friends and I would totally do this. When we were bored we used to guess how big a dude's manhood was based on his other features.
I forwarded something similar to that around my college in the early 90s. It still makes me cringe and I'm 36. I hope the creator sees the error of his ways.
Oh ho! What you don't know is that I can be an extremely oversensitive, angry, violent drunk. Sure I might be annoyed now, but after a few beers? I might knock the silver spoons out of their pampered little ivy league mouths.
my husband strongly believes that most cultural douchebaggery can be explained by emasculation theory - in the past, men could see themselves as better than at least half the people in the world by default, but now, women are making strides, and this breed of guys with no real identity are thrown into a malaise that manifests in cultural panic.
these guys without an identity feel threatened, and try to find a way to put women in their place. they don't know how to interpret masculinity in a healthy way, so they watch UFC and punch each other, dismiss people and art as "gay" or "pussy", and can't be friends with their girlfriends because how can they have common interests with an OTHER when they are a MAN?
women aren't emasculating them, they didn't have any strength or self worth to begin with, and perceive the changing world as a threat to them. and then they rank girls at yale, who they think probably got in because of affirmative action, and are stuck-up bitches anyway.
@funzette: I agree with this wholeheartedly. I am reminded time and time again of this quote, which I will paraphrase: "Deep down, women are afraid that men will kill them. Men are afraid that women will laugh at them." I think most hatred comes from fear, and misogyny is no exception. The way these pathetic excuses for men deal with pure FEAR of female scorn and sexual rejection is to perceive women as worthless as possible, so that they are no longer threatening.
@funzette: Actually, I did my thesis midly about this (by way of slasher films).
In slasher movies (in the 70's and 80's) these guys are the killers. Unable to find their place in society, they're never "manly," they're sexual deviants (they're Norman Bates in a mask with a chainsaw). And at the end of the film they're castrated by someone who is physically female but inhabits a male gender role (she's got her own problems, but that's another post).
But now, movies like the 'Saw' series and 'Hostel' the killers are generally physically incapable somehow, but mentally justify what they're doing, AND are often presented to the audience as being some what sympathetic or relatable. Along with that the one doing the castrating is no longer female. It's another man. An ablebodied, better looking, more sexually successful man.
Rob Zombie's remake of 'Halloween' is a good example of this flip. In 1978's version we get about 5-10 minutes of Micheal's backstory, just enough to make the rest of the movie kind of make sense. Rob Zombie's remake IS Micheal's backstory. The remake also brings up some REALLY interesting class issues and Micheal went from being middle class suburban, to 'white trash' but again, that's another post.
And I just have to get the word out the ORIGINAL Texas Chainsaw Massacre II, awesome movie. And it's been long enough where the main character now looks like a total hipster in bedazzled jean shorts, bob with blunt bangs, and cowboy boots.
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Lizard in the Wires now with even MORE metal in the face! was starred
Lizard in the Wires now with even MORE metal in the face! was unstarred
@funzette: I read something recently (was it here? Can't remember...) that said that, in the minds of many men, women are defined as the opposite of men. Therefore, whatever women are, men feel compelled to be the opposite, like a giant game of Opposite Day that never ends. If women are sensitive, men must be stoic, if women are pretty and soft, men must be rough and tough, etc etc
And if the incoming freshman women of Yale are bright, ambitious, and independent...men must be drooling, hateful cretins, so they can know who they are.
Lacking their own identity and pathetically insecure about it, and fearing the negative attention of other men, they latch onto "at least I'm not a woman, they get fucked by men" as a shield.
I'm not sure which is worse... the concept of the ranking system or the fact that currently 62% of the article readers who responded were "laughing" versus 26% who were "furious"...
@Saltine: Now yuo are just lying to yourself. No woman can resist a man with a backwards baseball cap, popped-collar polo shirt, ill fitting shorts and a beer gut!
@Saltine: There's this football website I frequent that has a combination sex/fantasy football advice column every week. SO SO many questions go..."I don't want to date a fat chick, now granted I'm not so slim myself...."
@colormeroutine: Eww that description would be the reason that I am really happy I go to a large state school where I can avoid frat parties
@bluebears: of course, I have mostly guy friends and while a lot of them are not unattractive my favorite is that often the most judgmental guys are judging girls that are wayyyy out of their league.
@Saltine: My friend's roommate is totally this guy. He's an obnoxious, attention-hungry drunk guy who would be fine-looking if he weren't a douche, but certainly not going to be the romantic lead, if you will. He's extremely short and pudgy, for your brain's illustrative purposes, and his beard and the hair on his head are not the same color. We were at a college bar one day and he pointed to a cute girl in glasses and started ragging on her for being too ugly to flirt with. I was absolutely shocked and have refused to go places he'll be going ever since.
In high school a "Most Likely" list made the rounds and I was "most likely to get plastic surgery." But, I was also "most likely to be on the cover of Vogue."
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That being said, women's colleges FTW.
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these guys without an identity feel threatened, and try to find a way to put women in their place. they don't know how to interpret masculinity in a healthy way, so they watch UFC and punch each other, dismiss people and art as "gay" or "pussy", and can't be friends with their girlfriends because how can they have common interests with an OTHER when they are a MAN?
women aren't emasculating them, they didn't have any strength or self worth to begin with, and perceive the changing world as a threat to them. and then they rank girls at yale, who they think probably got in because of affirmative action, and are stuck-up bitches anyway.
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In slasher movies (in the 70's and 80's) these guys are the killers. Unable to find their place in society, they're never "manly," they're sexual deviants (they're Norman Bates in a mask with a chainsaw). And at the end of the film they're castrated by someone who is physically female but inhabits a male gender role (she's got her own problems, but that's another post).
But now, movies like the 'Saw' series and 'Hostel' the killers are generally physically incapable somehow, but mentally justify what they're doing, AND are often presented to the audience as being some what sympathetic or relatable. Along with that the one doing the castrating is no longer female. It's another man. An ablebodied, better looking, more sexually successful man.
Rob Zombie's remake of 'Halloween' is a good example of this flip. In 1978's version we get about 5-10 minutes of Micheal's backstory, just enough to make the rest of the movie kind of make sense. Rob Zombie's remake IS Micheal's backstory. The remake also brings up some REALLY interesting class issues and Micheal went from being middle class suburban, to 'white trash' but again, that's another post.
And I just have to get the word out the ORIGINAL Texas Chainsaw Massacre II, awesome movie. And it's been long enough where the main character now looks like a total hipster in bedazzled jean shorts, bob with blunt bangs, and cowboy boots.
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And if the incoming freshman women of Yale are bright, ambitious, and independent...men must be drooling, hateful cretins, so they can know who they are.
Lacking their own identity and pathetically insecure about it, and fearing the negative attention of other men, they latch onto "at least I'm not a woman, they get fucked by men" as a shield.
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Or something like that.
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My guess: not very
Now no matter what this is awful, and extremely hurtful, I just find guy's opinions about girls need for attractiveness vs. the own really interesting
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@bluebears: of course, I have mostly guy friends and while a lot of them are not unattractive my favorite is that often the most judgmental guys are judging girls that are wayyyy out of their league.
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Talk about your mixed messages.
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