Man this is depressing. I think holding out any hope for reform or compassion in this papacy is futile. All I can do as a Catholic is continue to speak up as a voice of reason and pray that the next papacy brings us a figure that understands:
(1) birth control is a good and necessary thing - continued overpopulation is just not an option;
(2) abortion, just like war, the death penalty and euthanasia, may actually be the most compassionate choice in certain situations and the church should get out of the business of "judging" everyone else's perceived sins;
(3) gays were made gay by GOD and deserve the right to marry in our church and
(4) women have an important and irreplacable role in the church and should be allowed to be deacons, ministers and priests, or else are faith will just grow smaller and more obsolete as society advances;
and (5) excommunication needs to be excommunicated - no priest, cardinal, bishop or pope has the authority to declare which sins are forgiveable and which are not, nor to declare when an individual is shunned from God's grace.
@sandie75: As a "fallen Catholic" who still finds some strange bit of comfort in going to mass (even Latin masses), your five points brought tears to my eyes. The vitrol I often see directed at Catholics isn't directed at the correct people - the corrupt officials in charge, yes should be called out and made to publicly admit their sins. But there are some beautiful people in the Church and it inspires individuals to do great things where the Church as a whole has failed.
@sandie75: I always thought the idea of excommunicating was stupid. How are you going to tell me that I can't be in your special club when being in the club is all about having faith in something intangible? You don't want to give me free crackers and wine once a week...fine. But I'm still in the special club, and there's nothing you can do about it (neener neener).
This coming from a born-Protestant, now-agonist/Pagan who grew up going to Catholic schools.
In so many ways, this feels like a distraction, a cognizant perversion of the abortion debate. While there may be a small number of Catholics who would refuse the right of a 9-year-old girl to terminate a pregnancy, I cannot possibly believe that the majority of believers support that idea in their hearts. It's ludicrous.
At 9 years old, an abortion is not a choice. It is not a question of convenience or rational, informed decision. She required an abortion as a medical necessity in order to save her own life, in exactly the same way that people require appendectomies or transplant surgeries. This just isn't in the same neighbourhood as a doctrinal position on the theological rights of adult, or even near-adult women to have abortions.
I cannot possibly see why the church would consider this case worth publicising in any way. It reflects terribly on their capacity to understand the basic needs of their flock, and to provide compassion and guidance through horrifyingly awful events. Poorly played, dudes. Try again.
@BetteD: Don't condemn the Church as a whole for the decisions and actions of a select few. I have many personal issues with the Church, but I know that those issues rest with individuals and their actions, not the entire religion and congregation.
In a world, though, where you truly believe that a fetus is a life worthy of the same respect/protection/etc as any other life, regardless of birth status, this isn't an illogical conclusion. I understand disagreeing with the outcome because you disagree with the initial premise (as I do), but this vitriol/calling people evil/etc just seems a little over the top.
@schweppes: Okay, but at her age, the girl would probably die from the pregnancy, or at least suffer greatly. Why is she worth less?
And I think that if life were respected regardless of birth status, there would be plenty more programs in place to assist women having children they couldn't support. It's like the anti-choice folks think you're alright if you're pre-born, but once you're preschool, get the fuck outta here.
@Cafezinha: No, not worth less. Worth equal. Since intervening will mean death of the fetus, and not intervening will be death of the little girl, the church's position is "Not a human's decision to make." It's not a matter of valuing one over the other.
@Cafezinha: It's not that she's worth less but that it is not our decision to make. Nothing justifies actively taking the life of the unborn child, even the possibility of saving the living child. Please note that I don't agree with this - I'm just trying to explain the rationale.
@schweppes: Okay, I understand the reasoning now. Usually, when I try to ask people these things, it turns into a major shit-flinging thing. I may not agree with the rationale, but I just wanted to see the thought process. I can see what you mean now.
@schweppes: In a way, though, it is. In the sense that by leaving it up to "god" the girl will most likely die. And the fetus, really, as a 9 year old is really not meant to carry a fetus to term.
By attempting to be neutral and hands off about the outcome, they're actually ensuring the preventable death of the girl and the likely death of the fetus regardless. And sort of trying to circumvent free will in the process.
To my mind and ethical compass, this isn't compassionate or equal. It's shirking responsibility and the reality that human beings -can- make a decision. There isn't any reason to leave it up to god, except by choosing to interpret a particular idea in a very specific way.
The set of circumstances leading to a raped 9 year old getting pregnant, to me, trumps the other. But that's me and I'm not Catholic. I don't think they're evil, just misguided.
@tiredfairy: Bearing in mind, of course, that she had the procedure so at least someone thought that leaving it up to god was not actually in anyone's best interest.
@tiredfairy: Yeah, of course, I don't think many people here actually AGREE that the girl should have been refused an abortion. BUT. The reasoning behind that refusal? Not evil. Not cruel. It's a mindset where humans are simply not allowed to kill another innocent human being. No matter what. No matter how unfair the outcome. Because in a situation devoid of fault, the tie goes to who God chooses, not humans.
@schweppes: Didn't ultimately her stepfather choose to create a situation in which he put three lives at risk in the eyes of the Catholic church? He impregnated his nine year old daughter with twins. She wouldn't survive giving birth to twins and neither would the twins survive a nine year old sustaining them. So, ultimately he is the one that presented this death sentence to all and it is the stepfather that deserves the excommunication because he created this situation. From older articles on this issue, the child rapist was not excommunicated. If the Catholic church started blaming child rapists for the outcomes of their sins, there would be a whole lot of heart ache in the church hierarchy. If the Catholic church decided to give one iota of a crap about the falling out of child rape, they could have avoided alot of children being preyed upon by men within their church. The Church willfully ignores the needs of the weakest members of it's church because of their insistence on not providing the compassion that Christ asked from his people. That is cruel.
@Jenloveshercurves: Yes. Perhaps the Church needs to reassess and make rape excommunicable. But it's not now. And the fact that it isn't certainly might be a policy that needs to be changed, but that alone does not make the vitriol directed at the church just, or right, in my opinion. To think that murder is a more egregious offense than rape isn't cruel, or unkind, or immoral, even if you may disagree.
@schweppes: I've also said that the stepfather is the murderer in this case. His actions led to the death of these children (if you view the twin fetuses in that light). He should be excommunicated for creating a situation that would lead to the death of any of these children. And the vitriol is just and right as the church is ignoring the needs of a child. The church needs to be continually challenged when they refuse to aid those that need help in their flock. Challenging them on this is just and right as it encourages the church to be a living church, one that seeks to engage with and really love it's flock. The priest that questioned the open and unfeeling response by the church was right. The church was not helping the child in this situation. While adults may be excommunicated for this, what is the church's answer to this child? For your father raping you, we will make it known that the people who helped you will burn in hell, even though they saved your life. How does this response help the child? It doesn't. The church didn't seek to help her, the victim. It injured again.
@Jenloveshercurves:You can argue forever about causation/etc when it come to liability for harm to the mother who became pregnant as a victim of rape, but that's really legally touchy ground. Morally, I can understand both sides, and wouldn't be so bold as to decry the morality of anyone who disagrees with me. In the church's mind, it has THREE members of its flock who need help, love and protection. All three of those are on an equal playing field, and equally deserving of care and love. It is not "ignoring" the little girl, it's simply not elevating her status as a living being above the two fetuses which, again, we may disagree with, but is not altogether an evil belief. Since there is no way to save all three, apparently, the church believes that it is not in a HUMAN'S power/right to make that decision. That's not a ridiculous notion and certainly not one that deserves ire.
@schweppes:ACK!! the grey void ate my response!!. I'll try to be more succinct than i was before--
I have no problem with those who choose to believe in religion(s). I try to be tolerant as much as i can and control my exasperation at how certain groups of people think. But when situations like this arise with this girl (and these aren't one in a million scenarios, they happen all over in countries where patriarchal religions govern societal behavior) I don't restrain my ire, and I believe it is completely warranted. Just because Catholics 'Believe' this is a level playing field (as you said) with the fetus and the girl does not make this true. There comes a point where human life and suffering trumps tolerance for other cultural/religious behaviors (ie, see FGM and Womens rights in certain Muslim countries) and we have to hold our fellow humans to a higher standard of intelligence, compassion and HUMANITY despite any beliefs. I wont shrug at anti choicers (espec in these kind of scenarios) and say, "oh well that's their belief and I have to respect that and not get angry". Because people are suffering from their beliefs and that's when my tolerance leaves the room and the need for anger comes in.
@margareita metermaid: I appreciate a lot of what you have to say, and maybe it's because I can understand/identify a lot more with the idea of a more inclusive definition of "alive" than just what happens in the split second before a baby is born than, for instance, FGM. There's no logical, kind-hearted reason to think that FGM is right, but I CAN see a logical, kind-hearted reason to think that fetuses deserve protection. Outside of that conclusion, I agree with much of what you've said - tolerance for religion has to stop somewhere.
@schweppes: It absolutely IS a ridiculous notion. I don't see Catholics refusing life-saving medical treatment for themselves when it DOESN'T involve abortion. They use reason and rationality to "play god" when it suits them but at other times their imaginary god gets to call the shots. Bullllllllshiat.
I don't understand the logic of the Catholic church. Respect for all life..okay got it. So why is that the life of the fetus [ if you believe it's a life] is somehow valued over that of the mother? Especially in this case where the mother is also a child...aren't children considered innocent, so why is she not on the same "playing field" as the fetus? What kind of cruel ass shit is to make a 9 year old go thru something so physically, mentally, and emotionally draining. These draconian ways of treating people [women especially] are sickening..and frankly well not very Christ-like are they Ol' Pope?
I'll keep chillin with the Archbishop of Canterbury.
@Interrobanging: Here's the logic of it: through action, we will proactively cause the death of a being. through inaction, one will probably die. since they are both equal, in the church's eyes, no one has the right to make that proactive step to interfere. in this fact pattern, that poor little girl will die. in other fact patterns, the fetus might die. the church believes that no one has the right to actually go ahead and CHANGE that natural outcome.
Thanks for the explanation. I still don't agree with it, I think its well, quite ridiculous. Not that I think Catholics are ridiculous, because I do not. But this line of thinking...just seems so detrimental.
"The Church attaches the canonical penalty of excommunication to this crime against human life..."
What is the penalty levied for the crime against human life of raping your 9-year-old stepdaughter?
What is the penalty levied for the crime against human life of someone who forces a child carry the pregnancy of an incestual rape to term even though it will kill her?
What is the penalty levied for the crime against human life of a complete lack of compassion and not seeing the forest for the trees, in the wide-angle lens view of humanity?
@Cafezinha: As a Christian, I really do believe that the Pope and his cronies will have to answer for this type of shit on their day of judgment. There is a reason that children are considered innocents and in need of protecting. They chose to inflict damnation and pain on multiple families instead of pouring out the love of Christ for this child. And yet they have nothing to say for the behavior or the soul of the man who took her innocence from her.
Nothing says love of religion, faith in god, and respect for life like requiring a nine year old to endure pregnancy and near-certain long term debilitating effects when there is available medical treatment to prevent both the physical and (some of) the psychological harm.
"We have laws, we have a discipline, we have a doctrine of the faith," the official says. "This is not just theory. And you can't start backpedaling just because the real-life situation carries a certain human weight."
Well, thank goodness. I would hate for the Vatican to take real-life situations or humans (especially women) into account. Whew!
@midwestdesigner: On one hand, I tend to respect someone who absolutely follows their rules for living, even in the face of massive unpopularity. It takes a certain stubbornness and dedication to their principles.
But then you realize that there are REAL HUMAN BEINGS here at stake/affected, and that life is not actually black and white like that. And then I want to throw rocks.
I seriously hope that, as the article said may happen, this DOES reignite the scandal in the world media. Ratzinger will fight any reasonable reform tooth and nail, and the church will have to take it in the pants pretty hard before he and his cadre of hard-liners within the church start making political concessions. Let the shaming commence.
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(1) birth control is a good and necessary thing - continued overpopulation is just not an option;
(2) abortion, just like war, the death penalty and euthanasia, may actually be the most compassionate choice in certain situations and the church should get out of the business of "judging" everyone else's perceived sins;
(3) gays were made gay by GOD and deserve the right to marry in our church and
(4) women have an important and irreplacable role in the church and should be allowed to be deacons, ministers and priests, or else are faith will just grow smaller and more obsolete as society advances;
and (5) excommunication needs to be excommunicated - no priest, cardinal, bishop or pope has the authority to declare which sins are forgiveable and which are not, nor to declare when an individual is shunned from God's grace.
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This coming from a born-Protestant, now-agonist/Pagan who grew up going to Catholic schools.
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At 9 years old, an abortion is not a choice. It is not a question of convenience or rational, informed decision. She required an abortion as a medical necessity in order to save her own life, in exactly the same way that people require appendectomies or transplant surgeries. This just isn't in the same neighbourhood as a doctrinal position on the theological rights of adult, or even near-adult women to have abortions.
I cannot possibly see why the church would consider this case worth publicising in any way. It reflects terribly on their capacity to understand the basic needs of their flock, and to provide compassion and guidance through horrifyingly awful events. Poorly played, dudes. Try again.
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And I think that if life were respected regardless of birth status, there would be plenty more programs in place to assist women having children they couldn't support. It's like the anti-choice folks think you're alright if you're pre-born, but once you're preschool, get the fuck outta here.
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By attempting to be neutral and hands off about the outcome, they're actually ensuring the preventable death of the girl and the likely death of the fetus regardless. And sort of trying to circumvent free will in the process.
To my mind and ethical compass, this isn't compassionate or equal. It's shirking responsibility and the reality that human beings -can- make a decision. There isn't any reason to leave it up to god, except by choosing to interpret a particular idea in a very specific way.
The set of circumstances leading to a raped 9 year old getting pregnant, to me, trumps the other. But that's me and I'm not Catholic. I don't think they're evil, just misguided.
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I have no problem with those who choose to believe in religion(s). I try to be tolerant as much as i can and control my exasperation at how certain groups of people think. But when situations like this arise with this girl (and these aren't one in a million scenarios, they happen all over in countries where patriarchal religions govern societal behavior) I don't restrain my ire, and I believe it is completely warranted. Just because Catholics 'Believe' this is a level playing field (as you said) with the fetus and the girl does not make this true. There comes a point where human life and suffering trumps tolerance for other cultural/religious behaviors (ie, see FGM and Womens rights in certain Muslim countries) and we have to hold our fellow humans to a higher standard of intelligence, compassion and HUMANITY despite any beliefs. I wont shrug at anti choicers (espec in these kind of scenarios) and say, "oh well that's their belief and I have to respect that and not get angry". Because people are suffering from their beliefs and that's when my tolerance leaves the room and the need for anger comes in.
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Fuck off and die.
Respectfully yours,
Ms. Skittles
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I'll keep chillin with the Archbishop of Canterbury.
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Thanks for the explanation. I still don't agree with it, I think its well, quite ridiculous. Not that I think Catholics are ridiculous, because I do not. But this line of thinking...just seems so detrimental.
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What is the penalty levied for the crime against human life of raping your 9-year-old stepdaughter?
What is the penalty levied for the crime against human life of someone who forces a child carry the pregnancy of an incestual rape to term even though it will kill her?
What is the penalty levied for the crime against human life of a complete lack of compassion and not seeing the forest for the trees, in the wide-angle lens view of humanity?
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FOR. SHAME.
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Way to go Catholicism.
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Well, thank goodness. I would hate for the Vatican to take real-life situations or humans (especially women) into account. Whew!
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But then you realize that there are REAL HUMAN BEINGS here at stake/affected, and that life is not actually black and white like that. And then I want to throw rocks.
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