Cooking - real cooking, not just heating something up - is a luxury for me. It requires time, some budget for pricier ingredients and the emotional and physical energy to whip up dishes then clean the kitchen (and emotional and physical energy are in short supply for me at the end of the workday). When I'm at my boyfriend's house he does all the cooking because he has more flexible hours and is usually home before I am. I cook when we're at my place, but it means dinner is delayed while I recoup a little from work. So, what was a necessity for my grandmother - to cook full meals from scratch - is now something I view as an indulgence for when I have a little extra time on the weekend to let bread dough rise, meats marinate and ovens pre-heat. For me right now, cooking is like knitting, sewing or reading a good book - something nice that I don't get to do nearly often enough.
He brings up the gender politics of the kitchen, labels them complex (so far, so good) and then dismisses them without addressing the complexities.
Then there's this lovely, sweeping, just plain wrong statement: "Women with jobs have more money to pay corporations to do their cooking, yet all American women now allow corporations to cook for them when they can." I am an American woman, with a job, and I only pay people to cook for me when I have to, or when I go out to a nice dinner (which, to me, is not a substitute for a home-cooked meal, but a different thing altogether).
Or, he says this: "It’s generally assumed that the entrance of women into the work force is responsible for the collapse of home cooking, but that turns out to be only part of the story," and then never says what the other part of the story is. He just talks about women working and what happened.
Basically, I think he's lazy with facts and figures, but I don't disagree with his goal: more people cooking on a day-to-day basis. Until we're all doing it, it's not enough. ;-)
I'll be honest--the husband does the bulk of our cooking during the week because he has an easy commute (walking 15 minutes) versus my hour-long commute each way. Weekends, though, are time for recreational cooking--we make cacio e pepe, moules frites, braised lamb shanks, various risottos and pizzas--all as a team. Food is one of our big indulgences, and it's totally worth taking the time to learn how to do it well. Practice makes perfect, and believe me--the less-than-perfect efforts still taste better than anything you had in a restaurant, because you made them yourself.
I love to cook. But I "cook", I don't actually cook. Meaning every once in a while I get struck by the urge, find a fun recipe and go buy all the ingredients (for about $60 and end up throwing most of them away) then the rest of the week live on tuna sandwiches and crackers & hummus.
As a single person, its way to hard to shop for myself and get reasonable quantities I can actually use within a week or so. Whenever I try to start grocery shopping, three weeks later I'm throwing away what appears to be science experiments from the chill drawer. Its actually more cost effective to live on cans of tuna and take out
@erinna: I co-sign everything you just said. Most of my real cooking is done when there is company over - even just the boyfriend - to help me eat it. My mom tried to teach me to do the thing where you make a big dish and eat on it for a week...which is fine, except I get sick of whatever it is on about the third day and the rest inevitably goes to waste. And it's not like there is less to clean up when you cook for one person versus 3 or 4.
I love to cook. I like to try to figure out how to cook as much variety as possible with simple, everyday ingredients one can find almost any place. People need more instruction on how to cook for every day needs, rather than cooking shows with complicated ingredients and preparation processes, which tend to be discouraging rather than inspiring. My guess is also that a lot of people consider "fancier" meals pretentious, or something that only wealthy people eat.
Of course, complicated meals have their time and I have made some myself, but for daily meals something quicker and simpler is necessary.
@Mafalda para Presidente: I wish that cooking shows would talk about what to keep in a well-stocked pantry, and I don't mean just dried or canned goods--great stuff to keep in your fridge from week to week that can save you in a moment when you need something in the lurch, yet versatile enough to have multiple applications.
@belle TL: That's a seriously tall order, since it depends greatly on what you like to eat. But, for me, they are:
- eggs
- mustard
- tomato paste
- shallots
- garlic
- onions
- bacon
- vinegar and oil
- parmesan cheese
- herbs (basil, thyme and sage on my windwsill)
- lettuce of some kind
- cucumbers (my favorite food)
- pasta
- potatoes
With these on hand, you can make a ton of different things, and by adding various meats (or fish), you can really mix things up. In fact, these, plus seasonal fruits and veggies, and maybe some frozen peas, make up most of what I eat for lunch and dinner, both of which I make from scratch almost every day.
@queenieinmanhattan: You have listed nothing that I would feel is too crazy, but the beauty is--I'd LOVE to see how this differs among those who love to cook around the country--but if a show spent some time that even did a region an episode, offering meals that don't have to include a dessert, I think we would be doing much better with cooking.
@queenieinmanhattan: I totally agree, and would add:
-canned beans (black and white)
-Pomi brand chopped tomatoes
-cherry tomatoes
-lemons and limes
-capers
-butter
Yeah, I've been trying to figure out whether I am in a bubble when it comes to this--I mean, I am, since I work for an agriculture-related nonprofit--since we borrow each other's canners, space in chest freezers, gossip about raw milk shares, and I make almost all my own food from scratch. I know we're not typical, but we're not total outliers.
Both of these things apply to me.
-I don't want to cook when I get home from school at 8-10 oclock at night.
-I love cooking when I can make the time commitment.
@anteup: I think there is a misconception about cooking that it takes a serious time commitment. There are so many things you can make from scratch under 30 minutes, especially if meat is not involved. You just have to be creative! Most foodie magazines have a plethora of 30-minute or less recipes. Also, it's smart to cook up big batches of things when you do have the time so you can heat up some healthy, homemade leftovers on your late nights.
@anteup: Couscous! For late night meals, just add shit in--specifically, always keep a container of plain Greek yogurt on hand and make a sauce with it, some minced garlic and some herbs. It's filling without being too heavy.
Since The Great Downsizing of Ought Eight, I cook a helluva lot more than I used to, or at least since those lean post college years. Partially inspired by budgetary concerns, partially inspired by my Food Network Smart Boy crush Alton Brown, I've never been as active or adventurous in the kitchen as I am now. Many of my equally cash strapped friends, male and female, are doing the same - I think there might be a hooey element to these rumors no one cooks.
My grandmother's cousin was permanently scarred and lost most of her jaw as a child from an explosion during a canning or preserve-making accident. Our whole family has run screaming from the prospect of the process ever since!
I tried making my own beer once. It's probably just as difficult and time consuming as this :(
And I figured its cheaper to just buy the damn beer at the store.
While my mother has been a prize-winning canner at the county fair (her carrots, jams, salsas, and green beans were particularly popular), I have not done any canning since I've been out on my own. I did enough helping in my younger years that I know how to can, and could do it if necessary. I could do a lot of things if necessary. If there's anything this recession has taught me, it's that my weird ass hippie upbringing is actually darn practical. We grew our own food, organic of course, raised chickens for eggs, and even briefly had a family pig who later became sausage, though the tears and protests and boycotts staged by my sister and I assured that we never tried our hand at raising our own meat again. I can sew, barely, and I can make sundry beauty supplies to give out as gifts. I didn't know it then, but my family was a regular bunch of recessionistas.
WOOOOOOOO DIY!!!! My fiance and I are making the slow transition to self-sufficiency. Within the next few years, it's our goal to get to the point where we buy nothing that is completely pre-fabricated (ie, making all of our own clothes, making all food from scratch, etc). It's an exciting adventure!
@Beets.Go.On is one cold lady: I'm working on this myself, mostly with the bf giving me the side eye. Sometimes he's super into it (I'm noticing his enthusiam is directly related to the project's deliciousness). Homemade granola- approved, homemade bread- approved, but when I whipped out the wheat glutton to make seitan he just backed away slowly.
We used to can a lot. The Day of Canning (like the Day of Reckoning, kinda) was decreed by my grandmother, generally on the hottest damn day of the summer, and she and my mother would sweat over an ancient kettle and can peaches and pears and mince pie filling and various jams and jellies and the ever-popular classic, zucchini relish.
Now my grandmother's been gone since 1995 (she passed away just two years shy of her 90th birthday) and my mother doesn't do as much canning anymore. But she still does the zucchini relish when faced with a bumper crop in her garden - this is pretty much every year, really - and everytime she does, I beg her to ship me some jars, because that shit is good, and I can't imagine making salad sandwiches or topping burgers and brats with anything else.
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He brings up the gender politics of the kitchen, labels them complex (so far, so good) and then dismisses them without addressing the complexities.
Then there's this lovely, sweeping, just plain wrong statement: "Women with jobs have more money to pay corporations to do their cooking, yet all American women now allow corporations to cook for them when they can." I am an American woman, with a job, and I only pay people to cook for me when I have to, or when I go out to a nice dinner (which, to me, is not a substitute for a home-cooked meal, but a different thing altogether).
Or, he says this: "It’s generally assumed that the entrance of women into the work force is responsible for the collapse of home cooking, but that turns out to be only part of the story," and then never says what the other part of the story is. He just talks about women working and what happened.
Basically, I think he's lazy with facts and figures, but I don't disagree with his goal: more people cooking on a day-to-day basis. Until we're all doing it, it's not enough. ;-)
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As a single person, its way to hard to shop for myself and get reasonable quantities I can actually use within a week or so. Whenever I try to start grocery shopping, three weeks later I'm throwing away what appears to be science experiments from the chill drawer. Its actually more cost effective to live on cans of tuna and take out
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That said, I find the picture above rather ironic.
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Of course, complicated meals have their time and I have made some myself, but for daily meals something quicker and simpler is necessary.
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- eggs
- mustard
- tomato paste
- shallots
- garlic
- onions
- bacon
- vinegar and oil
- parmesan cheese
- herbs (basil, thyme and sage on my windwsill)
- lettuce of some kind
- cucumbers (my favorite food)
- pasta
- potatoes
With these on hand, you can make a ton of different things, and by adding various meats (or fish), you can really mix things up. In fact, these, plus seasonal fruits and veggies, and maybe some frozen peas, make up most of what I eat for lunch and dinner, both of which I make from scratch almost every day.
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-canned beans (black and white)
-Pomi brand chopped tomatoes
-cherry tomatoes
-lemons and limes
-capers
-butter
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-I don't want to cook when I get home from school at 8-10 oclock at night.
-I love cooking when I can make the time commitment.
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So is Michael Symon, with his shiny new James Beard award.
(Thus ends my shallow.)
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And I figured its cheaper to just buy the damn beer at the store.
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You're lucky you have a partner!
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Now my grandmother's been gone since 1995 (she passed away just two years shy of her 90th birthday) and my mother doesn't do as much canning anymore. But she still does the zucchini relish when faced with a bumper crop in her garden - this is pretty much every year, really - and everytime she does, I beg her to ship me some jars, because that shit is good, and I can't imagine making salad sandwiches or topping burgers and brats with anything else.