@deeemer: Saying that "Nigeria kills 250 people" implies that it's a state action, or at least a state-endorsed action, when it's quite the opposite. I don't mean to suggest that you don't know this, just to point out that it can be important to consider the way you phrase things. I hope you don't take it the wrong way - it's meant to be a gentle comment, not a harsh criticism.
As to your main point, I get most of my news (when I bother with the news) via the BBC World website and this has been the top front-page story since yesterday (the most recent update (http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/africa/8173717.stm) is the 9th most read story on the BBC World News website; I didn't realise it hadn't gotten equivalent coverage in the US media, but I guess I'm not surprised.
Guess that's why cats are so hard to train. They don't remember from one time to the next what they're supposed to do. Or they remember it in severely idiotic ways. Like - our tiny, scardey cat always attacks the couch with her claws, so we tell her to stop and put her on the scratchy thing to try to teach her to use that. So, now when we catch her scratching the couch, we yell and she runs to the scratchy thing and hides. We've taught her that the scratchy thing is the punishment zone. She never uses it to scratch.
@BytheSea: our tiny, scardey cat always attacks the couch with her claws, so we tell her to stop and put her on the scratchy thing to try to teach her to use that. So, now when we catch her scratching the couch, we yell and she runs to the scratchy thing and hides. We've taught her that the scratchy thing is the punishment zone. She never uses it to scratch. our tiny, scardey cat always attacks the couch with her claws, so we tell her to stop and put her on the scratchy thing to try to teach her to use that. So, now when we catch her scratching the couch, we yell and she runs to the scratchy thing and hides. We've taught her that the scratchy thing is the punishment zone. She never uses it to scratch.
First, keep her claws trimmed. Unfortunately, you've learned the hard way what does not work and are causing her a lot of fear unnecessarily. It's not too late to fix this, but it will take time, patience and NO YELLING! :-)
The first thing you'll want to do is purchase a new scratching post that does not resemble the old one. Something tall and stable is your best option unless she is a "horizontal scratcher that likes flat surfaces. Then a flat, *wide* cardboard scratcher might be more appropriate (some cats like both and it doesn't hurt to have several options in different parts of your home.) This post is a favorite in my household: [www.grabcart.com]
The key is to observe the type of surfaces and angle they prefer to scratch at and then provide them things of their own that fit that preference.
Next, you want to place the post close to where she usually scratches. Rub catnip on it and see if you can entice her to use it by dragging a string up the side. Give praise and or treats every time she uses it, but never yell or get visibly frustrated if she doesn't at first. Never try to force a cat to use a post by grabbing their paws and making them scratch. You want them to understand that this is "their" post and make it a pleasurable experience.
If you see her start to use the couch do NOT yell as this creates fear, and this is especially a no-no when you are dealing with a "scaredy-cat." Instead, use a treat and/or a "happy" voice to distract her and then scratch your fingernails on the post and make it look like fun, or use a toy to entice her to come to the post instead. It also helps to cover the areas of the couch she is scratching with double-sided tape or a sheet or throw and make them inaccessible so her only option is the post. Yelling, etc. is not an effective training tool and doing anything that punishes or instills fear for doing what is a natural and necessary behavior is unfair and stressful for cats. Being kind and using gentle, fun persuasion is very effective and, while it is not instantaneous, it does work. It will take some time, especially considering there is some damage to undo, but it is not impossible.
@TheCatlady: @BytheSea: BytheSea, don't feel bad. I have had cats all my life and kind of just tossed up my shoulders, scolded and just dealt with the irritating shit my cats have done. My current ones scratch every which way -- horizontally/vertically/curtains/furniture/carpet....it's impossible. My mom swears by the tape trick, but honestly, I have always preferred scratched up furniture to furniture covered in packing tape. I will definitely try the "hey this is fun" trick, though....it's so interesting to hear about cat brains!
I'm 5'11" and I have an unforgettable personality. It is of the "socially inept awkward assface who sometimes snorts and/or snots while laughing at extremely inappropriate moments" tall variety.
Is there supposed to be some sort of built-in "graceful, poised, and generally respectable" filter in my long bones? I sure haven't noticed one.
I wonder about this cat study... My folks had a cat that I used to play with, and then I went off to my first year of school.
It seems he became quite the hunter while I was away, bringing lizards, birds, gophers, and small rabbits inside through the doggie-door and playing with them.
One day, my Mom brought home a bell-collar and asked me to put it on the little guy. I did so and that was the end of his hunting escapades for a while. For 2 1/2 months, I worked and went to Summer-school and the cat would not come near me.
By Christmas, we were friends again. But in that time, he'd gone through a few other collars that he somehow managed to "silence" by damaging the bell. Eventually, he got good enough at refining his technique, that he could get birds, mice, and lizards, even with a bell intact. Lost him to a pack of coyotes. RIP.
@annieo: Of course industry folks would dispute that number, so what? That aside, you should reread what I actually wrote. I referred to STDs as a whole, not just HIV. The article says:
"Over the same period, there were 2378 positive tests for chlamydia, 1357 for gonorrhoea and 15 for syphilis in Los Angeles County among people describing themselves as adult film performers.
And this is only among people who voluntarily got themselves tested, only in Los Angeles County, only people who listed themselves as adult film performers.
@Hana Maru: These industry people you brush aside as being unreliable are actually the agency that provides HIV testing to the adult industry and are also the agency from which the Health Dept got its statistics. They're called Adult Industry Medical Healthcare, they're amazing and you should check them out. You should also read the following, from their website, which explains why positive tests of the general public were reported as being positive performer tests:
"AIM Healthcare Foundation is an HIV testing clinic. We serve the Adult Industry, as well as the general public. Quite often, due to the early detection nature of our testing, and the low price, and 24 hour turnaround time for results, the general public with utilize our services. If and when these patients come back positive, THEY ARE ALWAYS REPORTED TO THE COUNTY HEALTH DEPARTMENT IN A TIMELY MANNER, AFTER CONFIRMATORY TESTS RESULTS ARE IN OUR FILES.
Also, while serving the Adult Entertainment Industry, most talent have an HIV test from AIM, to present on the set when they arrive. Typically, in the Heterosexual Porn Industry which does not utilize condoms regularly, folks who desire to be talent will not be hired with an HIV positive test. AIM, continues to follow reporting regulations and does so to the County Health Department, as well as refers Positive patients for desired treatment either private or non profit. This is why they are not "publicized" as they had never fulfilled the desire to work in Adult Entertainment, due to the positive test. These are the two categories that the "16 HIV cases since 2004" are involved. All cases were reported, and referred for treatment."
Further, 2378 positive chlamydia tests over a period of FIVE YEARS in an industry that employs tens of thousands of people is still not shocking to me. AIM tests over 1200 people A MONTH. That's a shockingly low rate of infection. According to Planned Parenthood, one in 5 people are infected with some kind of STD. And according to the NY State Dept of Health, one in 5 teens contracts an STD every year in the US. In, for instance, the state of Illinois alone, JUST in 2005, according to the Illinois Department of Public Health there were 1,880 reported cases of HIV, 28,910 reported cases of chlamydia, 11,653 reported cases of gonorrhea and 489 reported cases of early syphilis. In one year. In Illinois.
So, no, I don't really think there is a rampant STD problem in the adult film industry. I think there is a rampant STD problem in Illinois, and we should all make smug, judgmental comments about how of COURSE the state of Illinois would have an STD problem.
Dude, did anybody consider that maybe the cats didn't pull on the string to get a treat because a) it's beneath their dignity and b) they knew someone would give them a treat eventually anyway, with no labour on their part?
My cat understands the cause and effect connection between objects just fine, friends.
The treats are kept in a cupboard that she can't get into. I am near that cupboard, but also near the kitchen door. Solution? Herd me away from the doorway, bite my feet and shout obscenities till treats are provided.
I beg to differ about the cause & effect link w/ cats. My cat knows what will happen if she does certain things. She also chooses to ignore the effect when she pushes my stuff off of tables just to watch it fall.
Based on my anecdotal analysis, *some* cats cannot make a cause-and-effect connection. One of my cats figured out a long time ago that the elusive red dot he liked to chase had something to do with something I held in my hand. He also figured out that he couldn't ever catch it.
--"At least 22 cases of HIV have been reported among California porn stars since 2004" Another reason to tell your fiance about that porno career...
--Regarding the intelligence of cats: Bish plz. Anyone who has a cat knows that if you are trying to read or write or go on the computer, the cat will jump between you and the reading material. This is because cats are trying to learn how to read. Once they can read they can organize and we will have a revolution on our hands.
--Regarding Imelda Marcos' jewelry: If you ever want to de-glamorize an enormous ruby, by all means, describe it as a prune.
Divorce has become even more complicated in the age of Facebook. Lawyers report using information gained from their client's spouse's Facebook pages frequently in court, often to prove infidelity or other wrong doing.
Y'all...I'm sure you know this already but lawyers are using facebook as evidence for everything these days. Including criminal cases.
In fact, if one of your friends has been implicated in something (like a DUI as an example), be very aware that they are going to look at their friends list on facebook. Be smart and keep your shit locked down as much as possible....and don't accept tagged photos of yourself getting drunk off your ass and acting a fool.
@tomatoheart: Word! I'm using MySpace printouts in a custody case. The other party was dumb enough to post all manner of unflattering and downright vile (and untrue) things about my client. Way to co-parent!
I know the thing about behaving tall shouldn't bother me, but it kind of does. Maybe it's nice if you're a guy or a 5'9'' woman, but otherwise being tall isn't that great. I think what they're describing is mostly about confidence, anyway.
@eri401: I don't know about that one. I'm 5'10", and I was once covering a sporting event (in heels, putting me at about 6'1")where I had to meet up with the media manager for the team, who was a short, wiry middle-aged southern man, probably about 5'4" or 5'5". We spoke for a few minutes, and as we said goodbye, not only did he call me "little lady," but he also patted me on the head. It was quite a reach for him.
@ktburrr: Just stick with my tried-and-true cold medication: two Benadryl and a glass of red wine. You might be stuffy, but you sure as hell won't notice in your death sleep.
07/28/09
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/07/28/nigerian-forces-shell-mos_n_246542.html
So interesting how Nigeria kills 250 people, and no media news outlet blinks an eye. Where is this on the news?
07/28/09
07/29/09
As to your main point, I get most of my news (when I bother with the news) via the BBC World website and this has been the top front-page story since yesterday (the most recent update (http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/africa/8173717.stm) is the 9th most read story on the BBC World News website; I didn't realise it hadn't gotten equivalent coverage in the US media, but I guess I'm not surprised.
07/28/09
I really hope these children are safe now.
06/17/09
06/17/09
our tiny, scardey cat always attacks the couch with her claws, so we tell her to stop and put her on the scratchy thing to try to teach her to use that. So, now when we catch her scratching the couch, we yell and she runs to the scratchy thing and hides. We've taught her that the scratchy thing is the punishment zone. She never uses it to scratch. our tiny, scardey cat always attacks the couch with her claws, so we tell her to stop and put her on the scratchy thing to try to teach her to use that. So, now when we catch her scratching the couch, we yell and she runs to the scratchy thing and hides. We've taught her that the scratchy thing is the punishment zone. She never uses it to scratch.
First, keep her claws trimmed. Unfortunately, you've learned the hard way what does not work and are causing her a lot of fear unnecessarily. It's not too late to fix this, but it will take time, patience and NO YELLING! :-)
The first thing you'll want to do is purchase a new scratching post that does not resemble the old one. Something tall and stable is your best option unless she is a "horizontal scratcher that likes flat surfaces. Then a flat, *wide* cardboard scratcher might be more appropriate (some cats like both and it doesn't hurt to have several options in different parts of your home.) This post is a favorite in my household: [www.grabcart.com]
The key is to observe the type of surfaces and angle they prefer to scratch at and then provide them things of their own that fit that preference.
Next, you want to place the post close to where she usually scratches. Rub catnip on it and see if you can entice her to use it by dragging a string up the side. Give praise and or treats every time she uses it, but never yell or get visibly frustrated if she doesn't at first. Never try to force a cat to use a post by grabbing their paws and making them scratch. You want them to understand that this is "their" post and make it a pleasurable experience.
If you see her start to use the couch do NOT yell as this creates fear, and this is especially a no-no when you are dealing with a "scaredy-cat." Instead, use a treat and/or a "happy" voice to distract her and then scratch your fingernails on the post and make it look like fun, or use a toy to entice her to come to the post instead. It also helps to cover the areas of the couch she is scratching with double-sided tape or a sheet or throw and make them inaccessible so her only option is the post. Yelling, etc. is not an effective training tool and doing anything that punishes or instills fear for doing what is a natural and necessary behavior is unfair and stressful for cats. Being kind and using gentle, fun persuasion is very effective and, while it is not instantaneous, it does work. It will take some time, especially considering there is some damage to undo, but it is not impossible.
06/17/09
06/16/09
Is there supposed to be some sort of built-in "graceful, poised, and generally respectable" filter in my long bones? I sure haven't noticed one.
06/16/09
It seems he became quite the hunter while I was away, bringing lizards, birds, gophers, and small rabbits inside through the doggie-door and playing with them.
One day, my Mom brought home a bell-collar and asked me to put it on the little guy. I did so and that was the end of his hunting escapades for a while. For 2 1/2 months, I worked and went to Summer-school and the cat would not come near me.
By Christmas, we were friends again. But in that time, he'd gone through a few other collars that he somehow managed to "silence" by damaging the bell. Eventually, he got good enough at refining his technique, that he could get birds, mice, and lizards, even with a bell intact. Lost him to a pack of coyotes. RIP.
06/16/09
So much porn eroticizes extremely risky acts, especially for women. There is almost no oversight, and people come and go all the time.
06/16/09
06/16/09
"Over the same period, there were 2378 positive tests for chlamydia, 1357 for gonorrhoea and 15 for syphilis in Los Angeles County among people describing themselves as adult film performers.
And this is only among people who voluntarily got themselves tested, only in Los Angeles County, only people who listed themselves as adult film performers.
06/16/09
"AIM Healthcare Foundation is an HIV testing clinic. We serve the Adult Industry, as well as the general public. Quite often, due to the early detection nature of our testing, and the low price, and 24 hour turnaround time for results, the general public with utilize our services. If and when these patients come back positive, THEY ARE ALWAYS REPORTED TO THE COUNTY HEALTH DEPARTMENT IN A TIMELY MANNER, AFTER CONFIRMATORY TESTS RESULTS ARE IN OUR FILES.
Also, while serving the Adult Entertainment Industry, most talent have an HIV test from AIM, to present on the set when they arrive. Typically, in the Heterosexual Porn Industry which does not utilize condoms regularly, folks who desire to be talent will not be hired with an HIV positive test. AIM, continues to follow reporting regulations and does so to the County Health Department, as well as refers Positive patients for desired treatment either private or non profit. This is why they are not "publicized" as they had never fulfilled the desire to work in Adult Entertainment, due to the positive test. These are the two categories that the "16 HIV cases since 2004" are involved. All cases were reported, and referred for treatment."
Further, 2378 positive chlamydia tests over a period of FIVE YEARS in an industry that employs tens of thousands of people is still not shocking to me. AIM tests over 1200 people A MONTH. That's a shockingly low rate of infection. According to Planned Parenthood, one in 5 people are infected with some kind of STD. And according to the NY State Dept of Health, one in 5 teens contracts an STD every year in the US. In, for instance, the state of Illinois alone, JUST in 2005, according to the Illinois Department of Public Health there were 1,880 reported cases of HIV, 28,910 reported cases of chlamydia, 11,653 reported cases of gonorrhea and 489 reported cases of early syphilis. In one year. In Illinois.
So, no, I don't really think there is a rampant STD problem in the adult film industry. I think there is a rampant STD problem in Illinois, and we should all make smug, judgmental comments about how of COURSE the state of Illinois would have an STD problem.
06/17/09
06/16/09
My cat understands the cause and effect connection between objects just fine, friends.
The treats are kept in a cupboard that she can't get into. I am near that cupboard, but also near the kitchen door. Solution? Herd me away from the doorway, bite my feet and shout obscenities till treats are provided.
06/16/09
06/16/09
06/16/09
The other two remain blissfully ignorant.
06/16/09
06/16/09
Another reason to tell your fiance about that porno career...
--Regarding the intelligence of cats: Bish plz. Anyone who has a cat knows that if you are trying to read or write or go on the computer, the cat will jump between you and the reading material. This is because cats are trying to learn how to read. Once they can read they can organize and we will have a revolution on our hands.
--Regarding Imelda Marcos' jewelry: If you ever want to de-glamorize an enormous ruby, by all means, describe it as a prune.
06/16/09
Y'all...I'm sure you know this already but lawyers are using facebook as evidence for everything these days. Including criminal cases.
In fact, if one of your friends has been implicated in something (like a DUI as an example), be very aware that they are going to look at their friends list on facebook. Be smart and keep your shit locked down as much as possible....and don't accept tagged photos of yourself getting drunk off your ass and acting a fool.
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06/16/09
Seriously cat owners, sleep with one eye open.
06/16/09
06/16/09
Yay Zicam!
06/17/09