Social Minefield: A Guide To FlirtingAnna North1/13/11 3:00pmFiled to: Social minefieldFlirtingFlirtationDatingRelationshipssocial lifeConversationshutterstockTopLifehacker3132EditPromoteShare to KinjaToggle Conversation toolsGo to permalinkEven the socially adept sometimes struggle with the flirting question: how do you chat somebody up without seeming cheesy, over-the-top, or creepy? Luckily, we have some answers.I've said it before — flirting is tough. You don't want to make an idiot of yourself, and — assuming you're a good person — you also don't want to invade someone's space or harass them. But you don't want to just stare into your drink and let someone awesome pass you by, either. Here are some tips to help you seize the moment without being a jerk:ShareTweet Kinja is in read-only mode. We are working to restore service.