Loose LipsThere's no delicate way to put this: Patrick Dempsey likes spanking. The Grey's Anatomy heartthrob said, "Romance is an atmosphere, a feeling, a mood, a place, it's in the air. It is the little things - even a spanking every now and then!" • More details on Travis Barker and D.J. AM's horrific plane crash: they managed to survive because "they slid down the wing on the right side of the plane," and though they both were on fire, "they tackled each other and put each other out." • Whoa, Sharon Stone has lost custody of her 8-year-old son, Roan. Stone originally had joint physical custody with ex-husband, newspaper editor Phil Bronstein, but a judge has ordered that Bronstein get full custody permanently "unless there is a change of circumstances." Wonder what happened with that one. • Breaking!! Clay Aiken comes out of the closet! Next he'll be telling us bears shit in the woods! [The Sun,People, ET Online, Perez]