We're Obsessed With 'Sex Selection' for the Wrong Reasons

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Both conservative politicians and some mainstream publications want us to think sex selective births — whether via abortion or pre-birth embryo testing — are on the rise and deserve our urgent attention. But while sex selection is unarguably a crucial problem in some countries that favor men over women, focusing on the literal "sex selecting" itself distracts from real issues.


The Daily Mail ran a breathless piece today on the supposed hordes of British women flying to US doctors to "defy" the UK ban on choosing the sex of one's baby. Well, the paper knows of "dozens," and has identified exactly one doctor who supplies their sex selective needs: Dr. Jeffrey Steinberg, who is based in New York and says he sees about 40 British couples a year.

The UK banned gender selection in 1990 with the Human Fertilization and Embryology Act, which states a license to assist in reproduction "cannot authorize any practice designed to secure that any resulting child will be of one sex rather than the other" and forbids "the testing of embryos for the purpose of establishing their sex." But in wild-and-crazy America, the paper explains, gender selection via embryo testing is legal and unregulated, although extremely rare. Steinberg offers a procedure called pre-implantation genetic diagnosis (PGD), a complicated technique only practiced by a handful of doctors and originally developed to diagnose serious genetic disease in embryos before pregnancy. "If you want to be certain your next child will be the gender you are hoping for, no other method comes close to the reliability of PGD," his website promises. "'While traditional sperm-screening techniques have a success rate of 60 to 70 per cent, only PGD offers virtually 100 per cent accuracy." The website also assures that sex selection is available to all patients without judgment.

Does Steinberg's name ring a bell? Maybe it's because The Daily Mail wrote about him last summer in a story called "The $24,000 baby: How couple spent a small fortune to ensure they got a girl" that focused on the happiness of the mother rather than salacious rhetoric. In 2009, CBS asked readers: "Want to design the perfect baby?" And back in 2006, the AP wrote about "Well-off foreign couples ... getting around laws banning sex selection in their home countries by coming to American soil — where it's legal — for medical procedures that can give them the boy, or girl, they want."

The Daily Mail might just be rehashing the story because it's a slow news day. But the article's fearmongery tone suggests otherwise: that the paper is capitalizing on the fact that sex selection has become a major platform for anti-choice movements on both sides of the Atlantic over the past few years.

Conservatives absolutely love talking about sex selective abortion because it allows them to get super black and white about the choices we have if we want to stop millions of baby girls from being born. And what kind of fucked up sociopath doesn't want to jump on that bandwagon? "There are only two alternatives," argued the Wall Street Journal's Jonathan V. Last after Mara Hvistendahl's widely-read book, Unnatural Selection: Choosing Girls And The Consequences Of A World Full Of Men, came out last year. "Restrict abortion or accept the slaughter of millions of baby girls and the calamities that are likely to come with it."


The attempt to freak people out about sex selection is an excellent anti-choice strategy in theory, because even people who think women should be able to make their own reproductive choices feel uneasy about treating gender as something to "fix" like a disease, and some countries, such as India, have a real problem with sex selective abortion. But the solution isn't as simple as banning the procedure, because the real issue is that many cultures think men are more valuable than women. Since it's overwhelmingly hard to challenge the longstanding patriarchal structures that inspire sex selective abortion, we keep reporting on the issue as if it's the act itself that's dangerous, like the recent CNN report that called India the "most dangerous" place to be for a girl because of the risk of sex selective abortion — not because of culture norms that prize sons and lead to abuse, rape, early marriages and honor killings for women.


Perhaps most telling are the multiple studies that show sex selective abortions are actually more popular among the educated and well-off and in places where women feel more empowered — meaning that if women can afford to visit special doctors or fly to New York to secure themselves a son, they'll get on the next plane. Human willpower will always trump the law when it comes to taking control over baby-making choices, so trying to force people to equalize the gender ratio will never work.


Republicans have a hard time getting Americans riled up about sex selection, because statistics show it's not actually a problem here — that's why PRENDA didn't pass and Lila Rose's most recent Planned Parenthood sex selective abortion "expose" failed to make waves. But the way newspapers like The Daily Mail obsess over the concept of women picking and choosing the gender of their baby like they're living in the Hunger Games' Capitol highlights rising attempts to scare people about the future of sex selection, allowing politicians to introduce misguided and unhelpful legislation instead of concentrating on real life-or-death issues. We've got a crazy idea: let's focus on making the world safer for girls and women who are actually out of the womb instead of fixating on the fates of fetuses who won't have much of a chance if they're born into a culture that prizes a particular gender.


[Daily Mail]

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What are the actual statistics on people who would choose a boy vs. people who would choose a girl if given the chance? I'm curious. I'm sure more people overall would choose boy, but in wealthy, western nations, how much larger would that percentage be? I know not EVERYBODY would, if given the choice, choose sons over daughters. I can think of one man I know in particular, who is terrified by the idea of having a son. Granted, that's one anecdote. I'm just wondering what the numbers would look like if everyone was polled.