It's really easy to be grossed out by the climber-y vibe you get from some of the cast members of The Real Housewives of New York City, but Betheny โ€” the one who isn't married, and has a career, thus making her kind of the opposite of a housewife โ€” seems to be the only one who is truly self-aware. It's kind of great, albeit a little mean girl-ish, how she gives Alex shit for naming her kids Francois and Johan and trying to make them baby geniuses (which she seems to be failing at, since she couldn't even get Francois into a good pre-K). Clip above.