Yesterday's episode of Tyra was about "barsexuals," straight women who kiss other women in bars for "fun and attention." I've always been put off by women who put on such displays for attention rather than for their own pleasure. The annoying thing was that the women on Tyra's couch explained that they make out with other females for attention or free drinks, but are offended and disgusted that guys admit to buying them drinks because they want to have sex with them. Like Tyra said, "Are you doing this so they will respect your mind and your intellect?" Mostly, I'm just annoyed that these ladies made me agree with Tyra on anything regarding women's sexuality.
Okay, I'm probably going to get some shit for this, but I'm going to admit that I'm a woman in my late 30's, and I do, on occasion, make out with girls in bars. I'm pretty much straight - a little full-on lesbian college experimentation, but it didn't really do it for me - but I do find other women incredibly sexy and sometimes I enjoy kissing them. It's not for attention, it's just a venue where it can happen. I like making out with girls sometimes. That's all there is to it.