Oh Melissa... I hope you see this. We are really, really #SAD for you. We aren't haters. We aren't jealous. We are genuinely concerned for your well-being since you have made public the really severe, manipulative abuse you are dealing with. Read up on abusive relationships. Find a website when your husband is gone. See how it paralells. Find a friend or some family who can help you. There is such a better life out there for you and your kids (especially your daughter). It took me reading about it more to realize I was in an emotional abusive relationship.