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Porn Star Buck Angel: Male Feminist Hero?

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Buck Angel used to be a woman, an extremely unhappy woman stuck in a body that felt completely unfamiliar. That woman tried drugs, tried lesbianism, finally tried therapy and realized she was a man. So she became one. Buck Angel then also became a porn star because even though he was a man, he retained the one thing that many people view as that which makes us women — a pussy. But as far as Buck is concerned, being a woman or being a man isn't about your genitals, it's about who you are — and Buck is, as far as he's concerned, a straight man with a pussy. And it's a pussy he's not at all shy about showing. I guess we can all imagine how well that goes over in some parts.

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Buck's taken shit from lesbians, from gay men, from Howard Stern and his crew, from pretty much everybody because he just won't conform. He won't get the add-on that would make him look "normal" as a man but that would leave him potentially without the ability to ever orgasm. And he deals with the question of the status of his genitals all the time, even as he announces to the world every day what they are, calling himself The Man With A Pussy. (If you're really, really curious, if you just have to know, 20 years of testosterone therapy has its side effects and an extremely Not Safe For Work Or Your Mother picture can be found here). He's living, breathing, fucking evidence of the fact that, even in the gay community and the sex-positive community, even when people are marching and fighting for the right to keep from being discriminated against for what they do with their genitals, everyone wants to know exactly what his look like. Being dumped by all his lesbian friends when he decided to be a man hurt, he says:

Fuck communities then, Buck thought, if all they do is uphold the tenets of a rigid, unchanging identity, and then spit you out when you deviate. The dykes won't stick with a trans-man, and the trans-men get offended by a guy who has the balls to trumpet the virtues of his vagina. Why go through the effort of establishing nomenclature for every variation of queer identity if they're going to be used as tools of division? If only your average straight-laced queer-baiter knew how closed-minded some sects of these hated deviants can be.

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Everyone has prejudices, even people against whom too many people hold prejudices. But Buck forces us to confront not only issues of prejudice but of identity. Am I a woman because I have a vagina and breasts and a uterus and ovaries? Is Buck not a man because he is only minus one of those things? Biologically, he and I have the same chromosomes, but the state agrees to recognize him as a man and some people insist that he must still be a woman. My sex is female, but my gender is a more complex question, and a more complex answer because gender is an identity that doesn't reside in my nether regions. I'm a woman because everything in the mass of cells above my eyes knows that I'm a woman, and Buck's a man because the same mass of cells tells him he is. If he can get us all to think of gender as opposed to sex, to think about our chosen and established identities and those of others rather than which bits we all have and how we use them, and if he can do it by sticking a dildo in his big man pussy, then Buck Angel can be my feminist hero.

A Man Without a Cock or Country [BME]
Buck Angel, A Man With a Pussy: LGB Without the T [Village Voice]

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@Dauphine: @Elisheva: The German for an adult woman is "die Dame," "the lady," or "die Frau," "the woman" or "the wife." The German for "the girl" is "das Mädel." "Das Mädchen" means "(cute) little girl." The suffix "-chen" is used to modify a word to mean something like "cute, little" the same way English uses "-ling" and French uses "-ette," but where the French "-ette" indicates femaleness ("majorette," "suffragette"), "-chen" does not indicate a particular gender.

And although "-chen" alters any word to which it's appended to a neutral-gendered word, changing "der" (masculine "the") or "die" (feminine "the") to the gender-neutral "das," German's gendered articles do not indicate a perceived gender in the thing being spoken about any more than gendered nouns in Spanish or French do. German generally relies on nouns themselves or on suffixes such as "-in" to indicate gender if an indication is necessary.

An example: there are two main words in German for "table," "der Tisch," which is like a kitchen table, and "die Tafel," which means a table in the sense of a flat surface, like a board or a plate. One is gendered masculine, with "der," and one is gendered feminine, with "die." Neither one is a male or a female table. They're both just tables. But you can add "-chen" to the end of "die Tafel" and you'll come out with "das Täfelchen," meaning "the little plate." The change to "das" from "die" hasn't made the table less female, because it was never female to begin with.

Also, I've never heard any indication, either from my German teachers or from German people speaking in German about their children, that Germans refer to their children as "it." That would be just as dehumanizing and insulting in German as it would in modern English. (I can't speak for previous generations of German-speakers: well into the Victorian era, English-speakers referred to children as "it," so it's possible German-speakers did at one time as well.) Although the noun for "child," "das Kind," is gender neutral, the *pronouns* in German for referring to a child gender the child just as adults are gendered.