We all know that Lorde and Taylor Swift's relationship started, in Lorde's words, over "thick-ass milkshakes" at Shake Shack. But as Lorde explained to Jimmy Fallon Tuesday night, it developed further at a Grammy party after some rando confused Lorde for Taylor Swift's manager. The two women went along with it, and, "and all of a sudden I was Taylor Swift's manager, this tiny, kind of goth-y, hunched, [makes dinosaur noise]..." Lorde explained. Lorde: the most self-aware maybe 18-year-old in the world.