A guy was on Judge Judy today, suing a girl for $600 he said he'd loaned her for a security deposit for her apartment. According to the defendant, the two were sleeping together, and the plaintiff spent an entire month living in her apartment, but the two weren't "seriously dating." JJ couldn't really comprehend that. It's obvious she's not familiar with fuck buddy-ism. Anyway, this poor guy wanted to be the defendant's BF, but she wasn't having it, so he decided to sue her for the security deposit. He really should've just left well enough alone, because he ended up getting publicly humiliated when the defendant described a crying fit he had on her bathroom floor when she broke off their unofficial dating, and JJ ended up dismissing the suit anyway. Clip above.
I totally see where JJ is coming from, mainly, grow up, accept your responsibility in being involved with this situation and move on.
I have no problem with FwB situations, but I too often see girlfriends accepting this situation when they like a guy who doesn't want anything more than sex from them. And they totally know the guy takes advantage of the situation because they let them. Makes me relieved to be off the dating market.
@ceejeemcbeegee: I sent my mom a text once, and she was so confused by the beeping from her cellphone until I saw her next and showed her what it was. She would probably text me except cellphones don't come with jumbo numbers. I do get lots of Facebook messages though, which I think is adorable.....