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@inchworm: I get like that, too. The worst is when the husband gets like that, though. I'm sure he's going to freak out on someone any second. Drives me crazy. Read more

@MoonJewel: I'm all in favor of fertility treatments, but when you abuse them, you need to face the reality that to save some of the fetuses, you have to abort the others. To try to carry 6 babies to term is totally a woman's choice, but it's a stupid fucking choice. Read more

Dudes, I think she's been Photoshopped all to hell, which is why this picture isn't sitting well with us, either. Read more

Okay, I am an asshole, but I would thing that the granddaughter of such gorgeous people would be much prettier. Read more

I'm so confused by this whole "leaving the bathmat on the floor" thing? Where does it go if it doesn't go on the floor? Why does it need to be moved? Read more

@inchworm: Oh, god, I know. It's so fucking awful. One case we discussed was where the baby had a severe birth defect as well as a heart defect and was going to die. Her parents didn't have insurance, but since the defect was so rare and there were doctors interested in operating on it, they decided to do it. The Read more

@inchworm: My mom worked NICU/PICU in the 80s and had to leave because a) it was stressful, obviously, and b) she just felt really uncomfortable with the direction that care of premature/severely disabled infants was going in. Read more

@inchworm: Exactly. And I have to say that I think there's an attitude of "well, let's just try and see if it works" in regard to premature infant survival instead of the thought that "Hm, maybe we should just let this one go?" I took a med ethics class last spring and especially horrified by a couple of cases we Read more

@Sugarless: Oh yeah. It's not about compassion or worrying about poor dead babies. It's about control. And THAT'S why I can't stand conservatives in general. Read more

@inchworm: Oh, god, I know. I'm glad babies are surviving at earlier and earlier ages, but it does scare me. Though I do question at what point it's actually ethical and worth it. Read more

@major disaster: Also, to what extent is this pain felt? I totally buy that a fetus is going to have pretty much the same response to pain as a newborn in the later stages of pregnancy, but a response to trauma by an undeveloped nervous system is different than the way that you and I feel pain. Read more