lindywest
Lindy West
lindywest

I didn't say that married people are better than single people. This is an article about advice targeted at people who are specifically looking for relationships. Read more

Right! It's not some MAGIC cure-all—it's just that feeling good makes you feel good, regardless of whether or not you find "love." The less you hate yourself the better your life is. I don't see how you could argue with that. Read more

No. After decades of torturing myself, I suddenly found myself in a place where I could just STOP. So I stopped. I stopped torturing myself. I was still single, but everything in my life felt better. Read more

Well, if it matters to you, my moment of no-longer-giving-a-shit was this: Read more

Oh my god. It is from the BEST episode of SVU ever made. RIP, GOTSMONEY. Read more

That is SUCH a great observation. Thanks. Read more

Also like, hey, Sirius, you're an animagus? What's your form OH A DOG, REALLY. And oh, your parents just happened to name you Remus Lupin and then you HAPPENED to become a werewolf????????? OH OKAY. JUST GOING CRAZY OVER HERE, NO BIG. Read more

According to Lufti, she was using meth AND amphetamine pills. Read more

Lufti alleges that Brit was using both meth AND amphetamine pills. Edited for clarity! Read more

I'm very sincerely sorry you're having such a terrible time, but the point is that for most women PMS/PMDD is not completely debilitating. And yet our culture at large treats it like it is, and ascribes all kinds of feminine behaviors to our hormones, whether our hormones are involved or not. THAT is insulting. Do you Read more

Ohhhhh, agreed, then! I thought you were saying that I'M not owning who I am because sometimes I start crying during Chopped and then go, "Oh yeah, menses." Read more

It's pretty presumptuous to imply that I don't "own who I am," when I haven't given you any information about how I actually handle these situations. Read more