Were you aware that if the lighting isn't just right at your wedding, grandma may split early? For a feature on the growing interest in concert-like illumination at weddings, the New York Times interviewed Bentley Meeker, the lighting designer who worked on Chelsea Clinton's wedding. He says, "If guests feel like they look good, they'll stick around and have fun ... If the bride's grandmother is sitting at that table with the light shining in her face, guaranteed she'll be gone before the cake cutting." It sounds pretty cold, but who among us hasn't stormed out of an event due to unflattering lighting?