Shocker! Reality TV isn't real! Rejected The Bachelor contestant Bettina Bell tells the Washington Post "You see us on a date, but we have five producers standing around. The producers say, 'If you give us a kiss on camera, then we'll leave.'" Ew. Also, shocking, the "love" might not really be "love"! "it was more of a crush, magnified by the fact that there are 24 other women who are digging the guy you dig. So it's blown out of proportion. . . . You're in this dreamland, and all of a sudden you come to reality again." Which is that you're single and have humiliated yourself on national television. [Washington Post]