"John" met "Cameron" at a bar. They talked. She was intrigued. They kept seeing each other. Sometimes multiple times in the same night! Because they're both drunks that go on benders and they kept running into one another at bars. Ok, so one Saturday night she said "we should get together," and he agreed! "Want to see a movie?" Sure! So then she had the audacity to FOLLOW UP WITH AN EMAIL. Yeah, this one goes out to the ones I love who will never, ever know because I do not ask dudes on dates EVER and this would be why.
You are right about being pushy. I was not expecting the bums rush Saturday night. It was a rather awkward situation. To me, there was a certain protocol that was lacking. I'd prefer to have an option to decide rather than being put on the spot to make a decision. That said, I felt that, a yes answer was the best way to diffuse an awkward situation. Perhaps that was wrong but given the circumstance I did what I felt was right at that moment. I hope you can respect my decision to decline your your invitation to the movies.