@mommy_dearest: I chose to rescue kidnapped princesses. Unfortunately that market is quite small, so I'm hanging on to my current position until something in my true calling opens up. #gardasil
I'm surprised NC has LIFE sentences or even 80-year sentences for rape. In NY rape is a B Felony! That's right, folks, in NYS you will do more time for drug possession than for rape. It makes me fucking sick. #gardasil
@La Chica Lucy: Priorities. We don't have them. Ugh, it makes me sick to think that people will honestly get more outraged at animal abuse (which is terrible but IMO not greater than human suffering) than at domestic violence and rape. Or that the US and our shit for brains drug policy crowds already overcrowded and underfunded prisons with drug abusers and as a result has to let violent, repeat offenders out early. Policy fail. #gardasil
@La Chica Lucy: For fucking real. And only a Class B felony if the victim is 11 or younger. Class D if she's 15 or older. And Class E if she's 17 or older. #gardasil
@La Chica Lucy: I worked with a couple guys convicted of rape (two different jobs), one got probation for confining and raping a woman with his friend, the other served two years of a ten year sentence for drugging/getting drunk underage boys and raping them. In comparison, serving 80 years is a pretty harsh sentence.
You know, I'm happy that the FDA is approving HPV vaccines, but when the fuck are they going to start approving them for use in women over 26, so my gynecologist can give it to me and I don't have to pay $350+ out of pocket? SOME OF US ARE OLDER, FDA! #gardasil
@BoatGirl: I have to admit, I was waay cynical at first, thinking this was some GOP ploy to attract African American voters, but after reading the story, that is clearly not the case. Every now and then, McCain does something classy. #gardasil
Just to be clear, the NC change in life sentences was not by the legislature, but was a change in interpretation by the Courts. The law says an 80 year sentence is a life sentence, and so they're now going to treat it that way. (The AG argued it just meant eligibility for parole, not the length of the sentence.) The article is very fear-monger-y. All the people mentioned have been in prison for over 30 years and are eligible because of good time credits. Also, 80 years is relatively high compared to most other life sentences I've seen which are often more like 25, 30, or 40 years. #gardasil
@jleigh: All valid points. And yet, I still don't think that a convicted rapist (much less a convicted child rapist) should ever be released back into society again, even if they have been on good behavior (although it might be difficult to be on "bad behavior" since there usually aren't girls in prison to rape). That's just not what "life sentence" should mean. #gardasil
@5ft of fury: Do we know that the men themselves weren't children or near-children when the rapes occured? The age of the girl remains the same but the man grows older, so while a 17 year old man raping a 14 year old girlfriend is disgusting, it's not quite the same as a 57 year old man who, according to the books, is known for raping 14 year olds. Other jezzies have pointed out that the justice system often doesn't account for this, turning a technical pedo by really a rapist into a psychotic monster on the books. #gardasil
@BytheSea: It looks like all the rapes involving children were B1 Felonies in North Cackilacki which means that the defendant was at least 12 years-old and at least 4 years older than the victim.
The 9 year old was raped by a 21 year old and the 15 year old was raped by a 22 year old. Haven't looked into the rest.
My head is all for strict interpretation of the constitution; my heart is pissed because a violent crime is a violent crime. #gardasil
@winner: But a 57 year old who committed one sexual assault when he was 20, against someoen who was close to his age, is morelikely to be rehabilitated and less lkely to committ a crimeagain than a 57 year old who raped a 14 year old. #gardasil
@BytheSea: No I totally agree with you. I'm a huge proponent of rehabilitation over incarceration. That said, my heart goes out to the victim and I can only imagine what they're going through right now. #gardasil
You know, Cimorene, not having kids is fucking awesome too. And childless women can understand the sexism and be happy for kids at awards. But does the understanding go the other way?
@georgespenser000001002: Right, I don't have kids. Not even close. I don't even have a job, really, since I'm a student. Also, don't plan to ever have kids, as I'm happily childfree and happy about that. So I am aware that it's fucking awesome, but thanks for the tip.
But most young women without children, including myself until recently, think about things like "harassment" and "wage gaps" when sexual discrimination comes up, without really understanding how much issues of motherhood not only contribute to harassment and wage gaps, but are totally valid issues by themselves. Because I think I used to feel like women who chose to have babies were choosing their choice and they'd have to deal with the consequences of their choice, and so "mother's issues" were not "women's issues," because not all women have kids. But that's simplistic, naive, and kind of spectacularly dumb. But issues of motherhood and career are usually shunted into their own world of discussion and discrimination, instead of being dealt with as one more aspect of run of the mill misogyny. And I really liked that she explicitly brought them together.
The fact that she had her kids with her in that picture is awesome, but it's even more fucking bad ass awesome that she mentioned it in terms of feminism. Holy cow, that's just such an abstract (to men and many childless women) understanding of the ways sexism works in the world. I'm not surprised that she is aware of it, obviously, but I'm so happy that she specifically talked about having kids and the way women who work deal with child-rearing compared to their male colleagues. She is a super A++ star.
@Cimorene: I couldn't figure out why she was talking about having her kids in the picture until you posted this. My thoughts were along the lines of wondering if she felt she had to prove she was a real woman or something. It makes sense that she wanted them in the picture with her as a way to say, "Look, you CAN have a kick-ass science career and have a great family too!" Because a lot of women still think it's not possible to do both.
On the other hand, I hate that she feels the need to do this. Because it does send this other message that somehow women have to justify how their career choices affect their family (or lack thereof). We don't see male Nobel Prize winners pictured with their kids because we don't judge men's accomplishments based on how they affected their families. We judge them and their accomplishments based on their work alone. I wish it could be this way for women too.
@AnotherJenn: I think, though, that that's part of the point. Or, at least, I don't think it is about justifying that she could have kids and have a career. Lots of scientists have kids and a career. I took it as a statement of how a woman does not have to give up things that are essentially female (making babies) or coded feminine (primary caregiver) even to be a Nobel Prize winning scientist. And, even more, that in a better world the men who won their prizes would have their kids onstage, too. Because it isn't about justifying "I was a good mom, too!" as much as "You don't have to choose one or the other, just like men don't have to choose," we just need to work it out so that it's possible to have both and not feel guilty or crazy. I guess I read it less about guilt and justification and more about a sort of ideal synthesis of what is "feminine" in our world, like having kids, with what is "masculine," like science and Nobel Prizes. I think that rather than aspiring to be more like men, and rather than fighting for an equality that makes men more like women, the world needs to make men more like women in that women (or I suppose "women") tend to allow their careers and lives bleed into one another, whereas "men" tend to compartmentalize. And the "feminine" way is healthier for us all. I think.
I think my use of scare quotes has become erratic as the day goes on, and for much of this comment I've been talking about men and women as concepts of genders, not actual people.
@Cimorene: "I think that rather than aspiring to be more like men, and rather than fighting for an equality that makes women more like men, the world needs to make men more like women in that women (or I suppose "women") tend to allow their careers and lives bleed into one another, whereas "men" tend to compartmentalize. And the "feminine" way is healthier for us all. I think. "
I agree, and I think that ties in to what I said about how even people without kids should be able to have better life balance than the current average workplace allows. I do understand that this is what she was going for and I like that. I agree with her that I would like to see more men bring their families up on stage when their big accomplishments are being rewarded and to see more men talking about how they balance family and personal lives.
ah, I love the random science photo from the news media.
Fancy production crew walks into lab: Hold up a beaker... It doesn't matter if you haven't toucher a beaker in 10 years.... let's mix up some random colored water and put it in various beakers that you can hold up.... cells growing with no context to the shot.. do it.
@acookieaday: OH OH OH!!! The Today Show came and did some filming in a lab I worked in once. It was hilarious filming "science". In this case, it consisted of them having me pipet green liquid into a 96 well plate with a multi-channel pipet and then picking up the plate and looking at it Seriously.
The green liquid? 1X PBS with calibration dye in it. Total nonsense. But damn, did it look good in the context of the piece they did.
@Runaddict: We had a similar experience in my lab. They got the professor to pipet pink bacteria-killing liquid into some tubes, which is funny on a lot of levels...including everyone being worried that our boss had picked up their tubes by mistake.
@Raederle: these stories are great! kinda off topic but i saw Craig Mello give a talk a while back and he showed this clip from the CBS nightly news of their "cartoon of RNAi". it was sooooo funny. Apparently RNAi is a giant piece of double stranded RNA that opens and closes like PAC MAN and chomps on proteins and turns them into little bits. i am sure this is on the internet somewhere.
Ah - and of course I have to go back to donate to the algebra project because to this day nothing makes me happier than new school supplies. Seriously.
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I love books and science. I am particularly moved by the idea of girls seeing how women have thrived in science-based careers. And Girls In Love With Books? I am in love with the idea! I am off to donate!
Yay, Jezebel! I'm sure the generous and fiercely intelligent reader community will be able to meet each of these goals! I know at least three of us have already given to Girls in Love with Books - I bet we'll meet these funding needs in no time at all, and Jez will have to put up another set of projects for us to contribute to!
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The 9 year old was raped by a 21 year old and the 15 year old was raped by a 22 year old. Haven't looked into the rest.
My head is all for strict interpretation of the constitution; my heart is pissed because a violent crime is a violent crime. #gardasil
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But most young women without children, including myself until recently, think about things like "harassment" and "wage gaps" when sexual discrimination comes up, without really understanding how much issues of motherhood not only contribute to harassment and wage gaps, but are totally valid issues by themselves. Because I think I used to feel like women who chose to have babies were choosing their choice and they'd have to deal with the consequences of their choice, and so "mother's issues" were not "women's issues," because not all women have kids. But that's simplistic, naive, and kind of spectacularly dumb. But issues of motherhood and career are usually shunted into their own world of discussion and discrimination, instead of being dealt with as one more aspect of run of the mill misogyny. And I really liked that she explicitly brought them together.
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On the other hand, I hate that she feels the need to do this. Because it does send this other message that somehow women have to justify how their career choices affect their family (or lack thereof). We don't see male Nobel Prize winners pictured with their kids because we don't judge men's accomplishments based on how they affected their families. We judge them and their accomplishments based on their work alone. I wish it could be this way for women too.
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I think my use of scare quotes has become erratic as the day goes on, and for much of this comment I've been talking about men and women as concepts of genders, not actual people.
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I agree, and I think that ties in to what I said about how even people without kids should be able to have better life balance than the current average workplace allows. I do understand that this is what she was going for and I like that. I agree with her that I would like to see more men bring their families up on stage when their big accomplishments are being rewarded and to see more men talking about how they balance family and personal lives.
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The green liquid? 1X PBS with calibration dye in it. Total nonsense. But damn, did it look good in the context of the piece they did.
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