This video game sounds deplorable, though, having not played it for myself, I cannot say for certain how terrible it is. Regardless, I really am not sad to see that it has been removed from Amazon. If that means that less people will be exposed to material that in any way encourages or normalizes rape/violence/etc. against women, great.
That being said, there is a huge amount of contradictory bullshit being thrown about on Jezebel right now.
First of all, a number of site members have sent angry emails threatening Amazon boycotts if the video game is not removed from the listings. Many have left negative feedback on the video game. How many of these people have actually seen the game or played it themselves? How can you be so vehemently against something that you know so little about? It angers me greatly whenever I hear about books being banned by people who have never read them, whether its a Harry Potter book, a lesbian woman's memoir, or a gay romance novel. To boycott, complain, and leave negative feedback on something that you have never seen is simply ignorant. I am shocked that so many Jezebelles seem to have no problem with doing so in this scenario.
Secondly, this exact situation played out several weeks ago during the entire AmazonFail mess. Conservatives who were offended by homosexuality were believed to have been the reason for Amazon removing GLBT material from their listings. Supposedly, those conservatives' complaints (on things that they had never read, viewed, etc.) were responsible for the removal of numerous items. Jezebel, as a whole, lashed back, decrying the entire practice. Now, Jezebelle members are offended by something, and so they begin complaining, boycotting, and leaving negative feedback in an effort to have it removed. Hypocrisy, much?
@K: It looks to me like you're conflating two separate issues. When Amazon pulled the GLBT materials, we weren't outraged by the protesters' choice of tactic (i.e. boycotting). We were alarmed that they view homosexuality as sinful or perverse or problematic. And by pulling the materials, Amazon tacitly affirmed the validity of their argument. We took offense at an anti-gay POINT OF VIEW-- just as we're alarmed that there's some freak who finds fantasies of raping and torturing a woman into loving him to be sexually stimulating.
@K: I don't have to see the game to know it's offensive because its very premise of rape and abuse being encouraged and offered up as entertainment is repugnant. The fact that a game exists that glorifies such behavior means that it does not get to be offered for sale on a mainstream site that wants my business. As I said in my letters, there is no other group you could name where it would you could target them specifically with a game celebrating their abuse and rape and not expect an uproar. Not gay people, not African Americans, not Asian Americans, not Hispanic Americans, not Jewish people, not Muslims, not mentally or physically handicapped people. It should be no different with women. There is a place for Stockholm, and it is the fetish section of an adult video store. Not on any mainstream store where the sickness it advocates can reach a wide audience.
I may be in the minority here, but how is demanding that video game be pulled from Amazon somehow different than the supposed, "glitch," that removed items deemed inappropriate a while back?
@K: Books and movies can use kidnapping and rape as plot points, they can be exposes, documentaries, etc.
This game was different in that it encouraged the user to beat, rape, gas, etc. a simulated woman, in order to get her to "love you". The message it sent was disturbing, particularly when you consider the target demographic of video games. Participating in vile acts is not the same as reading about them.
What would your opinion on the matter be if we were discussing a book that was written in the same manner as the video game?
I understand and agree with your point that the premise of the video game is quite disturbing, however, so are video games about war, fighting, killing, and so on. Would you want those to be pulled as well? And if *you* get to decide that these video games are too offensive, well, why can't someone else deem a book on homophobia too offensive?
@K: I think that there is a difference between exploring a topic, regardless of how controversial that topic is, and turning it into a something acceptable. The game isn't meant to explore what severe abuse does, how "true love" has been warped by culture, or anything like that. It's meant to titillate and entertain. That is what separates it from pulling the GLBTQ books from the search to me.
@K: I said this in the last thread, but I agree with you. I don't like the content either, but I think we're really veering into censorship here. (Not that Amazon doesn't have the right to censor whatever they want from their site.) I'm honestly interested how people feel about other forms of media, such as books, that depict similar situations.
And again, a DVD simulation is not the same as a video game, marketing-wise. As in, it wouldn't be marketed to children.
@Ailanthus-altissima: True, but many video games, books, and movies do just that with things like theft, murder, rape, and so on, yet few call for banning them.
I had the same thought. This game sounds offensive and disgusting, and I would personally boycott anything this game's producers are involved with, BUT...
...this is also censorship. Demanding that a product be made unavailable to someone else because you are offended is censorship. Part of free speech is protecting it even when it is offensive to you, as well as when it's offensive to the general public... when I talk about banned books in the library we ALWAYS make a point to mention that it works both ways.
Having not seen this game, I can't speak to what it's portraying, but it's not illegal to create a work of fiction/art/entertainment that depicts sexual violence, we don't have hate-speech laws in the US (not that this would necessarily qualify) and rape fantasy games, porn, books, comics, what have you, are very, very common. So, um, on one level I'm personally thrilled to see the makers of this game loose money, but as a person who is making a career out of protecting freedom of expression it's hard for me to celebrate this as an total victory.
@Miss. Money-Sterling: I am very much against censorship, but anything that dehumanizes a group, especially a minority group or some other group that lacks power, seems to me to be outside of the realm of free speech. Freedom of speech and expression is one of the most valuable things ever, but that does not mean that hatefilled, dehumanizing rhetoric should be made freely available.
@Miss. Money-Sterling: This is not censorship. No one is shutting down the distributor of the DVD. No one threatened to shut down Amazon if they didn't comply with our demands. No one is demanding that the government get involved and put the smack down on whatever freak produced this shit.
It was a *boycott*-- most of us who wrote in demanded that Amazon stop selling the item or we would take our dollars elsewhere. I buy lots of books from Amazon, as well as all kinds of other stuff. I don't want my hard-earned dollars lining the pockets of a retailer who also profits from the glorification of rape and torture. If they valued our dollars less, they were perfectly free to tell us to fuck off.
Besides, Amazon is not an "adult" bookstore or a shop that sells sex paraphernalia where you might not be shocked to stumble on such a product. It's the cyber-equivalent of, say, Target. Wouldn't you be disgusted to walk into Target looking to buy, say, socks or sunscreen or soda-- and discover a rape simulation game on a neighboring shelf? Wouldn't you then be tempted to take your business to, say, Walmart to avoid running into those items in the future? It's good business on Amazon's part to cater to its loyal customers. I happen to be among them. And I happen to believe there is nothing fun or entertaining about raping and abusing women.
@Miss. Money-Sterling: "Demanding that a product be made unavailable to someone else because you are offended is censorship."
No it isn't. It's called a consumer boycott, and it's quite a valid tactic. They (Amazon) are under no obligation to respond whatsoever. We're not the government.
Thanks for contacting Amazon.com with your concern.
I understand that you feel very strongly about this issue.
The video game "Stockholm: an exploration of true love" you referenced is no longer for sale on our site.
Customer feedback like yours really helps us continue to improve our store and provide better service to our customers.
Thank you again for your feedback.
One of our aims at Amazon.com is to provide a convenient and efficient service; in this case, we haven't met that standard. I'm truly sorry, and I hope you'll give us another chance in the future.
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@bluebears: I also sent an email and got a similar response, but the format is different than the one they sent you. Could they be responding to each individually?
@long_division: maybe? I didn't get an official apology. but I didn't ask for one. I was basically like, I'm offended and disgusted and I intend to take my future business elsewhere.
@long_division: Perhaps. My message was worded very similarly, but not exactly like bluebears's e-mail. They must have a boilerplate apology e-mail that several customer service reps have been using to respond to the flood of jezewrath.
You GO PhillyLass! Way to show 'em who's boss. And by "boss," I mean "not lacking in every form of common decency, sense, taste, and also totally willing to kick ass."
The "true love" in the title is interesting, especially considering all the songs and pop culture references that suggest that "true love" is an intense fixation, that "true love" is blind to slights and snubs, and that "true love" means loving someone even when they hurt you.
I mean, it's obviously not as extreme as in this game, but I still think it's a really disturbing message to send.
I'm probably over thinking this. I apologize if it is a threadjack.
@Ailanthus-altissima: No, I think that that is also a really disturbing message to send. It advocates emotional-immaturity, and that you are only half a person, without a "true love".
Well, good for Amazon, that's some pretty twisted shit. How the hell does that get kind of thing get on their site to begin with? Are they seriously understaffed or something, and just not paying attention to what they're selling?
@undomesticgoddess is rasslin the world: Yeah, I don't think they play all the videogames before they sell them or anything. It's more disturbing to me that some company approved the making of this shit.
@chritter is a nocturnal feminist mancatfish: I was just going to say that. It's good that it's been pulled but who thought it was a good idea to sell it in the first place? And if no-one had taken the time to complain, would it still be there?
@MarissaExplainsItAll: You're so sweet! But Margaret is the real leader of this revolution. We wouldn't have known to flood Amazon with complaints if she hadn't gotten the ball rolling. Yay Jezzie power!!!
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This video game sounds deplorable, though, having not played it for myself, I cannot say for certain how terrible it is. Regardless, I really am not sad to see that it has been removed from Amazon. If that means that less people will be exposed to material that in any way encourages or normalizes rape/violence/etc. against women, great.
That being said, there is a huge amount of contradictory bullshit being thrown about on Jezebel right now.
First of all, a number of site members have sent angry emails threatening Amazon boycotts if the video game is not removed from the listings. Many have left negative feedback on the video game. How many of these people have actually seen the game or played it themselves? How can you be so vehemently against something that you know so little about? It angers me greatly whenever I hear about books being banned by people who have never read them, whether its a Harry Potter book, a lesbian woman's memoir, or a gay romance novel. To boycott, complain, and leave negative feedback on something that you have never seen is simply ignorant. I am shocked that so many Jezebelles seem to have no problem with doing so in this scenario.
Secondly, this exact situation played out several weeks ago during the entire AmazonFail mess. Conservatives who were offended by homosexuality were believed to have been the reason for Amazon removing GLBT material from their listings. Supposedly, those conservatives' complaints (on things that they had never read, viewed, etc.) were responsible for the removal of numerous items. Jezebel, as a whole, lashed back, decrying the entire practice. Now, Jezebelle members are offended by something, and so they begin complaining, boycotting, and leaving negative feedback in an effort to have it removed. Hypocrisy, much?
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This game was different in that it encouraged the user to beat, rape, gas, etc. a simulated woman, in order to get her to "love you". The message it sent was disturbing, particularly when you consider the target demographic of video games. Participating in vile acts is not the same as reading about them.
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What would your opinion on the matter be if we were discussing a book that was written in the same manner as the video game?
I understand and agree with your point that the premise of the video game is quite disturbing, however, so are video games about war, fighting, killing, and so on. Would you want those to be pulled as well? And if *you* get to decide that these video games are too offensive, well, why can't someone else deem a book on homophobia too offensive?
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And again, a DVD simulation is not the same as a video game, marketing-wise. As in, it wouldn't be marketed to children.
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I had the same thought. This game sounds offensive and disgusting, and I would personally boycott anything this game's producers are involved with, BUT...
...this is also censorship. Demanding that a product be made unavailable to someone else because you are offended is censorship. Part of free speech is protecting it even when it is offensive to you, as well as when it's offensive to the general public... when I talk about banned books in the library we ALWAYS make a point to mention that it works both ways.
Having not seen this game, I can't speak to what it's portraying, but it's not illegal to create a work of fiction/art/entertainment that depicts sexual violence, we don't have hate-speech laws in the US (not that this would necessarily qualify) and rape fantasy games, porn, books, comics, what have you, are very, very common. So, um, on one level I'm personally thrilled to see the makers of this game loose money, but as a person who is making a career out of protecting freedom of expression it's hard for me to celebrate this as an total victory.
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It was a *boycott*-- most of us who wrote in demanded that Amazon stop selling the item or we would take our dollars elsewhere. I buy lots of books from Amazon, as well as all kinds of other stuff. I don't want my hard-earned dollars lining the pockets of a retailer who also profits from the glorification of rape and torture. If they valued our dollars less, they were perfectly free to tell us to fuck off.
Besides, Amazon is not an "adult" bookstore or a shop that sells sex paraphernalia where you might not be shocked to stumble on such a product. It's the cyber-equivalent of, say, Target. Wouldn't you be disgusted to walk into Target looking to buy, say, socks or sunscreen or soda-- and discover a rape simulation game on a neighboring shelf? Wouldn't you then be tempted to take your business to, say, Walmart to avoid running into those items in the future? It's good business on Amazon's part to cater to its loyal customers. I happen to be among them. And I happen to believe there is nothing fun or entertaining about raping and abusing women.
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No it isn't. It's called a consumer boycott, and it's quite a valid tactic. They (Amazon) are under no obligation to respond whatsoever. We're not the government.
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Hello,
Thanks for contacting Amazon.com with your concern.
I understand that you feel very strongly about this issue.
The video game "Stockholm: an exploration of true love" you referenced is no longer for sale on our site.
Customer feedback like yours really helps us continue to improve our store and provide better service to our customers.
Thank you again for your feedback.
One of our aims at Amazon.com is to provide a convenient and efficient service; in this case, we haven't met that standard. I'm truly sorry, and I hope you'll give us another chance in the future.
We hope you'll allow us to continue to serve you.
Please let us know if this e-mail resolved your question:
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I mean, it's obviously not as extreme as in this game, but I still think it's a really disturbing message to send.
I'm probably over thinking this. I apologize if it is a threadjack.
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