@anteup: um, I like the low braid ponytail, personally. My roommate does it all the time and it looks so cute (my hair is too short and curly). As for the brown and black dilemma, I thin it depends on the accessories. I like wearing my brown sweater dresses with my brown boots and belt, and keep the other accessories pretty neutral. I'm sure it could go the other way around too. #openthread
@jaydock: Weeeeird, I'm working on a Freddie's app at this very moment. I'd say probably at hiring, but... not 100% sure. I've been abstaining from my green friend for awhile, just in case. #openthread
@Pennyfeather: Oh, I know that they do test (I have a screening on Tuesday), but I'm curious as to whether they do saliva or urine, because the detection times are very very different. :/
And your willpower is stronger than mine. Halloween got me! #openthread
I made this tonight and it was quick and delicious. Plus, the cheese lasts for a long time (both blocks I bought don't expire until January) so it'll be a good "I'm too tired to actually cook" backup meal.
@angelina jolie-laide is a gaudy tulip: Oh god, that looks amazing. I love good pecorino romano, but I really really love good parmesan. I will very frequently hack off a piece and have it with bread and a glass of wine, om nom nom. #openthread
@angelina jolie-laide is a gaudy tulip: OMFG, I ate this like every day when I was in Rome this summer, and strangely forgot all about it when I got home. Thank you thank you thank you for reminding me (and providing me a link to a food blog I haven't read yet, yay!) #openthread
@angelina jolie-laide is a gaudy tulip: Yummy. The whole peppercorn thing I can relate to, an entirely different taste. Unfortunately, my Trader Joes has been out of whole peppercorns for ages, except in the self grating container and I prefer to use mine. I guess I will have to venture out of my usual marketplace. Where in LA would one go to buy the best peppercorns? Any spiceheads here? #openthread
@erinoherin: Nosy roommates? There was an incredibly elaborate pregnancy test sting on our floor freshman year. Somebody "found" (aka was weird and dug through the trash) a disposed test in a stall, then it turned into a whodunit. #openthread
@annebreal: Hence why once upon a time a friend I knew (who would never steal anything under any circumstances) stole a test and took it in the bathroom of the grocery store because she could not stand the horror of her uptight roommate somehow coming across a receipt or packaging or anything. #openthread
it's soooooo awkward to be caught in the middle of roommate tension. two of my roommates aren't getting along with third, and i feel caught in the middle. i've been BFF with the one for 15 years, and i love the other two. and we were all such good friends last year, and we have still 8 months on the lease.... :( #openthread
Has anyone here written a college senior thesis? I'm doing mine and research is going fine, but I'm having tons of trouble forcing myself to just sit down and WRITE. Does anyone have any suggestions for writing a 50+ page paper over the course of several months? #openthread
@RiloKilo: plan your chapters in advance, that way you can organize your research accordingly.
Make as detailed an outline as you can be bothered with.
Keep track of sources/citations. I'd add sources to the bibliography while looking at them, really.
Have a game plan, as in, give yourself deadlines. It got me through my PhD. Without the game plan I'd still be procrastinating. #openthread
@RiloKilo: I think some of it depends on what kind of writer you are, when you have a long deadline like a thesis project that's due at the end of the year.
I always try to do *something* with my long stuff (in this case, my dissertation) five days a week. Even if I don't write-write, I will outline something, or scribble down ideas, or do reading I still have to do. Then when I do write, material tends to come fairly quickly. But I'm also the kind of person who works best when there's a bit of pressure, so that might not be for you. #openthread
@RiloKilo: I suggest making two plans: one for your time, and one for the paper. And the paper plan should be two plans: an early, pre-research plan that is flexible, and a second, post-research plan that is more settled. A paper that size should have 3-4 smaller sections that support your main thesis, and it can help to break down the pages so you know how much you should write about each. Leave about 3 on each end for introduction and summary--they should be substantial for a thesis--and divide up the pages in between roughly evenly.
I teach research writing in the spring, and my students gave very good reviews to Research Papers: A Guide and Workbook (Arkin & Macheski). It's pretty basic for senior level, but sometimes it helps to have everything all laid out for you. #openthread
@RiloKilo: I didn't write one but I made a video installation. All I can say is the night before showing it I was at a bar... but I got a B+ so take that academia. You'll be okay. #openthread
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@frugal: Well, it helps when you're a cinema major. People kinda look at you sideways if you choose the paper thesis option. And actually I'm so into the topic I occasionally toss around the idea of writing about it. #openthread
Just wanted to share that after looking and looking for a year and 9 months, I finally got a job! It's a holiday retail gig so I'll be back in the unemployment boat come January, but it feels so good to be able to put something new on my resume.
I also got a star! These are the best things to happen to me in 2 years. #openthread
@bitingfairy: Highfive!
Feeling your pain with the unemployment, glad you've now got something. Cross your fingers for me and my 2 interviews this week (also Xmas fill-ins). #openthread
@bitingfairy: Oh man, I'm looking for seasonal work right now too, after 4+ months of job searching. Not a lot of luck yet, but congrats! Maybe someone will quit and they'll need to hire at the end of your sentence. ;) #openthread
Hey all, I'm not very fashion forward so I need some help. I'm trying to wear other bottoms in winter (besides jeans), and I'm going for skirts with black tights. Question: what shoes do you all wear with black tights? #openthread
@joannabobanna: I use camel-colored things (cowboy boots, oxfords) and I also have some taupe/ish (more on the gray side) t-straps that I like. #openthread
@joannabobanna: balet flats, court shoes, boots (of any kind really, but ankle boots and over the knee boots are very this season), peep toes and strappy heels are also very 'in', but less sensible if you live somwhere wet/very cold.
I personally really like flat boots, or plimsolls for every day #openthread
@joannabobanna: Any shoes I feel like. I don't really wear pants - I'm more of a skirts and dresses type of girl so I wear tights a good portion of the time (as I go to school right outside of Chicago). I usually wear boots or flats (because I don't wear sneakers very much) but sometimes I'll pull out my chucks. I think you can get away with pretty much anything. I usually just try to match/complement whatever else I'm wearing. One thing I love about black tights is that you can get some pretty crazy colors in the shoes. #openthread
@rd2uk: Thanks! I'm kind of the same way. I'm big on shoes that are flat because I tend to trip/lose my balance a lot in the ice. Oh, who am I kidding? I do that all the time... #openthread
@hannahanloveyoulongtime: Great! Thanks for that! I'm in Central Illinois and it'll be my first winter here. I've only had one other 'real' winter (I grew up in California), but this is the first one where I'll be walking around a lot outside. #openthread
@joannabobanna: hahahah well then, lady, i say you get your hands on some plimsols or brogues. they hold up pretty well agaisnt the wet also, since theyre not meant to look new/clean/unstained! #openthread
@joannabobanna: I live in CA and am very anti-tights, though I grew up in a cold climate, so I understand.
My favorite look with black tights or better yet, leggings for warmth, is brushed leather or suede boots or booties. I realize the suede can be ruined by the weather, but the soft texture of the legs and matte/non reflective boot does elongate your legs!
Try to match your tights color to your shoe for the same effect. No reason to always stay with black. #openthread
@rd2uk: my roommate and friend are singing and dancing to that song outside my room, while i'm trying to study. i might kill them and yet.... the song is too damn catchy! #openthread
@rd2uk: Well, you're not alone because I have half-humming it when I scrolled down onto your post. So, if it makes you feel better, whatever is wrong with you is also wrong with me. #openthread
You know when you have a lot of work to do, and you care about doing well, but have convinced yourself that it won't be so bad so you start working and then end up procrastinating with the internet?
And then you realize that it wouldn't have been bad if you'd worked tonight like you were supposed to, and now there's going to be so much tomorrow that you'll be up late stressing?
In other words -- who else loves grad school? #openthread
I feel like my Jezebel posting comes in waves. And it's always most prolific when I have a lot of shit to get done.
Besides classes, I have to get the rest of my applications together for PhD programs. Any Jezebels doing Early Modern lit? Recommend any programs? #openthread
It really surprises me how many of these groups are run by girls. This one (not pasted above) is apparently just girls bitching so I didn't report it. I'm sure it is a line from something, but these are some pretty fucked up groups.
I think Facebook's issue is really that it doesn't review groups without a report. So if a bunch of us report these sites, we could make Facebook a far less fucked up place.
I know this will eventually get pushed all the way down the page, so maybe someone who is feeling similarly avengerish could post some more links later tonight? I searched rape for the links I left on the Facebook post, but I only made it through the first 120/500+. Between this post and the one on the other thread, I've gone through the first 20/133 that come up when you search for rape surprise.
@vamvaki_poulaki: I glanced over the groups in both posts and picked either hate speech or direct call for violence depending on what fit better. Honestly, I don't think it matters, the more reports they get the more likely Facebook is to check it out. Its probably better if they don't have all the same comments. #openthread
@clevernamehere: My boyfriend just came over and looked at what I was doing and was all, "You can get kicked off for reporting a bunch of stuff for no reason." I HAVE a reason!! #openthread
@vamvaki_poulaki: That is part of the reason I stopped around the 40 group mark and I'm hoping someone on the west coast will post some different ones later tonight when this thread is at the bottom. Me reporting 150 sites has a decent chance of them just labelling me a bad report. 60 Jezzies reporting 100 sites probably has a better chance. That and I'm tired :) #openthread
I have an IUD that nearing the end of it's life (supposed to have it out in May), and I can tell. I'm starting to have more frequent periods, which makes me think the hormones are running out and now I'm terrified of getting pregnant, or worse having an ectopic pregnancy while uninsured.
*sigh*
Of course, this happened a year ago, and I ended up having a lap to remove scar tissue and adhesions. Something else I can't afford without insurance. Please god let reform happen soon!
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In happier news, I spent the day baking, and have been knitting up a storm. I posted a couple things I've finished to the punk_knitters community on livejournal, and people want my patterns! And one was favorited on Ravelry! Squeeee! #openthread
@aliasmisskonat is kung fu fighing...: Hugs about your insides. I had my pumpkin scraped last halloween.
Congrats about the exposure!
I meant to get custom gift stuff on etsy before the holidays..... we'll see. #openthread
Sorry to post so soon again, but thanks Hortense for posting this Queen video. I adore this song, and I thought I was the only one who loved it. It makes me feel like I can take on the world each time I listen to it. #openthread
That Sandra Bullock movie looks turrible. Maybe I'm oversensitive, but it seems like another "White person takes pity on black person. But surprise! Black person teaches white person lessons about life" movie. It's similar to the Magical Negro narrative. I dunno. Am I wrong here? #openthread
@clevernamehere: I know, but it just seems like another smug, self-serving flick to show us white people how far we've come! We're so NICE! #openthread
@angelina jolie-laide is a gaudy tulip: Well it is a true story, so... I think it is what it is. I mean, isn't it possible that a white person could help a black person, and also learn things from that person in the process? It doesn't strike me as being a "Magical Negro" type of story. #openthread
@angelina jolie-laide is a gaudy tulip: My issue is similar but not exactly the same. It just seems to permeate the stereotype that growing up White means being somewhat well-to-do and it's your job to help all the poor black kids, whose parents/family are ALL doing drugs and beating them! Horrible. #openthread
@clevernamehere: Even with it being true -- do you think they'd use the same story if the family was black and the poor kid was white? (I'm not saying it's impossible, I just wonder if a movie would be made about it.) #openthread
@InCahoots: I can't think of any recent titles, but there is a history of films about loveable orphans who help those who help them. I see the racial undertones, but at the same time if the film has the potential to make people consider adopting older foster children (like a reverse The Orphan).
"Magical Negro" charecters are a real problem, but I don't think the answer is to never make a film about a black person who helps a white person. I think people should at least wait to see the film. #openthread
@angelina jolie-laide is a gaudy tulip: See also Losing Isaiah, Dangerous Minds, et al. Major "ughk" right here. Pretty white women are always so fantastic, going around saving those racialized kids! #openthread
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Make as detailed an outline as you can be bothered with.
Keep track of sources/citations. I'd add sources to the bibliography while looking at them, really.
Have a game plan, as in, give yourself deadlines. It got me through my PhD. Without the game plan I'd still be procrastinating. #openthread
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I always try to do *something* with my long stuff (in this case, my dissertation) five days a week. Even if I don't write-write, I will outline something, or scribble down ideas, or do reading I still have to do. Then when I do write, material tends to come fairly quickly. But I'm also the kind of person who works best when there's a bit of pressure, so that might not be for you. #openthread
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I teach research writing in the spring, and my students gave very good reviews to Research Papers: A Guide and Workbook (Arkin & Macheski). It's pretty basic for senior level, but sometimes it helps to have everything all laid out for you. #openthread
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I also got a star! These are the best things to happen to me in 2 years. #openthread
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Feeling your pain with the unemployment, glad you've now got something. Cross your fingers for me and my 2 interviews this week (also Xmas fill-ins). #openthread
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I personally really like flat boots, or plimsolls for every day #openthread
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I have some amazing black ankle boots, and the black with black makes your legs look a trillion miles long.
Or go with a metallic, or pick a dominant colour from the rest of your outfit and get a little matchy-matchy.
I like to match bright jewel tones in my earrings/necklace to my shoes too! #openthread
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My favorite look with black tights or better yet, leggings for warmth, is brushed leather or suede boots or booties. I realize the suede can be ruined by the weather, but the soft texture of the legs and matte/non reflective boot does elongate your legs!
Try to match your tights color to your shoe for the same effect. No reason to always stay with black. #openthread
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and then the Miley Cyrus Party in the USA video came on...and I didnt change the channel.
what the f is happening to me? #openthread
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And then you realize that it wouldn't have been bad if you'd worked tonight like you were supposed to, and now there's going to be so much tomorrow that you'll be up late stressing?
In other words -- who else loves grad school? #openthread
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(And hey, guess what I'm doing right now?) #openthread
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So, basically Jezebel on Sunday nights is where grad students come to not do work? Good to know! #openthread
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I feel like my Jezebel posting comes in waves. And it's always most prolific when I have a lot of shit to get done.
Besides classes, I have to get the rest of my applications together for PhD programs. Any Jezebels doing Early Modern lit? Recommend any programs? #openthread
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If anyone with a Facebook account would like to join, please check out the post I made in the Facebook rape group thread here [jezebel.com]
In addition, here are 10-20 of the "it's not rape, its surprise sex" groups for anyone interested in reporting:
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It really surprises me how many of these groups are run by girls. This one (not pasted above) is apparently just girls bitching so I didn't report it. I'm sure it is a line from something, but these are some pretty fucked up groups.
I think Facebook's issue is really that it doesn't review groups without a report. So if a bunch of us report these sites, we could make Facebook a far less fucked up place.
I know this will eventually get pushed all the way down the page, so maybe someone who is feeling similarly avengerish could post some more links later tonight? I searched rape for the links I left on the Facebook post, but I only made it through the first 120/500+. Between this post and the one on the other thread, I've gone through the first 20/133 that come up when you search for rape surprise.
Come on Jezzies! #openthread
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Reported their nasty little asses!
Annnnnnd that's my good deed for today. Off to eat cake and gloat. #openthread
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I have an IUD that nearing the end of it's life (supposed to have it out in May), and I can tell. I'm starting to have more frequent periods, which makes me think the hormones are running out and now I'm terrified of getting pregnant, or worse having an ectopic pregnancy while uninsured.
*sigh*
Of course, this happened a year ago, and I ended up having a lap to remove scar tissue and adhesions. Something else I can't afford without insurance. Please god let reform happen soon!
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In happier news, I spent the day baking, and have been knitting up a storm. I posted a couple things I've finished to the punk_knitters community on livejournal, and people want my patterns! And one was favorited on Ravelry! Squeeee! #openthread
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Not to sound like a creep but who are you on LJ? Feel free to message if you'd rather.
I'd like to go look at your stuff! =D #openthread
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I meant to get custom gift stuff on etsy before the holidays..... we'll see. #openthread
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