Given that I have none of the above, this therefore makes me the most adjusted, happy and fulfilled person ever! Yay, my struggle and hard work to amass my enviable level of anonymity,debt and bad hair is finally paying off.
tell that to those young gals who strive to be like Paris Hilton and the like. They just want to be famous not for having a great skill or talent just for the sake of being famous. What a scary life goal.
@Macloserboy: Shhh. . . don't say the truth. Money might not bring you straight to happiness but it sure does buy you lots of material things and power that can bring you closer to it. That's for sure.
@andBegorrah: Many people often mistake Margaritaville for Happytown. As they new New Booty City. But in both cases you wake up in What The Fuck Was I Thinking Junction.
@jetmore: I hated it when people said her jail time was harsh because she was a celebrity. No, it was harsh because she violated the terms of her probation several times, never went to the court-ordered alcohol awareness classes, drove without a license, and showed zero remorse and responsibility.
Hah, now I can throw this in the face of the person who thought I was naive and ridiculous for saying I'd rather go through life penniless but respected and liked than wealthy but hated and thought of as a moron.
@novelidea: Seconded, however there is a difference between "wealth" and "comfort". As long as you have enough money to cover the basics-food, shelter, etc., anything beyond that won't necessarily make you happier.
You need to be able to pay your rent, but you may not need to pay it in a three story luxury apartment on Park Ave. to be set.
@inabook: honestly, I think the old cliche "money can't buy you happiness" while not technically wrong is not technically true either. it can at least buy you a certain sense of peace of mind which can go a long way towards happiness.
@JulyMama: Right. I was being a little flip, but i did read the study as saying that wealth-- as opposed to comfort-- is what won't increase happiness. Comfort, as opposed to worry, is obviously a very different kind of goal.
@bluebears: If I remember correctly, there was a study a few years back about money and its relation to one's happiness, and the conclusion was that happiness peaked at income levels of around $40,000. Any amount of money over 40k doesn't make you any happier, but if you're making less than 40k, you may not be as happy as if you were making 40k.
@EvieB: Interesting. I totally agree with the theory that real material deprivation can make people unhappy but we seldom increase our well-being substantively by increasing our wealth past a certain point.
@BiteMeMitchell!: And this is why I like the idea of a guaranteed livable income or at least a minimum living wage (thus making me a certifiable pinko). Nobody should have to dedicate that much of their life to work just to keep their head above water. It just sucks the joy out of life.
@EvieB: huh. Interesting theory, although 40k means different standard of living depending on where you live. Not to mention is that number for one person? what if you have dependents?
@inabook: the researchers pointed out that this was a highly educated, 2 years out of college crowd and that more research is needed into other populations.
"Striving for wealth and adulation, on the other hand, does little to satisfy these deep human requirements, at least within this early career stage of life."
You know, some people are so extremely shallow/narcissistic that they wouldn't know what these "deep human requirements" are if they slapped them in the face with a Balenciaga handbag.
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Seconded, however there is a difference between "wealth" and "comfort". As long as you have enough money to cover the basics-food, shelter, etc., anything beyond that won't necessarily make you happier.
You need to be able to pay your rent, but you may not need to pay it in a three story luxury apartment on Park Ave. to be set.
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I think it was in this book: [astore.amazon.com]
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@BiteMeMitchell!: And this is why I like the idea of a guaranteed livable income or at least a minimum living wage (thus making me a certifiable pinko). Nobody should have to dedicate that much of their life to work just to keep their head above water. It just sucks the joy out of life.
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You know, some people are so extremely shallow/narcissistic that they wouldn't know what these "deep human requirements" are if they slapped them in the face with a Balenciaga handbag.
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