That BMI article blurb is kind of misleading. The study showed that "Compared to Caucasians, African-Americans of the same age, gender, waist circumference, weight and height may have lower total and abdominal fat mass"
The sample was just 93 people (53 black, 40 white) who had a diabetic parent but were not diabetic themselves. That suggests it is possible that BMI is less accurate for African Americans, but its also a really small sample and the authors say their needs to be further research. No one is saying the accuracy of BMI depends on race (yet).
The whole thing just makes me a little uncomfortable. For African Americans to have less fat at the same BMI and waist circumference, they would have to have either more muscle mass or heavier bones or be in some other way fundamentally different than Caucasians. It just seems like this kind of research could veer into supporting stereotypes - "See black people ARE biologically better at sports!" At the same time, some Asian doctors use a lower BMI cut-off with their patients since Asians tend to be smaller boned.
@Trulymadlyme: No, it can't just be a shape issue because the saw a difference in total fat. Plus, abdominal fat correlated to health problems so where you store your fat is a definite issue.
@clevernamehere: I'm pretty sure statistically African Americans DO have a higher muscle mass than their Caucasian counterparts. Nothing eugenics about it.
No "faith," or culture, for that matter, should require or even SUGGEST that women negate their entire public selves by wearing a burkha or anything like it. I am entirely in agreement with Sarkozy and applaud his honesty in identifying the appalling, medieval, tribal and deeply mysogynistic practice of burkha-wearing as exactly what it is.
@emmablack: Please. Sarkozy doesn't give a hoot about women's liberation. This is not about empowering women. It's about xenophobia and France's ideas about "Frenchness."
@emmablack: So let's get rid of Orthodox Jewish women's wigs, hair coverings, high collared shirts and long skirts. Let's make sure the ultra-Christian women no longer have access to oversized, modest dresses. This isn't a stance against sexism--it's a stance against Islam. At it's very best it's a stance against a PARTICULAR kind of sexism that penalizes (as @SarahMC: I'm doing this!: said) a much maligned group in France. It's paternalistic bullshit.
Also, long skirts and oversized dresses don't completely eliminate your individuality. They don't make it so that no one can even see who you are. They don't make you into a silent ghost. Not the same. Not the same at all.
@SarahMC: I'm doing this!: I respect your opinion, but I'm not sure I agree. This article puts my feelings about the issue way more eloquently than I could: [www.theage.com.au]
@SarahMC: I'm doing this!: Sorry, jumped the gun - I do draw a line between "policing" and "having an opinion on" women's clothing. I think it's good when high-profile politicians make contentious statements like he has done - at least it draws the spotlight and engenders debate.
I agree with Sarkozy; women who willingly wear the burqa have internalized the sexism. It's not actually specified in the Koran, is it? Wearing a burqa is a man-made religious edict.
Before shouting me down, I urge you to read this very interesting article, Beneath the veil of modesty, Muslim women are shackled by their own sexualisation: [www.theage.com.au]
I'm not a fan of the Burqa or male dominated religions (all of them) but it's stepping a little over the line for Sarkozy to tell the citizens of his country what they should and should not wear. And Sarkozy's rules seem to target the Muslim community and no one else. I don't remember hearing Sarkozy speak so loudly and publicly about orthodox Jewish women not being allowed to wear wigs in public. Do you?
@robotsattack: He is banning all religious adornments in public schools, where they have classes on a Saturday - which is in contravention of Jewish observances. At least, that is my understanding.
A quote from the article: "How could you," I was inclined to say, "join a religion that has such a track record of oppressing women?"
What about Catholicism? What about Hinduism? Haven't all religions been somewhat oppressive of women? If you're going to cite an article, try not to pick one that has such a glaring bias against Islam. I have been blessed to meet and make friends with members of the Muslim community and they are lovely, tolerant, kind people. The girls I know are in no way "oppressed".
@robotsattack: I was trying to stay on-point. It is not anti-Islam. Did you read the whole thing? To quote:
"Islam may not be essentially incompatible with feminism. Muhammad's first wife, Khadijah, was an independent businesswoman, who hired the prophet on her own account, and arranged to marry him because she liked his looks, and because he had carried out her business transactions well.
"There is no reason why she should not be the model for all Muslim women. There is nothing in the Koran about veils. But Islam as it is generally practised is not compatible with women's equality.
"Perhaps this is because Islam seems not to have produced an indigenous movement for women's spiritual equality to compare with the campaign waged by Christian women."
@Diziet_Sma: WE'RE shackled by our own sexualization. Do you really think you shave your legs because you HAVEN'T internalized sexism and female beauty expectations? For the fuck of shit.
@Diziet_Sma: Um yes, I have -- I just don't see why it's okay to even consider outlawing someone else's shackles and not our own. I think it's incredibly xenophobic.
@heatherwritesstuff: I'm not sure you're entirely getting the point of why Diziet_Sma posted that link. Isn't it taken as read on Jezebel that western women are 'shackled by their own sexualisation'? But while no one questions that assumption, in a thread like this it can appear that commenters bend over backwards to remain as neutral as possible when discussing the feminist limitations AS THEY SEE THEM in Islam especially, or they compete for title of the Most Culturally Sensitive.
Acknowledging that western women are culturally manipulated into some form of sexualisation isn't exclusive to acknowledging the same about Islam, if that's what you believe. Critiquing Islam in the context of a personal experience you've had with it (in this case, the writer's sister's conversion) does NOT have to be done in conjunction with criticising Catholicism or Hinduism or other religions oppressive to women. Within all those religious folds, there will be many, many people who are modest, kind and giving - it doesn't make the political structures of those religions any more excusable or appealing.
The least problematic thing about Karen Green's article is not that she's essentially wrong about everything she's positing, it's that she's so remarkably one dimensional about it. For a lecturer in feminism, I'm amazed that she's attempted to juxtapose the willingness of Muslim women to achieve equality with the supposed eagerness of Christian women. To suggest that women veil out of some sense of vanity seems like nothing more than a spurious and not even particularly well thought out theory.
Having said all that, I agree with Sarkozy's statement in the post. Burquas may be chosen by some Muslim women exercising their own free will, but as a culturally recognised symbol they exist as one of 'subjugation and submission'. The fact remains that in parts of the Middle East, there are women who are forced to wear them. Even though they existed long before the Taliban, the use of them as a weapon of control underneath that regime made them a symbol of oppression. The swastika (backwards) was a Buddhist symbol, but it's now become a symbol of Nazism. Defending its history prior to Hitler won't change that association in people's minds, and I think the same is true for the international community's perception of the burka.
I am personally comfortable with expressing my belief that shrouding oneself from head to foot and leaving only a gauzed slit to see out of is abhorrent to me. In my opinion, it's not the way to address the sexualisation of women in society. Women who choose to veil in this way may see it as a path to respect, because they're removing the physical from people's interactions with them. I'm not going to argue with them on whether or not this is effective or works for them, because it's their experience and not mine. But essentially, I don't feel it's just or effective in the long term.
So I really don't see that it's fair to criticise Sarkozy for basically demonstrating that he would like the women of France to be accepted as equals, given that he (like myself and many others) think that the ritualistic covering of only women's faces acts as a huge barrier to this.
Sidebar: I highly recommend the award winning journalist Geraldine Brooks' "Nine Parts of Desire" for a history on veiling in the Middle East.
@audreyapple: I am entirely "getting" why that article is posted, and I think it is both informative and problematic for the exact reasons you listed. Unfortunately, I don't think you're "getting" how to related to this post, which is about Sarkozy's statement and banning the burqua. Do I think burquas and various other Islamic customs are problematic and sexist? Absolutely; I'm not disagreeing with that. I am, however, saying that it is also problematic to consider banning one group's garment and not another, specifically when the group in question is oft-discriminated against in said country.
I think it is ESPECIALLY problematic to criticize such things as an outsider in a position of power. I think it's frankly patronizing for a member of the white male elite to make any assumptions that Islamic women -- in any way -- need to be somehow "saved" by our presumably superior Western laws and customs.
I am not saying that we have to criticize Islam in conjunction with anything, and yes, it is a given ON JEZEBEL that we are shackled by the internalization of various sexist practices. That said, this is NOT a given in mainstream society. How often do French politicians stand up and question the oppressive practices of the beauty industry? Has anyone stood up and banned wearing make-up? How about wearing cross necklaces, because of the patriarchal policies of the Catholic church? No, but France HAS banned headscarves.
I am not saying that burquas or hijabs or headscarves are or are not oppressive, because as a non-Muslim Western woman, it's not really my place to dictate that. They might very well be, and it is indeed important to question these traditions, as it is to question our own. I'm just saying a person in a position of power questioning one without acknowledging the other -- and presuming that "we" are in any way fit or capable to fix the perceived societal problems of another (marginalized) group -- is a Eurocentric, imperialist mentality and it's incredibly offensive.
@audreyapple: Oh, but I will check out the book. I will, however, tell you that I'm a bit nervous because "Geraldine Brooks" sounds about as Muslim as I am. Not that outsiders can't have valid opinions; I'd just prefer to hear it first-hand.
"Do I think burquas and various other Islamic customs are problematic and sexist? Absolutely; I'm not disagreeing with that." That is basically all I am saying.
I am not saying that burquas or hijabs or headscarves are or are not oppressive. . ." Okay, that is in direct contradiction of your previous assertion, but, moving on,
"They might very well be," Eh? "and it is indeed important to question these traditions, as it is to question our own. Yep. That is all I am doing, so where's the beef?
"I'm just saying. . . presuming that "we" are in any way fit or capable to fix the perceived societal problems of another (marginalized) group -- is a Eurocentric, imperialist mentality and it's incredibly offensive. Forgive me, for cutting and pasting from another thread, but - Yeah, I know what you mean and it's a valid point. But there is also a valid argument for the reverse: that Western whites championing burqas smacks just as much of colonialism - as in, 'Let 'em choose for themselves; it's nothing to do with us; we can't say because we don't know what it's like to be them, because they are so different from us.'
@Diziet_Sma: LOL. When I went back and read after posting, I was like, damn, I need to proof-read when I rant.
There should be a "possibly" in my first sentence -- "possibly problematic and sexist." I think they definitely COULD be; I just think it's not OUR place to say, as I articulated better in my second "contradictory" comment.
I totally see your point about just stepping off. It's a tough call. I guess my main beef is that there are better ways to show support for women's freedom and choices than by... taking away their choices!! Not to mention making a relatively reductionist argument in a public forum that denounces a cultural tradition of an already maligned group of people.
If this was the representative of a group of French Muslim women speaking on behalf of French Muslim women, I'd be like, rock on ladies. Do what you need to do. I'm pretty open to similar arguments made by people like Ayaan Hirsi Ali. But I get all prickly and angry inside when some powerful white dude tries to tell a marginalized group what to do, and implies that "our" ways are in some way superior while failing to acknowledge our own societal failures. That reeks of condescension to me.
Anyway, as always with Jezebel, this has become left-leaning people arguing over pretty similar left-leaning opinions. Can we agree to disagree?
@heatherwritesstuff: We can agree to disagree if you like, but my point is that I think we are actually saying the same thing! I'm in no way supporting Sarkozy in his perceived goal of outlawing burqas - I am just saying I agree with his comment as it is quoted in the original Jez post above.
@Diziet_Sma: Cool! For what it's worth, you seem very informed and I dig your opinions.
@audreyapple: No worries! Again, you also make some very good points. I will totally check out the book; I certainly agree that an "outsider" can be tremendously informed and can make some very valid insights. For instance, I really enjoyed Krakauer's Under the Banner of Heaven, and he is by no means a member of the FLDS. So, this book sounds like it's very much worth the read. Thanks for the recco!
I had a dream yesterday that I was being recruited to be a Carla Bruni double, along with a bunch of other girls. We were supposed to dye our hair, do some clothes shopping, and head to France to fend off paparazzi by providing decoys. For the record, I don't really resemble Carla Bruni much.
Was my dream symbolic in a way? Do women wear it so they can go about life anonymously?
This is so blantantly ethnocentric of Sarkozy. I am furious. A democracy should promote freedom of religion, not supress it. This is a step backwards for women.
So if a woman REALLY had her choice, , was in control of her own life, making her own decisions, and was not worried about repercussions, violence from her relatives - that woman would CHOOSE to wear this.
@HartleyZodiac: My assumption is that, yes, some women would make that choice. As someone mentioned above, for many women it's a reflection of their faith.
@HartleyZodiac: Yes, it is in fact often an individual choice. Also, I'm not going to name names but I know at least one commenter on here 'actually wears a burka'. I figure she will pop in herself if she fancies it. But yes, women, very many women, choose to wear the burka without any pressure whatsoever from their government/families.
@HartleyZodiac: I agree with you. I don't think anyone would wear something like that unless there was outside pressure to. Before the Taliban and other forms of fundamentalist Islam took over the middle east, women didn't wear them. I don't know how so many of you can so easily defend wearing a burqa. It is so oppressive, so blatantly sexist - why only women? How come men don't have to be so "modest"? I just don't understand why so many of you jump to its defense.
@ULTRAPRISON!: umm, actually, the burka has existed for several hundred years, and is not an invention of the taliban. Not to be overly harsh, but I would really suggest that you familiarize yourself with the history of the dress (and perhaps the cultural implications and associations of it) before making sweeping (and in this case incorrect) statements about it. I am surprised that you can deliver such a scathing indictment of a cultural practice that you seem to know so little about.
Furthermore, Burkas are not worn only in the middle east. they are worn all over the world by muslim women, including in Africa.
Also, there is, in fact, a prescribed dress code for men which many men do, in fact, follow. A skull cap, much like a yamluke, which is to be worn at certain times of the day, for example. Again, please read up on the topic and I'm sure you'll come across further specifics as to what is prescribed for the men.
A burqa could be what Sarkozy says it is, or it could be something a Muslim woman decided to wear in observance of her religion. I'm an atheist, but people should be free to observe their religions any way they want, as long as it doesn't harm others.
Really, Bork doesn't understand the meaning of the word empathy? Really? Also, the man seriously believes we should unstintingly interpret the Constitution as it was "interpreted" in 1797. Seriously, empathy?
France has had a reputation for being unsympathetic and misunderstanding toward Islam, and I see this as an example of that. Who is Sarkozy to determine that these women aren't smart enough about their choices/religion that lead them to wear burqas?
I see it more as a freedom issue -- let them wear what they want.
@hollygolightly: He's pandering and honestly, it kind of pisses me off. France is many fantastic things, but the manner in which immigrants are discriminated against professionally and segregated makes me seethe. Fuck the burqa talk. How about we try to integrate those suburban ghettos and stop discriminating against immigrants applying for jobs, k?
@graciousplum: I'm not Muslim, but I've heard explanations that the women find it empowering- that by wearing it, they aren't beholden to being judged on appearance or objectified by men sexually the way women wearing Western clothes often are.
@cand86: Hmm, that's interesting- I think of it a different way, I guess because I unfortunately attended a very anal conservative Christian high school where tank tops weren't allowed because shoulders are too sexy for the menz to handle, and all girls are sluts if they don't where parkas and ski pants yearround. Ugh.
@graciousplum: I see what you're saying, definitely. And I do think that the very fact that it's required to be worn in many Muslim countries IS a sign of inferiority and submission.
But that's a very different thing from women in more egalitarian countries, like France, choosing to wear it.
@graciousplum: Am not a Muslim, but I dbl-majored in French /Euro Studies in college. The pro argument goes as follows: The young women who choose the burka do so willingly, to proclaim their religious affiliation. Unlike in Saudi Arabia or Iran, for that matter, they are NOT forced to don the outfit by law. They freely choose to do so. Problem is, the Frenchies are the most secular people in Europe--by that I mean that they are the testiest when it comes to the separation of church and state, waaay more so than Americans, actually. If Obama had made a statement like this, everyone would have jumped up 10 feet. But Sarkozy saying this is in keeping with the prevailing attitude of the French people. Ie, not perceived as "offensive."
@graciousplum: Honestly, it just comes down to the reason why the woman choses (in most cases) to wear it. Some find it empowering because it forces men to judge them without the "distraction" of their bodies. Some wear it because it's simply tradition. Others, because they're forced to.
I've heard of women saying that when wearing a burkah men treat them on more equal footing than they would a woman not wearing one. But I've also heard stories of men who go crazy at the sight of an exposed wrist or ankle went women are at the market.
What it comes down to is that in theory (from my understanding of texts I've read), the burkah is supposed to be a symbol of women's equality in Islam. It's a sign that a woman respects herself because she isn't exposing herself or using her body/sexuality to further her self or her interests.
@cand86: But is that really what they want? Or they want to wear it in order not to be judged by men? Isn't that a little like the argument that women who wear mini skirts are asking to be raped? I still find it hard to believe that logic, no matter how I hear it being interpreted.
@LadyFabulous: I think that's what's troubling me. Like you said, its roots is a woman is not respecting herself/using her sexuality if she is not covering up. And considering the fact that millions of women are actually forced to wear it in many countries, the fact that some women who don't live in those countries would want to wear it just because of 'tradition' is quite puzzling to me.
Just my feelings on burqas. Not that I agree with banning them or anything.
@eirwen: I know, it's weird to wrap your mind around it if you are not a devout young Muslim woman living in a secular, traditionally Christian society like France. But: honestly, their choice, I venture to say, has nothing to do with coercion. They wear the burka with pride, to reflect the devotion to their beliefs. Almost like it's a suit of armor, that protects them and sets them apart from the ordinary populace, or something. Think of it as the equivalent of someone wearing a cross on a necklace.
@eirwen: I get what you're saying. I don't agree with it either and it's not common to see Muslim women here (in Vancouver) wearing them.
I don't agree with the sentiment that I've noticed about it being a woman's responcibility to be modest/not sexy in order for men to respect them/treat them like equals. It makes it seem like men are just crazy-horn-dogs that can't control themselves unless a woman is covered head to toe... but then again, so much of the religion (due to cultural influences) lets the boys get away with murder (figuratively and literally.)
@J.D.Regent: It's not exactly "undressing" - it's not like Sarkozy is forcing them to run around naked.
I think many young women who wear the burqa are doing so under family/societal pressure. Yes, under French law, they may wear whatever they want, but I doubt many of their parents go along with that. I think this will be freeing for many young Muslim women in France.
@LadyFabulous: I understand why some women would still want to wear it, but you can dress conservatively without donning an international symbol of female subjugation. You can just wear loose-fitting clothes. It's not like banning burqas means every woman in France has to run around in a tube top and hot pants.
@snug*bug: The burqa is also really more cultural than anything, as per my understanding. I have read of, and been in classes with, several scholars of Islam who can *kind of* show the basis for covering your hair, as in wearing hijab (as several of the women did) but there really is not a very strong religious argument for having women cover every single inch of their bodies and faces, including the eyes. I think that is where my questioning comes up a bit. Theoretically, sure it could be a choice. But generally, the people who are trying to force all women to cover head to toe are are either tribal warlords a la the Taliban, or extremely repressive politicians. Can anyone cite a country or area where free from these forces, women have decided that instead of wearing hijab, or hijab and an abaya, they wanted to cover entirely with only a netted slit for vision?
@ULTRAPRISON!: Well I just don't feel comfortable making it illegal for a woman to wear what she wants to wear, no matter what the reasons. You're not privy to her thoughts and motivations, so I don't know where you get off saying it "will be freeing." Quite frankly, a law like this could be just as restrictive.
@ULTRAPRISON!: while 'undressing' to you means running around naked, or as you say, wearing a tube top and hot pants, surely it is not so difficult to understand that to women who have a different religious affiliation (which calls for them to cover their hair/legs/arms in front of men to whom they are not related) exposing THOSE parts of their bodies could, and in fact ARE akin to 'running around naked'.
While to you and sarkozy and perhaps much of the west the bukra may be an 'international symbol of female subjugation' it has been, for centuries, a religious symbol affiliated with modesty and a close following of islam for millions of women (and men) around the world.
Why should they have to follow *our* standards of symbolism or modesty?
@LaFemme: I would offer the examples of both Pakistan and Jordan, where wearing none (abaya,hijab,burka, etc) is law or enforced in ANY way, but millions of women choose to do so anyway. In both countries, women are seen wearing sleevless shirts, tank tops, capri pants, low cut shirts, with their hair uncovered etc in markets/streets/restaurants. In fact a majority of women in both countries DONT follow Islamic dress as you have described it. Yes, as I said, millions of women choose to follow it, to varying degrees ranging from just the hijab to a bukra with a slit for their eyes, anyway.
@ShanaElmsford: I worry that cultural relativism and the fear of seeming prejudiced against Islam is causing some feminists here to be burqa apologists. I'm not a muslim, and I am also a fierce defender of civil rights, but I agree with Sarkozy's stance here. From discussions with muslim friends, I understand there is no actual provision in the Koran that mandates wearing burqas. In fact, in places like Afghanistan in its pre-Taliban days, burqas were VERY uncommon. They have resurged in popularity as a consequence of Islamic fundamentalism (which in and of itself is largely a consequence of cold war policies, but don't let me get started on that topic) and its associated beliefs in the inferiority of women. This is why I'm against the burqa, whether as an individual choice or not -- and again, I am acknowledging that I'm making a very 2nd wave "false consciousness" argument here, but this is very reminiscent of that. Women who aren't wearing burqas in many countries are getting stoned or beaten for it. The fact that some voluntarily are wearing them in Western countries makes you think...just how "voluntary" is it?
@ULTRAPRISON!: Putting aside your personal feelings re: burqas, what effect would a ban have on women who DO face family pressure to wear one? Will they suddenly be permitted to walk the streets in jeans and a t-shirt, or will they simply be forbidden to leave the house?
@swaggeron: While you mention the Koran, you make no mention as to what the Hadith say on covering ones hair/elbows/ankles. It's very difficult, and might i say, a little narrow in scope to base ones understanding of a religious/cultural norm on minimal understanding of a single religious text.
As you know, I'm sure, very many muslim traditions and beliefs extend beyond what the Koran ascribes and turn to Hadith, Sunnah etc for guidelines/instruction.
Furthermore, I disagree with your understand of pre-taliban Afghanistan, as most historical texts dealing with the spread of religiosity in the region are quite clear about the fact that religiosity and religious functions have changed very little in villages,rural areas etc, since the talibanization of the country. My point is, women were wearing burkas in Afghanisation for generations before the Taliban were given that name.
Also, I certainly do not consider myself a 'burka apologist', as you call it. I think it is a persons right to choose how they express their religion - Asking a woman to remove her burka is, in my opinion, akin to asking a sikh man to remove his turban.
@swaggeron: Women who aren't wearing burqas in many countries are getting stoned or beaten for it.
So how do you think women who obey the law (i.e. don't wear burqas) will be treated by those in the community who think they should be mandatory? I predict it's women who will be punished one way or another. That's not burqa apologism; it's thinking a few steps ahead and asking how this would play out.
@ULTRAPRISON!: That's actually how I felt when I first emigrated to Europe, where my family lived for a few years before moving to the US.
The emphasis on secularism & the social pressure for immigrants to adopt Western norms regarding women's dress, education, sexuality, etc. was denounced as colonialist & xenophobic by many members of my community, but in my heart of hearts I have to admit I appreciated it & felt it gave me space & safety in which to move without having to battle with my co-ethnics - it was like a barrier protecting me from what I felt were the worst aspects of my own culture.
This comment only represents my opinion not those of all girls who were in my situation blah blah blah
@swaggeron: "The fact that some voluntarily are wearing them in Western countries makes you think...just how "voluntary" is it?"
So how does one know if my wearing heels is my own choice or something I do because my husband demands it? I'm not saying the burqa isn't a complex garment seeped in sexism, however, to imply that THIS garment ALONE must always be a symbol of that sexism whereas one does not do this with any Western garment* it ethnocentric and just as paternalistic as forcing someone TO wear it.
*What about the super-conservative dress of Orthodox Jewish or Fundamentalist Christian women?
@Diziet_Sma: OK...? But are Muslim women taking a stand? Or is France trying to push them into it? I don't see how a burqa ban will help the women ban-supporters claim to be concerned about.
@SarahMC: I'm doing this!: That's a fair point. If he is actually making them illegal, full stop, you are right; it's too severe. And potentially dangerous. I agree with his statement above, as it is quoted in the post, though.
"France has the largest Muslim population in Western Europe, estimated at five million, and the wearing of traditional Islamic garments has been a divisive issue, especially since 2004, when the country passed legislation prohibiting head scarves and conspicuous religious symbols from public schools.
Mr. Sarkozy noted that "in the republic, the Muslim religion must be respected like other religions." But he declared that "the burqa is not welcome in France."
"We cannot accept in our country women imprisoned behind bars, cut off from social life, deprived of identity," he said. "That is not our idea of maintaining the dignity of women."
Mohammed Moussaoui, the president of France's Representative Muslim Council, said he agreed with Mr. Sarkozy's position on burqas, calling them "an extremely marginal phenomenon." He said his group promoted a moderate practice of Islam."
So, this begs the question, since even headscarves have been banned in public schools for 5 years, does anyone know whether any girls have been attacked for not wearing them?
@LaComtesse: I think it's way too simplistic of a comparison to say "Well who mandates that we wear high heels?" Similarly, you can't push aside that fact by saying "Oh but the burqa is a complex garment seeped in sexism."
High heels have no religious grounding. No one is forced to wear them by their government, like many Middle Eastern women are with burqas. If one man makes one woman wear high heels, that's unreasonable. If an entire culture makes every women wear a garment that renders her unrecognizable to anyone else, that's rampant sexism.
Also, you mention the super-conservative way other religious women dress - but you can still see their faces. They're dressing very, very modestly - they aren't covering up every inch so their super-sexy wrists or hair don't force a group of men to rape them. It is very different.
@SarahMC: I'm doing this!: No, I don't think they'll be running around in jeans and a t-shirt. They will probably dress conservatively. I think their neighbors, friends, and schools might get involved if suddenly the girls aren't leaving the house.
@ULTRAPRISON!: Also, headscarves have been banned in schools for 5 years; I haven't heard about girls being kept home because of that. But if anyone knows different, please do chime in.
@ULTRAPRISON!: I just see quibbling over details. At this point in all cases a woman is defined as something that must be covered and contained, so who cares if that means face or no face, the point is she is marked as inferior or other. I do NOT think it is different. By banning the burqa and not other garments that show an inferior or (more kindly, perhaps) limited status of woman, you're basically saying "Your sexism is bad, but ours is okay."
@ULTRAPRISON!: Also, in regard to forcing a woman to wear something or not--there's really no religious grounding for a burqa, either. Women wear it as a show of their religiosity or (in many instances, when they are forced by their government) but it's not mandated by Islam. Moreover, they are not FORCED to wear it in France. Pressured by family's? I sure in many instances, but not forced. And rather than try to foster an environment for Muslims in the country where women can feel empowered to wear it or not, Sarkozy is saying "What you do and believe is wrong. You are other, we are creating laws against YOU." This action is probably more likely to make sure women stick close to their very religious communities because they feel discriminated against in France.
@rd2uk: While you mention the Koran, you make no mention as to what the Hadith say on covering ones hair/elbows/ankles. It's very difficult, and might i say, a little narrow in scope to base ones understanding of a religious/cultural norm on minimal understanding of a single religious text.
As you know, I'm sure, very many muslim traditions and beliefs extend beyond what the Koran ascribes and turn to Hadith, Sunnah etc for guidelines/instruction.
Exactly. The thing about Islam is that it is a relativistic religion, in many ways. The hadith, which many people follow, contains conflicting guidance on such things like dress. It also conflicts on plenty of other things like slavery, drinking, and war, but that's neither here nor there (but a lot like Christianity).
Burkas have been around forever and a minute. In my own country, people mainly wore them at funerals, but men wore something quite similar. The manner in which different groups applied and decided to use this dress varies. But it's not new.
I have to agree that if a woman in France chooses to wear a burka or a hijab or whatever, it is her choice and she should be respected. And while I get the concerns people have about familial pressures, these issues exists in all contexts. The Hasisic Jewish culture as well as the Amish culture come to mind. I do think that people who choose to follow Islam, and his or her terms, are indeed often judged as lacking agency or free will, which in the case of many in the U.S. or Europe, is a falsity.
@LaComtesse: He's not actually creating laws against it, he's saying he doesn't welcome it in France. I realize this could be the first step in a law-making process, but presumably that couldn't happen without a government commission. At least, that is what I understood from this:
"Mohammed Moussaoui, the president of France's Representative Muslim Council, said he agreed with Mr. Sarkozy's position on burqas, calling them "an extremely marginal phenomenon." He said his group promoted a moderate practice of Islam.
"When we meet women who wear it, we try to educate them, and explain to them that moderation is a better choice," he said.
The council, however, has spoken out against the need to conduct a study on the burqa, saying that it risked stigmatizing Islam and Muslims in France.
"We'd rather not have a commission on the subject," Mr. Moussaoui said. "But if it was created, we will stay vigilant that French Muslims are not stigmatized, that the president's words are respected."
@Diziet_Sma: The burqa is, for many, a symbol of the oppression of women (I personally see it as such) but it is also a symbol of Islam itself. By saying the burqa is not welcome in France, Sarkozy is using very thinly veiled (no pun intended) symbolic language that will speak to a huge, xenophobic faction of society.
Oh, and all that colonial bullshit Moussaoui is spewing about "We know better than everyone else, so we try to teach them that but the poor souls won't listen." is stomach-turning, frankly. I can only hope he is truly working in the best interest of French Muslims.
@LaComtesse: I think the face is a big deal. With a burqa on, you're anonymous. You're a ghost. I can't imagine it's easy to see. Certainly dangerous to walk around at night covered in all dark material.
And conservative women of other religions cover themselves to show modesty toward God, not because the men say "Oh, we'd go bat-shit sex-crazy if we saw your ankle." And conservative men, at least in Orthodox Judaism, have very strict rules concerning what they wear as well. I'm not saying they're great in terms of how these rules imply sexism, but it's certainly not at ALL to the same extent as the burqa for Muslim women.
@ULTRAPRISON!: We're just going to keep going back and forth on this: I completely disagree with the social implications of other religions' motivations toward female modesty.
@rd2uk: I spent some time in Pakistan and the dress code is very much enforced. You will wear a shalwar kameez with duppatta and you will like it. And in the western part, many women wear the burkha.
Though I saw some ladies take it off when they wanted to get a better look at a tourist with long dreads and his girlfriend who had a shaved head.
@CharlotteTrampling: absolutely disagree with this. I have lived in Pakistan for many years (and incidentally studied the linguistic/cultural relativism in the country from my doctoral thesis) and the dress code that you describe is absolutely not enforced in the cities. I refer to Karachi, Lahore, Islamabad, and even smaller cities like Peshawar and Rawalpini. In fact, even school uniforms for private schools in these cities constitute skirts and button down shirts for women!
Turn the tv onto a pakistani channel (or online, really), or go onto a Pakistani magazine website, you'll see that pakistani men (and women) often dress very much like we do. Jeans, t shirts, etc.
Although I do agree, very many women do, also, wear the burka. Which was my initial point, the dichotomy.
@snug*bug: Separation of church and state is all good and well but when they outlaw the veil and don't do the same for obvious crucifixes (like a necklace), then all you have is discrimination.
@LaComtesse: "Oh, and all that colonial bullshit Moussaoui is spewing"
Yeah, I know what you mean and it's a valid point. But there is also a valid argument for the reverse: that Western whites championing burqas smacks just as much of colonialism - as in, 'Let 'em choose for themselves; it's nothing to do with us; we can't say because we don't know what it's like to be them, because they are so different from us.'
I am not accusing you or anybody else of this, of course! I am just trying to explore the arguments.
@Diziet_Sma: No, you make your point beautifully, and there's certainly a balance to be struck but, as I said above, strong statements against what is (wrong or right) a huge part of people's everyday lives is probably more likely to make sure women stick close to their very religious communities because they feel discriminated against in France. I would prefer to see women's services and programs with overtures towards immigrant/religious communities.
@eirwen: Many of them wear it for religious reasons, while many Christians and most Jewish people and people of many other religions have abandoned the traditional dress spoken of in the Bible or whatever religious text they adhere to, this is the same thing for many of these women. I don't see why that should be any one's choice but that woman.
@rd2uk: I agree with you completely, I think there are absolutely women who are forced to cover and that is not acceptable. The Hadith are pretty clear in saying women should cover everything but their face and their hands. If there is even one single woman who chooses to do this, she should be allowed to for no other reason than it is her CHOICE. It shouldn't matter where she lives, this just seems so extreme to me even though I realize France is incredibly secular.
@rd2uk: I've read MANY accounts of women (particularly older women) refusing to leave their homes in Iran when the Shah banned the wearing of the burqa there. Literally WOULD.NOT.LEAVE. And it wasn't out of a fear of men!
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The sample was just 93 people (53 black, 40 white) who had a diabetic parent but were not diabetic themselves. That suggests it is possible that BMI is less accurate for African Americans, but its also a really small sample and the authors say their needs to be further research. No one is saying the accuracy of BMI depends on race (yet).
The whole thing just makes me a little uncomfortable. For African Americans to have less fat at the same BMI and waist circumference, they would have to have either more muscle mass or heavier bones or be in some other way fundamentally different than Caucasians. It just seems like this kind of research could veer into supporting stereotypes - "See black people ARE biologically better at sports!" At the same time, some Asian doctors use a lower BMI cut-off with their patients since Asians tend to be smaller boned.
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Also, long skirts and oversized dresses don't completely eliminate your individuality. They don't make it so that no one can even see who you are. They don't make you into a silent ghost. Not the same. Not the same at all.
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Before shouting me down, I urge you to read this very interesting article, Beneath the veil of modesty, Muslim women are shackled by their own sexualisation: [www.theage.com.au]
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I'm not a fan of the Burqa or male dominated religions (all of them) but it's stepping a little over the line for Sarkozy to tell the citizens of his country what they should and should not wear. And Sarkozy's rules seem to target the Muslim community and no one else. I don't remember hearing Sarkozy speak so loudly and publicly about orthodox Jewish women not being allowed to wear wigs in public. Do you?
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A quote from the article: "How could you," I was inclined to say, "join a religion that has such a track record of oppressing women?"
What about Catholicism? What about Hinduism? Haven't all religions been somewhat oppressive of women? If you're going to cite an article, try not to pick one that has such a glaring bias against Islam. I have been blessed to meet and make friends with members of the Muslim community and they are lovely, tolerant, kind people. The girls I know are in no way "oppressed".
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"Islam may not be essentially incompatible with feminism. Muhammad's first wife, Khadijah, was an independent businesswoman, who hired the prophet on her own account, and arranged to marry him because she liked his looks, and because he had carried out her business transactions well.
"There is no reason why she should not be the model for all Muslim women. There is nothing in the Koran about veils. But Islam as it is generally practised is not compatible with women's equality.
"Perhaps this is because Islam seems not to have produced an indigenous movement for women's spiritual equality to compare with the campaign waged by Christian women."
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Acknowledging that western women are culturally manipulated into some form of sexualisation isn't exclusive to acknowledging the same about Islam, if that's what you believe. Critiquing Islam in the context of a personal experience you've had with it (in this case, the writer's sister's conversion) does NOT have to be done in conjunction with criticising Catholicism or Hinduism or other religions oppressive to women. Within all those religious folds, there will be many, many people who are modest, kind and giving - it doesn't make the political structures of those religions any more excusable or appealing.
The least problematic thing about Karen Green's article is not that she's essentially wrong about everything she's positing, it's that she's so remarkably one dimensional about it. For a lecturer in feminism, I'm amazed that she's attempted to juxtapose the willingness of Muslim women to achieve equality with the supposed eagerness of Christian women. To suggest that women veil out of some sense of vanity seems like nothing more than a spurious and not even particularly well thought out theory.
Having said all that, I agree with Sarkozy's statement in the post. Burquas may be chosen by some Muslim women exercising their own free will, but as a culturally recognised symbol they exist as one of 'subjugation and submission'. The fact remains that in parts of the Middle East, there are women who are forced to wear them. Even though they existed long before the Taliban, the use of them as a weapon of control underneath that regime made them a symbol of oppression. The swastika (backwards) was a Buddhist symbol, but it's now become a symbol of Nazism. Defending its history prior to Hitler won't change that association in people's minds, and I think the same is true for the international community's perception of the burka.
I am personally comfortable with expressing my belief that shrouding oneself from head to foot and leaving only a gauzed slit to see out of is abhorrent to me. In my opinion, it's not the way to address the sexualisation of women in society. Women who choose to veil in this way may see it as a path to respect, because they're removing the physical from people's interactions with them. I'm not going to argue with them on whether or not this is effective or works for them, because it's their experience and not mine. But essentially, I don't feel it's just or effective in the long term.
So I really don't see that it's fair to criticise Sarkozy for basically demonstrating that he would like the women of France to be accepted as equals, given that he (like myself and many others) think that the ritualistic covering of only women's faces acts as a huge barrier to this.
Sidebar: I highly recommend the award winning journalist Geraldine Brooks' "Nine Parts of Desire" for a history on veiling in the Middle East.
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I think it is ESPECIALLY problematic to criticize such things as an outsider in a position of power. I think it's frankly patronizing for a member of the white male elite to make any assumptions that Islamic women -- in any way -- need to be somehow "saved" by our presumably superior Western laws and customs.
I am not saying that we have to criticize Islam in conjunction with anything, and yes, it is a given ON JEZEBEL that we are shackled by the internalization of various sexist practices. That said, this is NOT a given in mainstream society. How often do French politicians stand up and question the oppressive practices of the beauty industry? Has anyone stood up and banned wearing make-up? How about wearing cross necklaces, because of the patriarchal policies of the Catholic church? No, but France HAS banned headscarves.
I am not saying that burquas or hijabs or headscarves are or are not oppressive, because as a non-Muslim Western woman, it's not really my place to dictate that. They might very well be, and it is indeed important to question these traditions, as it is to question our own. I'm just saying a person in a position of power questioning one without acknowledging the other -- and presuming that "we" are in any way fit or capable to fix the perceived societal problems of another (marginalized) group -- is a Eurocentric, imperialist mentality and it's incredibly offensive.
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"Do I think burquas and various other Islamic customs are problematic and sexist? Absolutely; I'm not disagreeing with that." That is basically all I am saying.
I am not saying that burquas or hijabs or headscarves are or are not oppressive. . ." Okay, that is in direct contradiction of your previous assertion, but, moving on,
"They might very well be," Eh? "and it is indeed important to question these traditions, as it is to question our own. Yep. That is all I am doing, so where's the beef?
"I'm just saying. . . presuming that "we" are in any way fit or capable to fix the perceived societal problems of another (marginalized) group -- is a Eurocentric, imperialist mentality and it's incredibly offensive. Forgive me, for cutting and pasting from another thread, but - Yeah, I know what you mean and it's a valid point. But there is also a valid argument for the reverse: that Western whites championing burqas smacks just as much of colonialism - as in, 'Let 'em choose for themselves; it's nothing to do with us; we can't say because we don't know what it's like to be them, because they are so different from us.'
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There should be a "possibly" in my first sentence -- "possibly problematic and sexist." I think they definitely COULD be; I just think it's not OUR place to say, as I articulated better in my second "contradictory" comment.
I totally see your point about just stepping off. It's a tough call. I guess my main beef is that there are better ways to show support for women's freedom and choices than by... taking away their choices!! Not to mention making a relatively reductionist argument in a public forum that denounces a cultural tradition of an already maligned group of people.
If this was the representative of a group of French Muslim women speaking on behalf of French Muslim women, I'd be like, rock on ladies. Do what you need to do. I'm pretty open to similar arguments made by people like Ayaan Hirsi Ali. But I get all prickly and angry inside when some powerful white dude tries to tell a marginalized group what to do, and implies that "our" ways are in some way superior while failing to acknowledge our own societal failures. That reeks of condescension to me.
Anyway, as always with Jezebel, this has become left-leaning people arguing over pretty similar left-leaning opinions. Can we agree to disagree?
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@audreyapple: No worries! Again, you also make some very good points. I will totally check out the book; I certainly agree that an "outsider" can be tremendously informed and can make some very valid insights. For instance, I really enjoyed Krakauer's Under the Banner of Heaven, and he is by no means a member of the FLDS. So, this book sounds like it's very much worth the read. Thanks for the recco!
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Was my dream symbolic in a way? Do women wear it so they can go about life anonymously?
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Furthermore, Burkas are not worn only in the middle east. they are worn all over the world by muslim women, including in Africa.
Also, there is, in fact, a prescribed dress code for men which many men do, in fact, follow. A skull cap, much like a yamluke, which is to be worn at certain times of the day, for example. Again, please read up on the topic and I'm sure you'll come across further specifics as to what is prescribed for the men.
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Honestly, not being Muslim, I am very uncomfortable with making sweeping statements about Islam or legislating what can or cannot being worn.
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Exactly, this is key.
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I see it more as a freedom issue -- let them wear what they want.
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And the whole faith aspect of it.
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But that's a very different thing from women in more egalitarian countries, like France, choosing to wear it.
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I've heard of women saying that when wearing a burkah men treat them on more equal footing than they would a woman not wearing one. But I've also heard stories of men who go crazy at the sight of an exposed wrist or ankle went women are at the market.
What it comes down to is that in theory (from my understanding of texts I've read), the burkah is supposed to be a symbol of women's equality in Islam. It's a sign that a woman respects herself because she isn't exposing herself or using her body/sexuality to further her self or her interests.
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Just my feelings on burqas. Not that I agree with banning them or anything.
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I don't agree with the sentiment that I've noticed about it being a woman's responcibility to be modest/not sexy in order for men to respect them/treat them like equals. It makes it seem like men are just crazy-horn-dogs that can't control themselves unless a woman is covered head to toe... but then again, so much of the religion (due to cultural influences) lets the boys get away with murder (figuratively and literally.)
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I think many young women who wear the burqa are doing so under family/societal pressure. Yes, under French law, they may wear whatever they want, but I doubt many of their parents go along with that. I think this will be freeing for many young Muslim women in France.
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While to you and sarkozy and perhaps much of the west the bukra may be an 'international symbol of female subjugation' it has been, for centuries, a religious symbol affiliated with modesty and a close following of islam for millions of women (and men) around the world.
Why should they have to follow *our* standards of symbolism or modesty?
@LaFemme: I would offer the examples of both Pakistan and Jordan, where wearing none (abaya,hijab,burka, etc) is law or enforced in ANY way, but millions of women choose to do so anyway. In both countries, women are seen wearing sleevless shirts, tank tops, capri pants, low cut shirts, with their hair uncovered etc in markets/streets/restaurants. In fact a majority of women in both countries DONT follow Islamic dress as you have described it. Yes, as I said, millions of women choose to follow it, to varying degrees ranging from just the hijab to a bukra with a slit for their eyes, anyway.
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As you know, I'm sure, very many muslim traditions and beliefs extend beyond what the Koran ascribes and turn to Hadith, Sunnah etc for guidelines/instruction.
Furthermore, I disagree with your understand of pre-taliban Afghanistan, as most historical texts dealing with the spread of religiosity in the region are quite clear about the fact that religiosity and religious functions have changed very little in villages,rural areas etc, since the talibanization of the country. My point is, women were wearing burkas in Afghanisation for generations before the Taliban were given that name.
Also, I certainly do not consider myself a 'burka apologist', as you call it. I think it is a persons right to choose how they express their religion - Asking a woman to remove her burka is, in my opinion, akin to asking a sikh man to remove his turban.
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So how do you think women who obey the law (i.e. don't wear burqas) will be treated by those in the community who think they should be mandatory? I predict it's women who will be punished one way or another. That's not burqa apologism; it's thinking a few steps ahead and asking how this would play out.
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The emphasis on secularism & the social pressure for immigrants to adopt Western norms regarding women's dress, education, sexuality, etc. was denounced as colonialist & xenophobic by many members of my community, but in my heart of hearts I have to admit I appreciated it & felt it gave me space & safety in which to move without having to battle with my co-ethnics - it was like a barrier protecting me from what I felt were the worst aspects of my own culture.
This comment only represents my opinion not those of all girls who were in my situation blah blah blah
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So how does one know if my wearing heels is my own choice or something I do because my husband demands it? I'm not saying the burqa isn't a complex garment seeped in sexism, however, to imply that THIS garment ALONE must always be a symbol of that sexism whereas one does not do this with any Western garment* it ethnocentric and just as paternalistic as forcing someone TO wear it.
*What about the super-conservative dress of Orthodox Jewish or Fundamentalist Christian women?
@SarahMC: I'm doing this!: Excellent point.
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"France has the largest Muslim population in Western Europe, estimated at five million, and the wearing of traditional Islamic garments has been a divisive issue, especially since 2004, when the country passed legislation prohibiting head scarves and conspicuous religious symbols from public schools.
Mr. Sarkozy noted that "in the republic, the Muslim religion must be respected like other religions." But he declared that "the burqa is not welcome in France."
"We cannot accept in our country women imprisoned behind bars, cut off from social life, deprived of identity," he said. "That is not our idea of maintaining the dignity of women."
Mohammed Moussaoui, the president of France's Representative Muslim Council, said he agreed with Mr. Sarkozy's position on burqas, calling them "an extremely marginal phenomenon." He said his group promoted a moderate practice of Islam."
So, this begs the question, since even headscarves have been banned in public schools for 5 years, does anyone know whether any girls have been attacked for not wearing them?
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High heels have no religious grounding. No one is forced to wear them by their government, like many Middle Eastern women are with burqas. If one man makes one woman wear high heels, that's unreasonable. If an entire culture makes every women wear a garment that renders her unrecognizable to anyone else, that's rampant sexism.
Also, you mention the super-conservative way other religious women dress - but you can still see their faces. They're dressing very, very modestly - they aren't covering up every inch so their super-sexy wrists or hair don't force a group of men to rape them. It is very different.
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As you know, I'm sure, very many muslim traditions and beliefs extend beyond what the Koran ascribes and turn to Hadith, Sunnah etc for guidelines/instruction.
Exactly. The thing about Islam is that it is a relativistic religion, in many ways. The hadith, which many people follow, contains conflicting guidance on such things like dress. It also conflicts on plenty of other things like slavery, drinking, and war, but that's neither here nor there (but a lot like Christianity).
Burkas have been around forever and a minute. In my own country, people mainly wore them at funerals, but men wore something quite similar. The manner in which different groups applied and decided to use this dress varies. But it's not new.
I have to agree that if a woman in France chooses to wear a burka or a hijab or whatever, it is her choice and she should be respected. And while I get the concerns people have about familial pressures, these issues exists in all contexts. The Hasisic Jewish culture as well as the Amish culture come to mind. I do think that people who choose to follow Islam, and his or her terms, are indeed often judged as lacking agency or free will, which in the case of many in the U.S. or Europe, is a falsity.
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"Mohammed Moussaoui, the president of France's Representative Muslim Council, said he agreed with Mr. Sarkozy's position on burqas, calling them "an extremely marginal phenomenon." He said his group promoted a moderate practice of Islam.
"When we meet women who wear it, we try to educate them, and explain to them that moderation is a better choice," he said.
The council, however, has spoken out against the need to conduct a study on the burqa, saying that it risked stigmatizing Islam and Muslims in France.
"We'd rather not have a commission on the subject," Mr. Moussaoui said. "But if it was created, we will stay vigilant that French Muslims are not stigmatized, that the president's words are respected."
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Oh, and all that colonial bullshit Moussaoui is spewing about "We know better than everyone else, so we try to teach them that but the poor souls won't listen." is stomach-turning, frankly. I can only hope he is truly working in the best interest of French Muslims.
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And conservative women of other religions cover themselves to show modesty toward God, not because the men say "Oh, we'd go bat-shit sex-crazy if we saw your ankle." And conservative men, at least in Orthodox Judaism, have very strict rules concerning what they wear as well. I'm not saying they're great in terms of how these rules imply sexism, but it's certainly not at ALL to the same extent as the burqa for Muslim women.
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Though I saw some ladies take it off when they wanted to get a better look at a tourist with long dreads and his girlfriend who had a shaved head.
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Turn the tv onto a pakistani channel (or online, really), or go onto a Pakistani magazine website, you'll see that pakistani men (and women) often dress very much like we do. Jeans, t shirts, etc.
Although I do agree, very many women do, also, wear the burka. Which was my initial point, the dichotomy.
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Yeah, I know what you mean and it's a valid point. But there is also a valid argument for the reverse: that Western whites championing burqas smacks just as much of colonialism - as in, 'Let 'em choose for themselves; it's nothing to do with us; we can't say because we don't know what it's like to be them, because they are so different from us.'
I am not accusing you or anybody else of this, of course! I am just trying to explore the arguments.
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