For what it is worth, a few dissenters does not "anti-catholic" make. All religions have dissenters- and rightfully so. Religion is a big deal. To believers and to non-believers. The Catholic Church wields a lot of money and influence globally. And a lot of people are not Catholic and disagree with Catholic positions. I disagree with a lot of Catholic postions. And the Pope discomfits me as the head of all that money and influence. Also, religion has a way of REALLY alienating it's lapsed followers. And it really isn't for you to judge their axe to grind or how and where they grind it. Imagine feeling abandoned by your Catholic church - I imagine that feels a lot like bigotry to them, too @topsy:
Also, what the hell? A collection of various quotes:
@topsy: You're lucky to be Muslim. Folks around here will avoid jumping on Islam because they don't want to appear to be racist. .....
@topsy: As a non-Muslim person I view most of what I know about Islam with horror. I only know a couple of Muslims and we seem to avoid discussing religion. My feelings are based on what I have seen and heard. My ignorance, if put into words and actions can cause Muslims pain, or worse. As a Muslim, wouldn't you want to speak out, defend your beliefs and try to give another side of the story?
@topsy: But the constant ignorance about Catholics and Catholicism is really sad. When did this stop being a open-minded, tolerant site?
1. Yes, you've got my number. I avoid jumping all over Muslims simply to avoid "appearing" racist. That is insulting.
2. If what you know about Islam causes you to feel "horror", I suggest you buy a book. Because I think what you know about Islam is more about actions taken by people who are Islamic. Sort of like a sect of Catholicism that once upon a time denied the Holocaust. Sort of like that. Since you acknowledge assholes in your religion, perhaps you should be so generous to other religions.
3. Do not backhandedly call Muslims "horrible" and then try to be clever and say, you are ignorant, that all you know is what you have seen and heard. And of course, that your ignorance, if put into word and action, would cause a Muslim pain.
4. Yes, this is an open and pretty tolerant site. You, however, do not appear to be open nor tolerant. So I doubt you see it in others. You just attacked a Muslim man to make your point about how Catholics are attacked.
5. Yes, that is what you did. I get you will not see it that way. Nonetheless, that is how I read your comments.
@Peggy_Mitchell BITCH WITH TITS: Yeah. I read the whole conversation. I just re-read the conversation. I thought Trulymadlyme behaved very gracefully. I get that Topsy was 'trying' to be clever and make a point at Trulymadlyme's expense. I thought that wasn't cool.
The photograph caption mentions the that the Pope was a member of the Hitler Youth. People talking about that and the then related Holocaust denial brou-ha-ha seems fairly legitimate. Granted, Catholics (not the Church, necessarily) have been put through the wringer in the last twenty years. However, I do believe people should be allowed to talk about the Church without being labeled anti-Catholic.
It's hard to take something out of context when I copy & paste almost the entire post.
I'm not picking a fight with you, but I read that whole thing a couple times. As I said, that is how I read the comments.
yes, the Church has faults. In its 2000 some odd year history atrocities happened in its name.
If the Church closed shop on all of its social programs and charities, the US would be in some trouble. The fact of the matter is, despite its faults, if someone needs a home or a meal, they will most likely end up turning to the Church via soup kitchen or parish or the like for help.
@Peggy_Mitchell BITCH WITH TITS: This same argument comes up every time a post turns into a "I HATE THE CATHOLIC CHURCH' free-for-all, and it never seems to make any difference. It seems impossible to explain what it feels like to read this kind of stuff and to be slammed for trying to defend one's religion. Nobody knows more about the faults of the Catholic Church than Catholics. My father, while a young man in England, experienced so much racism IN THE CHURCH, at the hands of a priest that he and many other young black men left the Church forever. But he always insisted that we go, because he didn't want to make the decision to leave for his children. Even as a very lapsed Catholic, nothing can compare to the feeling I get when going into a church. I have never been turned away by a priest when asking for comfort, even though I can't remember the last time I went to Mass.
To be accused of condoning child molestation or Holocaust denial (that's a new one) by people who have no idea what those issues mean to a Catholic hurts and makes me angry. That's what experiencing bigotry feels like.
@DinaRonson : Desperately Seeking Snark: I've had 13 years of Catholic Schooling and zero years of therapy...all of the people I know with "issues" went to public school or went to catholic school but were not catholic and had distinctly psycho parents (like a buddhist friend whose mom told her that sex is what you do to please a man but at it's core it's dirty)
@topsy: Methinks someone is protesting too much. It's like every thread were there is the SLIGHTEST criticism. Why do you care what people think about Catholicism? You accuse people of not being open-minded, but here you go, shutting down everyone else's opinion?
Did it ever occur to you that there are other people out there who know just as much about Catholicism as you do (ie. not "outsiders"), but still have decided it deserves criticism? What's so wrong with voicing complaints? Are we just supposed to shut up and go along with what you and the Pope say because you said so? Please. This is exactly why I left the church.
@westvillagegirl (exiled in chicago): So, the only people allowed to have an opinion about the Catholic Church are those that are voicing complaints? Please show me where Topsy has told anyone to shut up. In this thread, she's merely responding to a negative view of Catholic school with her own experience. How, exactly, is that "shutting down everyone else's opinion?" Talk about protesting too much!
And in answer to your rant: are you serious? 'You and the Pope'. That was supposed to be funny right? Because to lump me together with the Pope is so unbelievably stupid that I can't believe anyone with any sense would say such a thing. I should laughing, right?
@Easybreezy: I agree. I see them in mass every now and again, and I always think how nice it must be, in some ways, to live that lifestyle.
You're pretty much excused from thinking about your hair or your face or your clothes, you're surrounded by other cool women all day, and you get to devote your life to helping other people. Plus you still get to drink.
So yesterday, I got to work from home because the road between my house just outside of Bethlehem and my job in Jerusalem was closed for the Pope's visit. Thanks Pope! I'm willing to forgive the Holocaust denial/Hitler youth stuff for a nice day at home with my kitties.
@deitybox: The Pope has NEVER denied the Holocaust! In fact, he's said that any denial is "intolerable and completely unacceptable." Please take a moment to educate yourself before making such inflammatory claims: [www.msnbc.msn.com]
@mrs_weasley: Thanks, but I don't need to "educate myself". When I said the "Holocaust denial stuff" I meant the fact that he pardoned a priest who has been an outspoken Holocaust denier. Explain that one.
@deitybox: Well, you obviously didn't read the article I linked to, and you obviously don't understand excommunication, so I will happily explain the whole Holocaust-denying bishop debacle. (Hope you don't think I'm trying to "educate" you.) First of all, the Church did not "pardon" Williamson. They don't "pardon" anyone. Williamson was part of a small, radically conservative sect that broke with Rome and therefore he and three other bishops were excommunicated. After a number of years, the group was felt to be "rehabilitated" (the Church's words - meaning they were back in line with Rome) and the four bishops were allowed to come back to the Church. They were "un-excommunicated," as it were. Their excommunication and subsequent un-excommunication had nothing to do with their world views; it was all about issues of doctrine with the Church. When the Pope (who, shockingly, doesn't know the personal political views of every one of the thousands of bishops in the Church) found out about Williamson's Holocaust denial, he demanded that he recant his views before he would be fully re-admitted as a bishop. It's a great big black eye for the Church, to be sure, but that doesn't mean the Church accepts Holocaust denial - in fact, it has come out quite strongly against it. So, yes, unfortunately, there are assholes like Williamson in the Catholic Church. But he doesn't define what the Church is. He's an aberration. If you look hard enough, I believe you can find assholes in just about every organization in the world.
Sorry to bring up something completely unrelated but when are you guys gonna post the "Precious" (Formerly known as "Push") trailer? You guys were all over this movie like white on rice after Sundance!
True Story: One of the nuns in my school used to got to the financial district and buy stocks and bonds, when she got onto the bus the conductor would not charge her since she feigned she couldn't find the money in her robes.
@Trulymadlyme: As a boy in Germany he was part of the Hitler Youth, as were most German (Aryan) boys at that time. He wasn't, like, running a concentration camp or anything.
@Trulymadlyme: As I understand it, he was a youth when all youths in his area were in the Hitler Youth Corp or whatever they called it.
From (the maybe unreliable) Wiki page:
Following his fourteenth birthday in 1941, Ratzinger was enrolled in the Hitler Youth, as membership was required for all 14-year old German boys after December 1939, but was an unenthusiastic member and refused to attend meetings.
@poorlittlerischgirl: From Wikipedia: Following his fourteenth birthday in 1941, Ratzinger was enrolled in the Hitler Youth, as membership was required for all 14-year old German boys after December 1939,[6] but was an unenthusiastic member and refused to attend meetings.[7] His father was a bitter enemy of Nazism, believing it conflicted with the Catholic faith, according to biographer John L. Allen, Jr. In 1941, one of Ratzinger's cousins, a 14-year-old boy with Down syndrome, was taken away by the Nazi regime to a care center and killed there in secrecy during the Aktion T4 euthanasia campaign of Nazi eugenics.[8] In 1943 while still in seminary, he was drafted at age 16 into the German anti-aircraft corps. Ratzinger then trained in the German infantry, but a subsequent illness precluded him from the usual rigours of military duty. As the Allied front drew closer to his post in 1945, he deserted back to his family's home in Traunstein after his unit had ceased to exist, just as American troops established their headquarters in the Ratzinger household. As a German soldier, he was put in a POW camp but was released a few months later at the end of the War in summer 1945. He reentered the seminary, along with his brother Georg, in November of that year.
@slowpoke.r: @Benevolent_Dictatrix I must I must increase my bust!: Has he spoken at length about this experience? Because as what basically constitutes a child solider, you would think the Pope would be way more interested in using the Church to promote the end of such practices instead of espousing that the use of condoms will not stop the spread of HIV.
I'm not catholic, so I missed out on this. But I always respected the part of the Church that was committed to social justice.
@Trulymadlyme: He calls for an end to world conflicts all the time, he just only gets much publicity for talking about sex, and for when he messes up. Being Pope is not like being Miss America, you don't have to choose one platform to support.
@MissMoneypenny: He calls for an end to world conflicts all the time, he just only gets much publicity for talking about sex, and for when he messes up. Being Pope is not like being Miss America, you don't have to choose one platform to support.
I think there is a huge difference from advocating that wars end and advocating against the specific practice of child soldiers, which he had been forced to be during WW2. I'm surprised the Catholic Church isn't using the Pope's experience as a means of ending this practice and bringing those severely abused children into the church (and its immense resources that are used for development and ending poverty).
Like I said, I always thought the social justice aspect of the Catholic Church was great.
"Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. Hate multiples hate, violence multiplies violence, and toughness multiplies toughness in a descending spiral of destruction.... The chain reaction of evil -- hate begetting hate, war producing more wars -- must be broken, or we shall be plunged into the dark abyss of annihilation." - Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
Or, in the words of the Tanakh (Jewish scriptures): "He has told you, oh man, what is good and what the Lord requires of you: Only to do justice and to love goodness and to walk modestly with your God." - Micah 6:8; and this: "Seek peace, and pursue it." - Psalms 34:14
Or, in the words of President Obama's Special Envoy, George Mitchell: "Conflicts are created by human beings, and can be ended by human beings. "
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Also, what the hell? A collection of various quotes:
@topsy:
You're lucky to be Muslim. Folks around here will avoid jumping on Islam because they don't want to appear to be racist. .....
@topsy:
As a non-Muslim person I view most of what I know about Islam with horror. I only know a couple of Muslims and we seem to avoid discussing religion. My feelings are based on what I have seen and heard. My ignorance, if put into words and actions can cause Muslims pain, or worse. As a Muslim, wouldn't you want to speak out, defend your beliefs and try to give another side of the story?
@topsy:
But the constant ignorance about Catholics and Catholicism is really sad. When did this stop being a open-minded, tolerant site?
1. Yes, you've got my number. I avoid jumping all over Muslims simply to avoid "appearing" racist. That is insulting.
2. If what you know about Islam causes you to feel "horror", I suggest you buy a book. Because I think what you know about Islam is more about actions taken by people who are Islamic. Sort of like a sect of Catholicism that once upon a time denied the Holocaust. Sort of like that. Since you acknowledge assholes in your religion, perhaps you should be so generous to other religions.
3. Do not backhandedly call Muslims "horrible" and then try to be clever and say, you are ignorant, that all you know is what you have seen and heard. And of course, that your ignorance, if put into word and action, would cause a Muslim pain.
4. Yes, this is an open and pretty tolerant site. You, however, do not appear to be open nor tolerant. So I doubt you see it in others. You just attacked a Muslim man to make your point about how Catholics are attacked.
5. Yes, that is what you did. I get you will not see it that way. Nonetheless, that is how I read your comments.
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Topsy and Trulymadlyme were posting back and forth to each other. You pulled things out of context.
Not cool.
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The photograph caption mentions the that the Pope was a member of the Hitler Youth. People talking about that and the then related Holocaust denial brou-ha-ha seems fairly legitimate. Granted, Catholics (not the Church, necessarily) have been put through the wringer in the last twenty years. However, I do believe people should be allowed to talk about the Church without being labeled anti-Catholic.
It's hard to take something out of context when I copy & paste almost the entire post.
I'm not picking a fight with you, but I read that whole thing a couple times. As I said, that is how I read the comments.
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If the Church closed shop on all of its social programs and charities, the US would be in some trouble.
The fact of the matter is, despite its faults, if someone needs a home or a meal, they will most likely end up turning to the Church via soup kitchen or parish or the like for help.
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To be accused of condoning child molestation or Holocaust denial (that's a new one) by people who have no idea what those issues mean to a Catholic hurts and makes me angry. That's what experiencing bigotry feels like.
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All the nuns I knew (went to 2 parochial schools) were warm, engaging & accessible. Some wore modernized habits, others wore khakis and sandals.
Nowadays every time I see a nun (or monk) I smile. Maybe I shouldn't treat them like they are unicorns.
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Did it ever occur to you that there are other people out there who know just as much about Catholicism as you do (ie. not "outsiders"), but still have decided it deserves criticism? What's so wrong with voicing complaints? Are we just supposed to shut up and go along with what you and the Pope say because you said so? Please. This is exactly why I left the church.
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And in answer to your rant: are you serious? 'You and the Pope'. That was supposed to be funny right? Because to lump me together with the Pope is so unbelievably stupid that I can't believe anyone with any sense would say such a thing. I should laughing, right?
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You're pretty much excused from thinking about your hair or your face or your clothes, you're surrounded by other cool women all day, and you get to devote your life to helping other people. Plus you still get to drink.
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A potted plant and a 12 pack of Heineken would have been impossible to beat!
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I was about to be all for that.
My eyes - they deceive me.
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Flying Nun: Roger that, control, preparing for optimal wingspan.
(Nun spreads her arms, rockets off the launch pad, going "WHEE")
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From (the maybe unreliable) Wiki page:
Following his fourteenth birthday in 1941, Ratzinger was enrolled in the Hitler Youth, as membership was required for all 14-year old German boys after December 1939, but was an unenthusiastic member and refused to attend meetings.
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I'm not catholic, so I missed out on this. But I always respected the part of the Church that was committed to social justice.
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I think there is a huge difference from advocating that wars end and advocating against the specific practice of child soldiers, which he had been forced to be during WW2. I'm surprised the Catholic Church isn't using the Pope's experience as a means of ending this practice and bringing those severely abused children into the church (and its immense resources that are used for development and ending poverty).
Like I said, I always thought the social justice aspect of the Catholic Church was great.
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Or, in the words of the Tanakh (Jewish scriptures): "He has told you, oh man, what is good and what the Lord requires of you: Only to do justice and to love goodness and to walk modestly with your God." - Micah 6:8; and this: "Seek peace, and pursue it." - Psalms 34:14
Or, in the words of President Obama's Special Envoy, George Mitchell: "Conflicts are created by human beings, and can be ended by human beings. "