I need some help with the concept of Candace Bushnell being anti-feminist. Yes, I'm serious.
I get that she pushed materialism, over-the-top pink femininity and a very third wave approach to sexuality, but none of that seems explicitly anti-feminist. Just maybe some of it is stuff we don't like.
If some of her characters have been archetypes that are less than feminist, aren't some of them also representative of feminist ideals of equality in the workplace, the home and the bedroom? Samantha, I'm thinking of you.
I'm not saying Candace Bushnell is actively feminist, but she did get mainstream female America discussing sex in a different way, and treated the question of whether or not a relationship should be central to a woman's happiness and a definition of her success (how successfully is up for debate).
@JerseyGrrrl: She's not my personal cup of tea, but I'll back you on that 100%. She's made herself in the Helen Gurley Brown model, and that's a powerful place to be.
@JerseyGrrrl: Samantha doesn't believe in equality - she's a frat boy with a vag. Also, her body is frequently abused in the TV show (I've only seen a few eps.) - one where she lets a journalist screw her at a party to make a point to her (ex?) boyfriend? Horrible.
I thought the general consensus on The Reader was that Kate was really being rewarded for her body of work and not that particular role, which got very mixed reviews if I remember?
I hate when people try to pin the downfall of whatever on one tiny incident.
Lynn Crosbie wrote a book called Paul's Case. In which she adopted the voices of Paul Bernardo's victims. (I refuse to cater to Americans, if you don't know who that is, Google it.) Then a columnist at the National Post named Christie Blatchford (who everyone in Canada hates) threatened to scratch her eyes out and all hell broke loose in the papers for a few days.
In short, Lynn Crosbie is what we like to call a shit disturber. Not sure she actually thinks very hard about this stuff.
@PilgrimSoul: I never knew about that book. But, even as an American, I do know who Paul Bernardo is. And that sounds like all kinds of attention-starved dreadful.
I thought Ally MacBeal killed feminism? That's what Time said. Wait, no that was the Spice Girls (NY Times). Oh no, it was Bridget Jones's Diary that killed feminism (every book review ever). So many suspects!
You guys, I have an idea for a board game. Clue, except instead of Mr. Boddy winding up dead, you have to figure out who strangled Feminism in the library with a sparkly "Porn Star" belly shirt.
Am I alone in thinking Bridget Jones's Diary was not actually all that anti-feminist? She's got good friends, a decent job, she seems to be relatively happy with her lot in life, and in the end she gets to bang Colin Firth.
@Khrushchev: The thing about her weight is, if she's average height, she's actually really thin. At least in the american version. To me, that was one of the funnier parts of the book--all this fuss and nonsense over something that isn't even actually an issue.
Maybe I'm defending something that's not actually defensible just because I like it.
@Khrushchev: @sciencerules: I thought it was a kind of funny comment on what women become obsessed with in our culture. It's unfortunate if it led to obsession itself, but I think at the end when she decides to start a new diary with a different scope, it's kind of redeemed.
@rocknrollunicorn: Ridiculous, yes, but definitely not doormats! I think it's a strike for equality when women can be as dumb-ass and violent as men. And I don't surrender my feminist membership card for enjoying it...at least I hope not.
@TheLittlestChicken: No, but I don't surrender mine for seeing Sex and the City. I'm sorry but Obsessed looks like it plays to some of the worst stereotypes of women. I won't judge anyone for seeing it, but I will judge someone for name-dropping it as a better feminist option than The Reader.
Is there some kind of requirement that a random journalist publish an article on the theme of OMG THE DEATH OF FEMINISM like, every month? Is it just me or are there always articles like this?
This is far from being Lynn Crosbie's first inane column, but...what? Our junk and other reproductive elements cause the gender divide? The hell with Candace Bushnell; Crosbie needs some Moira Gatens. Jeepers.
And I can all but guarantee that if she's watching Two and a Half Men for shits and giggles, the glorious Battlestar will not mesmerize.
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"but we degrade the word feminist if we only apply it to things we like, and withhold it from things we find boring."
Yes. I feel like trying to get other women, other feminist women to acknowledge this is one of the hardest battles I've tried to engage in. Thank you.
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I get that she pushed materialism, over-the-top pink femininity and a very third wave approach to sexuality, but none of that seems explicitly anti-feminist. Just maybe some of it is stuff we don't like.
If some of her characters have been archetypes that are less than feminist, aren't some of them also representative of feminist ideals of equality in the workplace, the home and the bedroom? Samantha, I'm thinking of you.
I'm not saying Candace Bushnell is actively feminist, but she did get mainstream female America discussing sex in a different way, and treated the question of whether or not a relationship should be central to a woman's happiness and a definition of her success (how successfully is up for debate).
Thoughts?
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I hate when people try to pin the downfall of whatever on one tiny incident.
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'Cause I just want some variety, you know?
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I thought all the lines on that show were unfunny.
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Lynn Crosbie wrote a book called Paul's Case. In which she adopted the voices of Paul Bernardo's victims. (I refuse to cater to Americans, if you don't know who that is, Google it.) Then a columnist at the National Post named Christie Blatchford (who everyone in Canada hates) threatened to scratch her eyes out and all hell broke loose in the papers for a few days.
In short, Lynn Crosbie is what we like to call a shit disturber. Not sure she actually thinks very hard about this stuff.
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You guys, I have an idea for a board game. Clue, except instead of Mr. Boddy winding up dead, you have to figure out who strangled Feminism in the library with a sparkly "Porn Star" belly shirt.
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Am I alone in thinking Bridget Jones's Diary was not actually all that anti-feminist? She's got good friends, a decent job, she seems to be relatively happy with her lot in life, and in the end she gets to bang Colin Firth.
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Maybe I'm defending something that's not actually defensible just because I like it.
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Or so it would seem from the commercials.
Feminist, my ass.
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Lord, I love Dixie Carter.
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And I can all but guarantee that if she's watching Two and a Half Men for shits and giggles, the glorious Battlestar will not mesmerize.