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A lot of self-study and mutual tutoring too...
I'm certainly not so arrogant to think I couldn't learn something new. Books + sex = 2 good things together. Why not?
This tome has stood the test of time, and having a "Dummies Guide" on any subject, on my bookshelf is not my style.
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300 pages of awesomeness.
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TJOS is a much better book in my opinion over the comma sutra.
Comment fail.
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Damn you Bob Rumson!
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My ex of eight years didn't prefer that position, and I really feel I am not as skilled in it as .. other things.
*Note: There's a reason I didn't press for it so much with him either, but as it's the Holiday Season I will not divulge and embarrass him.
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Because I'm in pretty good shape but fuck if I dont get tired up there.
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Makes me feel inadequate, and I don't usually get that way.
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Other than that, mostly, do what feels good.
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@LaFemme: If you were enjoying it all's fine, but I haven't enjoyed it as much as other positions.
And, fine I'll be honest - my ex wasn't very endowed. It was fine in other positions because we got a rhythm going, but in me on top he would ... ummm.. fall/slip out a lot.
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This is a tricky-ish one to deal with, but one solution is just to close your eyes or tilt your head back and concentrate on how it feels, until you're more confident. You could always blindfold the dude, too... ;)
Guys like woman-on-top because it goes in deep, it's a great view, we can use our hands a little more, and (no lie) we get a little rest. The weight of a woman on top is a nice change too.
Changing the position of your legs, squatting, holding on to a headboard, and adjusting the angle of your hips are all good things to experiment with...
Personally, if find a woman who is comfortable being on top a huge turn-on.
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He healed OK without surgery, but, yipes!
I have genuinely worried a few times with women that are really "take-charge" and into "sportfucking." I now have a strategy - keep my hands ready to grab her ass and pull her close if she gets too bouncy...
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I love Jezebel. the sex-story sharing, I needs it!
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Impossible almost, I'd have to say. And I'm adventurous!
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The only people who make love are on Days of Our Lives or in bad love songs. I do NOT make love, under any circumstances.
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My skin is crawling. Crawling, I tell you!
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As a child of the 70's, I grew up watching The Newlywed Game, and every time they talked about "Making Whoopee," it just made me think about the Whoopee Cushion some kid in my class had brought to school once in second grade. Thus creating some Really Unfortunate associations in my developing brain...
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Turns out I can, unfortunately. Ugh.
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(overlooking the obvious bit where 'taking' is sort of ridiculous.)
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PS I'm glad your yeasty time is behind you!
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Me? I openly read passages of Sex and the American Teenager proudly and displayed the book on my desks prominently in school.
But what you did...now that's just sick.
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I would also sneak into my mother's library at night and read Lady chatterly with a flashlight.
It's really not surprising that I grew up to be a big ladyslut.
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