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"My Boyfriend Loves Oral Sex But Hates Pubic Hair"
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06/24/09
There is no way anyone should have sex with a guy friend who is active with a bunch of other girls WHEN YOU WANT FEELINGS TO BE INVOLVED AND WHEN IT APPEARS THAT YOU HAVE FEELINGS FOR HIM BUT HE DOESN'T RECIPROCATE.
Sorry, don't know how to bold or anything in comments.
Anyway, the addition of the virginity thing just makes me predict a scene where he's all "I told you we were just friends." and she's all "I gave you my virginity, you bastard!"
This is a variation on the situation where one party offers the other a fuck-buddy situation - hoping that it becomes more - and then gets all crazy because the other party has no intense feelings, and continues to go about business as usual instead of having a Big Revelation of his/her "real" love.
.....or am I personalizing this?
06/24/09
...and then you end up pregnant/with herpes. WAKE. UP.
06/24/09
"Aretha: I don't care what he "says." It will mean something to him; it always does.
Susie: Virginity is wildly overrated.
THIS is their advice to a girl who is barely a legal adult, who is considering being physically and emotionally intimate with a man who:
1) Is being physically intimate (and we don't know how safe) with several other women...that she knows of;
2) has made it explicitly clear that he does not and will not have any emotional investment in her, regardless of what she may feel for him;
3) has made it explicitly clear that he is willing to lie about the emotional investment he has in her, to the extent it will influence her decision to fuck him, and
4) in light of the foregoing we can only conclude would not assume any mutual accountability for the potential medical risks to her that may arise from their intimacy...
::blinks::
WHAT?!?!?!?!?!?!?!! And your best attempt at cautionary advice is 'If you don't think it's going to be fun don't bother'...?
Based on what we know about this guy already how likely is this to be a fun outcome for her?
How emotionally and physically devastating are all the potential risks associated with this guy....as compared to "fun"?
This isn't about the 'cult of virginity' unless by that you mean COMMON FUCKING SENSE and SELF-RESPECT (as practised by young women). It's called 'protecting your assets', including your coochie, your heart, your uterus, your motherfucking bank account, your reputation for having any motherfucking sense at all and your right to look out for your OWN damn interests just as much as he is.
Both these bishes need to GROW UP.
/hmph
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"Thr s n skng "ncly."
r y fckng kddng m? nc plld th pnts ff Mrmn grl nd nrly chkd t dth n th wrst ptch f n-trmmd bsh hv sn n my ntr lf. Thr s n xcs.
Hw bt "f y wnt m t dvlp TMJ nd wr t my tng n th nm f th lmghty thgh-trmblng cltrl rgsm...hw bt y grw p, kp yrslf cln nd d wht 99 prcnt f th mrcn pblc lrdy knws t d?"
n wht ltrnt rlty ds "trm yr pbs" snd lk "yr ss lks hg?"
Cn stp wshng my dck nd xpct tht thng nr yr thrt?
N? ddn't thnk s.
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Its fine to have a preference, its fine to not date girls who aren't completely shaved. But that's your issue, not hers.
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Okay, so this article totally reminded me of one of the major issues in my relationship to the point that pondering on it put me into a BLINDING RAGE. Does this mean I should submit a question? Please advise!
Blinded with RAGE!
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"Aretha: I don't care what he "says." It will mean something to him; it always does.
Oh really? Talk to me in ten years. This is why a 19 year-old doesn't need to be writing a sex advice column.
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I spent practically all of high school bored out of my mind of blowjobs and "phalanges-penetration" because I thought I had to save myself for marriage. Once I did lose it, I wanted to kick myself for not doing it sooner.
But, that's what you get when you grow up Catholic.
06/24/09
On another note, I think it's hysterically cute that she used the term phalanges-penetration. Honestly, adorable!
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Maybe this is just a petissue of mine, but it's really bothering me.
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Which, I guess, all grooming is, at a certain level. But your pubic hair doesn't stink up a conference room the way a lack of bathing does.
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DO NOT MARRY THE WIFE FETISHIST! I have a friend who did and nooooooooo. Unhappiness. Get out now. You can never be his "idea" of what a wife "should" be because she doesn't exist.
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I'm not saying this applies to all people, and I certainly don't judge those who are still virgins, I just wish I'd known that one day I'd be totally over the virginity thing and really regret all the years of fun I wasted.
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