I love "don't lose your mind in front of me. I don't give a fuck about you." in a totally matter-of-fact way. It's funny because it's true. #bridezillakaren
@pesematology: Right, she probably retold the story for the next month to anyone who would listen about this "low-class doorman," and how she doesn't have the time to worry about people like that. He probably forgot about her 10 seconds after he could no longer hear her screeching. #bridezillakaren
I watched the first episode that featured this girl. It also featured another bride who delivered my all-time favorite lines on TV of all time.
She was an hour late to her own rehearsal dinner, and one of her bridesmaids called and asked, "Where you at?" Her response, "It don't matta. It don't start till I get there."
I've been repeating it at every opportunity all day. Sometimes I think these women must be acting, playing it up for the cameras. The behavior is really so terrifically un-self aware and repugnant I find it hard to believe they could sustain any relationships if they were really like that. #bridezillakaren
And another thing, this whole Bridezilla bullshit needs to die. I hate that wedding shows often promote this crap. This ridiculous idea that you should get your friends and family together to celebrate your wedding and treat them like shit because "it's your day" needs to die. People fly out to attend your wedding, take time off, bring you gifts and you behave badly. Unacceptable!
I'm not talking about pre-wedding jitters, stress or nerves. I'm talking about asking people to lose weight, telling people their too fat or ugly to be on your train or in pics, yelling at your friends, disrespecting people. If you really want to start your married life off alienating those close to you go ahead. Otherwise, this shit has got to end, I'm so sick of being in weddings/hearing about weddings and having to bite my tongue because people are rude, inconsiderate and want what they want without being concerned about cost both financial and emotional. Enough!
@Eric Northman is mine: Agreed. That first clip was APPALLING. The second was bad, but I actually watched them in reverse order, so regency won out over primacy.
I'm not quite yet at the age where my friends are marrying off (it will be a while, they all need to finish med school, etc. first), but I have confidence none of them will act like this. Then again, I also choose my female friends carefully, to the point that sometimes I think that, if given the opportunity, they'll just visit the JP and spring to take their friends on a vacation rather than invest the moola in a one day shit show.
I was really struck while watching this clip that none of those women stood up to her BS. Either they thought:
1) She was justified because of the perceived social standing of the men they were interacting with (which means they're equally terrible) -or-
2) She was justified because "it's her day," as you mentioned.
Who. could. think. this. behavior. would. ever. be. ok????? #bridezillakaren
Except classy people don't go around talking about how much money they have. Even among the rich and socialites, before the nouveau riche, huge designer logos,sweet 16, fab life of type garbage pop culture moments, talking about how much money you had was deemed tacky. You just knew rich people were rich by how they carried themselves, company they kept etc.
Regardless, a classy person is someone who walks into a room and projects an air of confidence and poise and makes everyone feel comfortable....doesn't have a damn thing to do with money. Also did you see the look on her friends faces, i doubt she has 'real' friends, they probably just tolerate her because she rich. I pity her.
@Eric Northman is mine: Precisely. My Grandmother (rest her) would have given this woman the COLDEST lesson on civility, carriage and class. She may not have had a lot of money or friends in high places, but she sure as hell knew how to carry herself in such a manner that she showed respect for others and inspired respect for her. Money DNE Class. #teachesofpeaches ? #bridezillakaren
I have read that the producers of Bridezillas encourage the brides to be as rude and crazy as possible. I truly hope that this is why the brides on that show are such a stain on the reputation of brides everywhere (if not all women).
@lizherman001: I'm sure they do... but you can encourage me all you want, I'm not going to tell another human being that they are a pathetic loser because they make $9/hour. Encouraged or not. #bridezillakaren
A quick google search of "aspirational" and "wedding" gives 4 230 000 hits.
When I was little, I didn't understand the difference between old money and nouveau riche, as described by the Patmans and Fowlers in Sweet Valley High. Now I do. #bridezillakaren
I hope she doesn't call everyone "9 dollars an hour". Not just rude, but also, extremely redundant. It's like she's in an entitled rut. #bridezillakaren
@annebreal: She called at least two different people this in the 20 minutes I watched in the episode. I believe it's her "go-to" insult.
See, I was under the impression that almost everyone makes $9/hour (or less!) at some point in their lives, unless mommy and daddy are giving them money for free. I mean, I'm an attorney now, but I waited tables, was a hostess, washed dishes at a pizza place, etc. until I was one. I wonder what her deal was...hmmm.... #bridezillakaren
This Karen chick was so mean and angry. I wonder what happened to her to make her that way...I wish I could ask her what part of her life sucks so badly to lash out at others so much...but odds are she has no idea and was just spoiled her entire life and her mother and/or father likely act similarly.
However, she does have ridiculously good hair. I mean, super nice hair. #bridezillakaren
@Beckysharpstick: I think the men must have problems of their own. It reminds me of the classic guy from True Life: I'm Getting Married who creatively and profanely threatened the life of his own limo driver. In fact, I bet he'd divorce his wife to marry this chick.
This is how the uber-douchebags of the world procreate. #bridezillakaren
@NewsBunny: Mine always was, "C students run the world!" And they do. I don't remember who said it to me, but I suspect I was feeling bad about not being a straight-A student. And I have found since then that this person was absolutely right! #bridezillakaren
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I hear she has another TV appearance... #bridezillakaren
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She was an hour late to her own rehearsal dinner, and one of her bridesmaids called and asked, "Where you at?" Her response, "It don't matta. It don't start till I get there."
I've been repeating it at every opportunity all day. Sometimes I think these women must be acting, playing it up for the cameras. The behavior is really so terrifically un-self aware and repugnant I find it hard to believe they could sustain any relationships if they were really like that. #bridezillakaren
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I'm not talking about pre-wedding jitters, stress or nerves. I'm talking about asking people to lose weight, telling people their too fat or ugly to be on your train or in pics, yelling at your friends, disrespecting people. If you really want to start your married life off alienating those close to you go ahead. Otherwise, this shit has got to end, I'm so sick of being in weddings/hearing about weddings and having to bite my tongue because people are rude, inconsiderate and want what they want without being concerned about cost both financial and emotional. Enough!
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I'm not quite yet at the age where my friends are marrying off (it will be a while, they all need to finish med school, etc. first), but I have confidence none of them will act like this. Then again, I also choose my female friends carefully, to the point that sometimes I think that, if given the opportunity, they'll just visit the JP and spring to take their friends on a vacation rather than invest the moola in a one day shit show.
I was really struck while watching this clip that none of those women stood up to her BS. Either they thought:
1) She was justified because of the perceived social standing of the men they were interacting with (which means they're equally terrible) -or-
2) She was justified because "it's her day," as you mentioned.
Who. could. think. this. behavior. would. ever. be. ok????? #bridezillakaren
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3) They didn't want to call her out, because they were scared she'd turn on them, and they wouldn't be in the "cool" crowd any longer.
I recall this situation well from high school. #bridezillakaren
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Regardless, a classy person is someone who walks into a room and projects an air of confidence and poise and makes everyone feel comfortable....doesn't have a damn thing to do with money. Also did you see the look on her friends faces, i doubt she has 'real' friends, they probably just tolerate her because she rich. I pity her.
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When I was little, I didn't understand the difference between old money and nouveau riche, as described by the Patmans and Fowlers in Sweet Valley High. Now I do. #bridezillakaren
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See, I was under the impression that almost everyone makes $9/hour (or less!) at some point in their lives, unless mommy and daddy are giving them money for free. I mean, I'm an attorney now, but I waited tables, was a hostess, washed dishes at a pizza place, etc. until I was one. I wonder what her deal was...hmmm.... #bridezillakaren
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However, she does have ridiculously good hair. I mean, super nice hair. #bridezillakaren
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How is it that women like this are getting engaged? Is it really just looks and sex appeal? Do their partners/spouses feel ashamed? #bridezillakaren
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This is how the uber-douchebags of the world procreate. #bridezillakaren
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The meek shall inherit the earth
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Whatever you do to the least of my brothers, you do unto me
It's the 'nine dollar an hour' people who make this earth rotate. The cab driver who always gets me home -- even in a raging nor'easter.
The guy at the corner store in Queens who tells me to just come back tomorrow when I realize I forgot my wallet.
The guy parking cars in midtown who saw me once walking with tears coming out of my eyes and yelled at me -- Baby, is it THAT BAD?
Someday she's going to be in a position where she needs a hand up, and she's going to regret everything she's said.
I feel sorry for this woman's husband. #bridezillakaren
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