@Whiskey and Popcorn: I would say yes. Not for everyone, obviously, but I think it's possible. Because while I very rarely orgasm from oral sex, I am able to ejaculate from clitoral (vibrator) stimulation. So clitoral oral stimulation? Sure.
Holy carp, women's bodies perform in a variety of different ways as varies from biological organism to biological organism?!
Snark aside, this is a point I would like to see the medical community embrace more thoroughly in approaching patients on many topics, not just sexual, since there is significant diversity in how the human body behaves...
I must have a huge ladyPros then, because I get off, ahem, easy and have never had a non G-spot orgasm. I don't get how people get off clitorally as it does nothing for me.
@Whiskey and Popcorn: Vaginal stuff doesn't do anything for me. My girlfriend gets off on vag AND clit, which perplexed me quite a bit when we first started having sex.
The one thing that I appreciate about some pornography is that it has brought female ejaculation to the masses and now women are free let loose without the stigma that it is urine. In health class there is no mention of this and when I was younger I thought that I was urinating while orgasming.
That being said, it is a bit of a double edged sword because now a lot of people have fetishised it and expect it.
@thePrototype: Your second point about expectations is absolutely true. When I first started teaching human sexuality classes to college students, the big question was how to orgasm (period). Several years ago, it evolved to "how to do female ejaculation". Sexual pressure isn't good for anyone.
@debbyherbenick: I agree, pressure is no good, relaxation is key. On the other hand, many men are very task oriented, and if they have an end goal in sight with visible results they MAY be more willing to work hard to achieve that goal.
@thePrototype: How about making the goal learning (by whatever senses--observing, asking, tasting, touching, smelling, and so forth) what gives an individual woman her particular pleasures, and then having a great time helping her reach those feelings?
I'm taking a lot of comfort in the fact that the range of women's abilities is biologically determined. Maybe now I'll stop feeling like I'm just doing it wrong!!
@JerseyGrrrl: Also, I think it can just be a little bit random. I never did until about a year into my relationship with my boyfriend - never with previous partners, and not at first with him. Somehow it just clicked I guess.
According to Whipple, when Philadelphia gynaecologist Martin Weisberg saw their report he said: "Bull... I spend half my waking hours examining, cutting apart, putting together, removing or rearranging female reproductive organs... Women don't ejaculate."
Excellent. Now when I wear the lab coat, I can have more scientific dirty talk. "Hey, baby, why don't you get on over here and apply some pressure to my prostate tissue."
@morninggloria: Or just reach out to the genius behind the Cock Bib. Surely his hatred of bodily fluids, coupled with his exceptional mind, could provide a solution to this gross problem. ;)
@mbprice: I don't want to put anything that's had anything to do with Billy Mays anywhere near my vagina. I'm pretty sure it would sense his influence and shrivel up like a salted slug.
@dissolver: I'M GONNA MAKE YOU EJACULATE, BABY! DON'T BELIEVE ME? IF YOU DON'T CUM ALL OVER THIS SKEET SHEET, I'LL LET YOU KEEP THIS FREE GIFT OF A LIFETIME SUPPLY OF MIGHTY PUTTY FOR FREE!
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Snark aside, this is a point I would like to see the medical community embrace more thoroughly in approaching patients on many topics, not just sexual, since there is significant diversity in how the human body behaves...
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That being said, it is a bit of a double edged sword because now a lot of people have fetishised it and expect it.
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I bet this Weisberg guy is really good in bed.
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